This guy follows me around and everyone knows he likes me. But there's a problem... I don't like him. He follows me around and I can't just be mean and tell him to buzz off. I know I'm too nice, but I can't bring myself to be mean. He's called a bunch of times and always wants us to do things together and with his family... Well... This guy is THICK... He can't take any sort of hint... good ideas to get him away from me?
2007-03-09 09:44:23 · 14 answers · asked by charterskoolbrat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, first it might be useful to learn to say no to something. If you can't do that, you may want to come up with a list of excuses that you could use if he calls. Also, if you have caller ID, you need to remember that the phone is there for you, not others. If you don't want to talk to him, and it say's it's him on the caller ID, don't pick it up. I know that sounds really mean and such, but, it works. Hope it helps!
2007-03-09 10:14:07 · answer #1 · answered by Random answerer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur friends to tell him to bug off. u dont like him so u cant be paranoyyed with him ok?? well if he has ur phone number, dont pick up and tell him one day at school u changed numbers and u cant remember urs. if he asks one of ur friends, then tell them to tell him some random number. after tht he sould get the idea. sometimes, people just have to face the facts. and maybe some heartbreak. hope all goes well. best wishes.
2007-03-09 09:54:06 · answer #2 · answered by ummm....i dont know! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh, I really don't like situations like this lol. What you should do, is talk to him, and lay down the law. Plainly say that you don't like him, no questions about it, and say that you would appreciate it if he backed off a little. I know how hard it is to do this type of stuff, I am a much-too-nice person too lol.
2007-03-09 09:48:41 · answer #3 · answered by tasca50 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way is just to approach him and tell him off otherwise you will never get rid of this guy i know im just like you but sometimes a girls gotta do what a girls gotta do you know?
2007-03-09 09:48:17 · answer #4 · answered by xxKittenxHarukaxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good ideas that don't include telling him quite directly that you aren't interested? Nope. Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind. Besides, if you tell him that he just has no chance with you, he'll geto over it.
2007-03-09 09:52:33 · answer #5 · answered by Chris D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rudeness is not the answer. Continue to be too busy to accept his invitations. He'll get tired of getting nowhere eventually.
2007-03-09 09:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him like you would ask a friend to give you some space for about two weeks, hopefully he will forget about you and move on.... or tell a teacher that he is constantly bothering you... privatly of course..
2007-03-09 09:47:44 · answer #7 · answered by Q&A 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents, the principle, and the police.
2007-03-09 09:47:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him he is sweet but u just dont like him like that then direct him toward a girl that is more his type
2007-03-09 09:50:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the cops and tell them
2007-03-09 09:51:49 · answer #10 · answered by Dr Universe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋