i mean he likes to run. he even ran the marathon on the fourth of this month anyways were both in to that but we just say hello and goodbye when we see eachother and i want to talk to him more but i dont know how? . so can you help me please ........... thank you
2007-03-09 09:16:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Initiating conversation is easier than most people think. I'll often make comments about whatever happens to be on my mind.
I have even had success joking about awkward silence. Certainly the running connection is a good one ("Hey, I heard you ran a marathon"). You can make jokes ("are you undressing me with your eyes" - has worked for me before, so long as they know you are joking). You can comment on class if you're n school, you can mention that you are sore from running.
I have found that when I am feeling comfortable and am not worrying about whether the person will think what I am saying is stupid, than the conversation is always easy and fun.
2007-03-09 09:19:49 · answer #1 · answered by FSJD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what his interests are other than the marathons. Ask him out for a cup of coffee. There is nothing wrong with the woman asking the guy out to get to know him as friends.
If you have common interests, the conversation should just flow naturally. Talk about what interests you. See if you have anything in common.
Tell him you want to get to know him better as friends.
2007-03-09 17:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him about his run, say sumfin like "were you happy with your run the other day" just to get to talking and he may open up and you could be set off... he seems rather shy too and one of you have to make the move. Just be yourself and dont put on a fake voice or extra makeup or anything unusual, smile alot and continue the convo with perhaps "what was your best time and what is your next race" things like that - then it will move on. Good Luck, remember nothing ventured, nothing gained.
2007-03-09 17:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by gudsport 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about things that are you are comfortable with. Start by asking questions about him, then when you find something that both of you have in common just run with it. Eventually, as you talk more and more to him, the conversation will soon become spicy!
2007-03-09 17:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by lilcal723 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On Monday ask him how his weekend was. If it's closer to the end of the week, ask if he has any plans. Or ask if he's seen a particular movie because you're thinking about going to see it, and then if he says he did, you have something to talk about. If he says he didn't, then ask him if that's not his kind of movie or if he recommends anything else.
2007-03-09 17:21:09 · answer #5 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start talking to him! About anything, running, sports, weather, school/work, etc. If you really like him, you don't want to waste time. Hurry before he finds someone else! I hope this helps. Good luck!
nicole
2007-03-09 17:21:17 · answer #6 · answered by nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well start by walking passed him alot becuase he starts to notice you more make him lokk by walking by with a friend lokking back and laughing he'll think ur talking about him then say hi once in a while perhaps bring up a movie or fav animal or color
2007-03-09 17:22:06 · answer #7 · answered by briana.wruck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you act like you've twiested your ankle..
or in the break ask him about anything you want ..
in the marathon run in front of him ..that he can notice you ..
2007-03-09 17:27:13 · answer #8 · answered by ^^ANGEL^^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-09 17:20:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u ask him anything...
2007-03-09 17:19:08 · answer #10 · answered by rebel5689 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋