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well about a month ago me and my best went to a b-ball game with our friends. we were sitting at a table and she was talking to her mom on my cell phone. her mom made her stay at her dads house cause her mom wanted to party and she kept asking her mom why, why, but why! so i told her to hurry and that i was gonna get in trouble because im not allowed to use my minutes! and she hung up on her mom and gave me the phone and when i tried to talk to her she told me off and she didnt talk to me for the rest of the night. so the next day she told everybody that were not talking. so i wrote her a letter so we could talk about it calmly and i asked for a truths and she went off and every other word in her letter was the f word and i wrote back trying to be nice and she said that she could hold a grudge. we havent talked in a month and i really miss her. its hard to go through high school without her. i made this dvd with all our pictures in it asking again for a truths. should i give it 2 her?

2007-03-09 09:52:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

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Well... she was having a conversation with her mother, and you were like "hurry up!" That's sort of harsh. If you weren't supposed to use the phone in the first place, then you shouldn't have let her use it at all. Or, you could have explained to your parents that a friend was talking to HER parent, because she needed to find out where she was staying that night. I'm sure they wouldn't have been that mad.

2007-03-09 10:01:51 · answer #1 · answered by It's Just My Opinion 4 · 0 0

Obviously from your letter her parents are not living together or whatever and as most divorce cases the child is not the primary consideration. If you were in her shoes and your mom was wanting to go out and pawn you off on your dad so she could how would you feel. Would her minutes on the cell phone trying to solve conflict in her life be as important as needing your mom to be around and in her life. Sometimes the things we give to our friends is not so much material things but being observant that they are experiencing difficulty with something. In this case, your friend difficulty turned into two things to deal with and one of them made the matters worse and filled the world with emotion. Give her some space to sort out her feelings and don't press too hard. Life sucks when the person you look up to fails you or the person you depend on has something else more important than you and shuffles you to the side. Walk a mile in her shoes and maybe you could see how to best help her. Maybe you are not the bad guy in the scenario but are getting the brunt of how she feels.

2007-03-09 18:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by andyman 4 · 0 0

dont beg for her friendship back like a little puppy. that's just ridiculous. friendships aren't just a one way thing. so if she's not responding..or willing to do her part and sort this out..then why should you? you've tried. now it's up to her.

and hunny it's not your fault. maybe things aren't going so hot with her and her mom..so she's angry about that, and you're the only person she can take it out on. so don't leave her..just quit begging and give her some time.

2007-03-09 18:01:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I think you should give it to her. But I just don't understand why she would get so mad if she was your friend she should of thought about you to and known you can't use up all your minutes. It's a shame she would throw away a friendship over that. I would give it to her what's the worst.

2007-03-09 17:59:30 · answer #4 · answered by latina 2 · 0 0

Try sending her the DVD. If that doesnt make her change her mind call her and just tell her "please listen to what i have to say.. I really miss being friends with you. And Im confused as to why your still mad at me.."

I wish you the best of luck

2007-03-09 18:05:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

yes. but i doubt she will take u back. if she holds a grudge for this long, its time to get a new friend. im sorry but this is the cold hard truth.

2007-03-09 18:22:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

yes give it to her i bet she misses u 2 u were rite to have her give u yyourr phone. if she wrote the f word she's must not have a very good vocab.

2007-03-09 18:00:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i think you should and when you give it to her you should have a note with it saying that" you can't go through high school without her and you really want to be friends again"

2007-03-09 18:18:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

yes you should give it to her,even if she is mad at you,don't let some stupid mess up ruin your friendship with her.goodluck!

2007-03-09 18:18:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You know your friend better than I do.

2007-03-09 17:57:36 · answer #10 · answered by SMARTER THAN YOU 2 · 0 0

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