We met about a month and a half ago and every time I talk to him our goals seem more & more the same. HELP!!!!
2007-03-09 09:45:45 · 36 answers · asked by Malmal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you feel this way because its all new to both of you. Wait couple of months that is when things usually start changing. If you don't want for it to change make a pact between you two to be yourselves and to be honest! don't try to impress him by changing your way of thinking only for him to get to like you! if he is talking to you he likes you already!! good luck!
2007-03-09 09:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by alma c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, I don't know how to explain it cuz that's what love is but yeah you definitely can. I have been with my husband ever since I was 15 and he was 14. I fell so deep in love with him in less than a month and I knew we were going to be together for a long long while. We have been through so much and I can't explain anything I feel except for saying love is unbelievable and it can move the biggest mountains in the world. Yes, I'm sure ur falling in love. I'd say a month and a half is plenty long enough to fall in love.
2007-03-09 10:00:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no doubt about it, it is possible to fall in love with a guy after a month and a half. Love is cannot be measured by time but on your feelings. But just don't confuse love for lust. Wish you all the best with this guy.
2007-03-09 09:57:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's definitely possible; friendship grows over time and as you get to know your companions you may discover things that may make you feel like he's the one. I think if you fall in love with a guy after a long time is actually good because you know him better; you know his fears, goals, likes, dislikes more than ever. If you want to spend the rest of your life with this man, I say go for it.
2007-03-09 09:50:25 · answer #4 · answered by skinny piggy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, I think you might be attracted to him and enjoy his company. Love is a strong word and it develops with time. Don't go crazy over this guy. Get to know him better, take things slow, and do everything in a balance so you both will appreciate each other. Talking to this guy excessively might cause a distance or one of you might lose interest. So my advice for you is take things slow, enjoy life, and the rest will come on its own.
2007-03-09 09:54:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it can happen actually some people fall in love the min they lay eyes on each other its called Love at first sight
you seem like you are happy and I wish you the best of luck
2007-03-09 09:51:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because your goals are the same doesnt mean you are falling in love. People also get love and infatuation mixed up.
2007-03-09 09:59:00 · answer #7 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes... anything is possible. But love is very deep.... its more then just goals... or dreams.... or smiles... its everything. Dont rush into love it will hit u when u least expect it.... but if u feel its righ then u dont need 2 ask any1.... just believe in whats in ur heart and thats all the reassurance you need 2 listen 2.
good luck
x
2007-03-09 09:52:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah for me it was like love at first site we got enaged only after 6 months been together as in married almost 8yrs now.
2007-03-09 09:51:46 · answer #9 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO its lust, I am in the same situation. As time goes on you will start seeing eachothers faults and the turn offs will kick in. That is when you will see the love happen, if you can accept him for who he is and love him just the same.
2007-03-09 09:49:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋