why m GF dosent care..?

Question

i am 25 she is 21, we meet four months ago, when she broke up with her ex, she had a two year long relationship with her ex, it took her a while to like me. During our four month relationship, she kissed another guy and said she was drunk and was thinking about how her ex betrayed him, i forgive her after that.

But after we stared again she was still kind of stuck to her past, two weeks before i came to know she is pregnant, we had our fight over abortion, finally we decided to go with her decision to keep the child, i asked her if she is hinding something from me, she told me she slept with two more guys which she never told me, fooled around with couple and had oral with few.

Now i was shoked but still trying to forgive her, but she never seems to care about my feelings, whever i need to talk to her about why she lied she throws me out, she treats me like her servent, i told her to delete the pics of her past once she was relectunt to do that, she still sometime thinks of him..

now we r on verge of breaking up, i cannot take it anymore, she has never showed that she cared for me, i know for sure that she used to run behind her ex, whenever they used to fight, but with me she never care, she thinks i will come back to her like i do everytime.

But now i feel i have no self respect, she throws me out everytime i keep running behind her, what should i do, should i accept her for sake of kid, or should i finally break up.

She has broken my heart many times, i decided many time to die, but somehow i survive, if i gave her more and more chance, she can keep breaking my heart, but i love her and now she has my kid its also hard to break up with her

Do you think she loves me, or she just need me for money and emotional support, do u think she controls me in our relationship, plz suggest something

Answer 1

She just want's your money , you should break up with her, And you should have full rights to have the kid.

Answer 2

It's not your fault she had a rough relationship and she should not have been in a relationship until she's over her ex. It's not also your duty to to take all that crap to help her get over her ex. Even having a horrible past relationship is no excuse for her or for anyone to be such a horrible person mistreating and disrespecting the people who is helping, caring and loving. On the contrary, she should have realized the difference between you and her ex and appreciated everything you did for her and would have been very thankful and loving for you.

I understand when a woman like that thinks she got the man for granted, she treats him like crap and expect him to come back every time as he did before.

This woman have no respect and no love for you. She cheated on you many times and she always will. "Once a cheater, is always a cheater" is correct most of time if it's not correct all the time. She has been fooling around with guys, how can you be sure this is your baby? Paternal test is a must.

Don't give her more chances or time to hurt and disrespect you and your manhood. She will break your heart over and over again.

Break up with her asap. You owe her nothing. I know you feel obligated and kind of responsible for her and feel she needs you to get over the hard time and the love you have for her make it very hard to walk away from her, just pull it together and break it up with her. She will never change. She needs medications and counseling, she does not seem like a sane person.

I have been in the same exact situation for more than a year, it took me over a year to break it. I gave her so many chances but she never changed. All my friends advised my to leave her but I was stubborn and let her mistreat me and disrespect me over and over hoping she would change and believing in second chance but it all turned out to be a fantasy.

Please, take my advice as from a guy who has been in your situation for over a year. Also, don't let her deceive you by tears or false promises that she would change because she will possibly do that after a while of breaking up with her. She cares only about herself and her best interest only, she seems very selfish and self-centered.

BTW, I'm almost your age. I'm 24.

I wish you the best of luck. You can email me to talk if you want.

Answer 3

this is a no brainer,but i know it will be tough for u because of ur emotions,the answer is simple she is not good for u! in every relationship there needs to be respect and she does not respect you it is most unfortunate but she is with you because she wants to get over him and she believes that she is entitled to that because of the past,moreover she has no consideration for ur feelings...if someone cheats on u once that can be a mistake but twice is one too many and considering all the times she did it i am surprised u r still wondering what to do...plus u r screwed because of the baby,but other than that the only thing u should do is break up as soon as u can because if u wait any longer she might hurt u more and more and by the time u would have realized its time to get out (if she hasn t left u already) u might have amassed too many scars deep inside,she is one of those women that men ought to avoid and u r better leaving as soon as u can. take it from me i am speaking from experience.

Answer 4

Your problem sounds big!! It sounds like she hasnt let go of her ex and for you may be a big problem because it will take her longer than you want for her to get over him!!. Does she get drunk all the time...is that why she has been with so many guys?? I dont wanna be rude but it sounds like she has a problem mentaly and emotionaly!! After so many times of tryin to forgive her you will be to the point where you dont want to be with her anymore! if you dont like the way she is treating you then you need to get out now before you get serious with her and then it will be harder on you when you two do split!! I'm not meaning to be mean but its all true!! My best wishes are out to you and your girlfriend!! Good Luck!! =)

Answer 5

all I know is that if its yours, and you better get a paternity test done, but if its yours you will be stuck with child support for the next 18 years. First I would find out if it was mine, if it was I would pay child support and visit, and be a father to the baby, but to hell with its whore of a mother. You can do better than that.