My husbands ex-girlfriend is still calling my brother in-law and using my brother in-law to tell my husband that she wants to be friends and trying to get information about us. WHAT IS THE BEST THING TO HANDLE THIS SITUATION?????
2007-03-09 09:42:03 · 8 answers · asked by jinky l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
call the police and make a harrasment complaint.
2007-03-09 10:00:32 · answer #1 · answered by skcs11 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your brother-in-law wants to be friends with your husband's ex, that is his business. However, your husband should tell his brother not to discuss his marriage and private life with her.
2007-03-09 09:46:03 · answer #2 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you letting this woman's behaviour upset you? You can only be upset if you allow someone else to upset you.
It is not a situation for YOU to deal with. Back off.
It is for your BIL to tell her to stop calling. He needs to be assertive and tell her your hub has no interest in her and he is married and she needs to back off. Then hang up. Then, if she continues to call the bil should just say "I am not discussing anything with you." and hang up. And he should no longer tell you and hub when she calls- it is serving no purpose other than upsetting you.
Or even better, have your hub call her and tell her straight out that he does not want to hear from her and to stop calling. And hang up.
There is also caller ID and call blocking.
Focus on your marriage, not on a stupid distraction. Be positive and move forward.
2007-03-09 10:41:36 · answer #3 · answered by CYP450 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like your brother in law should be talked to first. Tell him not to tell her anyhting about what you'll do it's not her business. ANd tell him if he is mad at you for marrying his brother. If he says no then ask him why are you doing this. ANd tell your husband to tell his brother to keep out of you'll business. AND if you know the ex-gf of your husband go tell her to keep out of yoru business because she had her chance and your husband chose you not her.
2007-03-09 09:48:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ignore her and then tell your brother in law that he needs to stay out of it and to kindly tell her to stop calling him. And if that doesn't work, approach her directly and tell her you don't want to be friends. People usually don't like to be confronted and this is a good way to nip it in the bud.
2007-03-09 09:49:05 · answer #5 · answered by menkette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your husband about it, make sure he talks to his brother and let him know that is not cool for him to give him messages and stuff. Make sure your husband doesnt want to talk to her otherwise it would be pointless.
2007-03-09 10:03:31 · answer #6 · answered by kathernva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the situation die on it's own - she'll figure out that he's married and not going anywhere
2007-03-09 09:45:32 · answer #7 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it doesn't die down on it's own, confront her and tell her kindly to move on
2007-03-09 09:52:14 · answer #8 · answered by www.japanvideogames.com 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋