how do i change this? i really need tips because im always falling for the wrong guys, at the wrong time, too quickly. Please help!?!?!
2007-03-09 09:20:35 · 8 answers · asked by whoahcalleex0 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u have to be patient..if u cant u can practise with me...will u?
2007-03-09 09:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Patience. You have to have patience with life. Falling in love is not something that happens that quickly in most cases. I am afflicted with the same condition that you are. It is easy to fall in love but to truly be in love is something different. There are caution signs for those that fall in love too quickly though and when in love you cannot read signs, I know I tried. Falling in love too quickly is just a timing thing, slow down the process some. If he is falling in love with you too, you will know as we guys give signs to let you know what we are feeling for the most part. Do not worry your self esteem is working overtime and some will see that as desparation and we know that it really is not but popular opinion may be labeled inspite of your objections or approval, Guys that see this are the ones that in that scene for one reason only. Slow down as there is not time limit in the game of love. Make it a point to see as many people as you want and do not limit yourself, participate in gatherings or public functions with other men and women. There is no hurry so stop falling in love and start living life. When love is ready it will find you, trust me.
2007-03-09 17:33:23 · answer #2 · answered by andyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to me like you are love starved, and when someone shows you the littlest of emotion you latch on, I know, I am like you too, maybe you could be afraid of being alone, or don't know how to actually live a life on your own, in reality there isnt much you can do about it, just try and hold back your impulse to fall for these men, look for quality and what they can offer you, and you them! Good Luck and I Hope you can find yourself!!!
2007-03-09 17:27:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're young and it's just a phase. Once you mature more you will learn to guard that heart and be more cautious because the ones we give ourselves to take advantage and they are lessons learned. So, relax and don't make it a big deal. Keep your head up and use self talk. (I will take things slow, only ones who are worthy deserve me, etc.) and it will make you a stronger person. Smile!!!
2007-03-09 17:32:56 · answer #4 · answered by LT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be strong don't lose your focus, concentrate on what's most important in your life, like education and family.
2007-03-09 17:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guard your heart.
2007-03-09 17:22:58 · answer #6 · answered by precious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me too.... I am not sure how to help it either! Sorry couldn't help ya more!
2007-03-09 17:23:24 · answer #7 · answered by desperado 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what u mean, just try to forget about it. i know it is hard to do...
2007-03-09 17:24:29 · answer #8 · answered by rebel5689 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋