Family & Relationships - 9 March 2007

I've been seiing her since Sept. we fell in love in late Oct.everthing was good except I talked to 2 other women, they meant nothing to me, one was a friend that she even knew that I talked to, she asked me in early Jan. if I was talking to other women, I lied and told her no, only because I didn't want to hurt her feelings, not to hide it from her. Then I told her the truth, she was upset with me , which I don't blame her. But their is more to the story but what I need is ideas,or words to show her that she can trust me now. I love her and realize that she is the one that I want to spend the rest of my life with, she is so special. I know that you fall in love many times in your lifetime but then you find the one that you want to end your life with loving only her and she is the one, I know that I have never been this deeply in love before. And I need help in expressing this to her.

2007-03-09 14:15:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am sending a sympathy card. What should I write inside besides sorry for your loss. Their 6 yr old daughter died. Shoud I write a memory I had of her?? She was in my sons class. They are both deaf. They were supposed to graduate together. Its like they are family. Although I never met her parents. I did know her

2007-03-09 14:14:25 · 8 answers · asked by missy e 1 in Friends

2007-03-09 14:14:17 · 18 answers · asked by ♥ Ladylike ♥ 6 in Singles & Dating

I feel like I have to force him to spend time with me.And when he does spend time with me, its for like 2 hrs, then goes right back to his video game. I feel like this stupid game is his escape from me. He gets mad at me when I bring up the fact that he plays too much. Im always 2nd in his life. I feel like we both work so much, that when I come home, he should want to stay with me. He says I make him miserable, but thats only because I love being around him, and he thinks it's to much. he feels that he shouldnt have to spend every minute with me, and hes right..but i shouldn't be second best either. i would never put him second. I dont know what to do.

2007-03-09 14:14:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what is the best hate mail you have ever sent? i need some good ones

2007-03-09 14:14:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 14:13:51 · 7 answers · asked by Dope 1 in Singles & Dating

Alright so i have a girlfriend and we have been seeing each other for 2 years and 4 months now. I love her to death. Last night i was out partying...had a few to many beers smoked a few to many blunts and she called me. I wasn't that drunk at the time but i told her "i can't talk bye I'm at a party bye" I guess she was insulted because she then sent me a message asking me why i didn't invite her i told her i forgot which i did....and it was mostly the guys. I don't bring her to parties she's to almost "straight edge." Well after that I called her today and she told me she was on a "date kind-of" and asked if she could call me later....

-what in gods name does this mean??-
she then just hung up on me and wouldn't talk to me...

WHAT IS GOING ON?

2007-03-09 14:13:50 · 10 answers · asked by Mark 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is that that men always go for a woman that is taken??

It just burns my sauce!!

2007-03-09 14:13:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sadly as is stereotypical in movies, my fifteen year old cousin does not get along with his stepfather. He calls me frequently for advice, but other than common sense somewhat cliched words of wisdom I really have nothing to offer him that hasn't been tried already (such as trying to see it from his perspective or trying to find similar interests, etc). The tension between them, which they're both at fault for making worse at times with verbal baiting and goading during their frequent arguments, is placing his mom in a very awkward position and putting a tremendous strain on her relationship with her husband. I know she's run out of ideas and is swiftly running out of hope in many respects. Stepdads, stepkids, what methods have you found helpful in trying to reach a happy medium? Right now it's too much to ask that they form any kind of friendship (I'm not sure they ever will), but what might I suggest that will help them coexist more civily?

2007-03-09 14:12:56 · 5 answers · asked by JM 2 in Family

Does he know all the details? Where we're going? We know he wants strippers and alcohol, but does he have to know the details?

2007-03-09 14:12:03 · 8 answers · asked by DG 2 in Weddings

OK, long story but...
So one of my friends is really into becoming popular and stuff. I do a lot of stuff with her, but lately she's been forming her own little posse with some other girls and getting into trouble and saying things behind ppl's backs. She still acts all nicey to me, but I can tell it's fake. (I'll call her friend A) Recently, A got a boyfriend. I was rly happy for her at first, but then she starts advertising it everywhere, saying how she made-out with him and she doesn't want to talk to anyone unless it's about her bf. She's been acting rly mean 2 one of my other friends too. Anyway, another RLY good friend of mine (friend B) is also good friends with A, and she just A is "just acting a tiny bit crazy". Well, today, I heard A saying something rly mean about one of my friends. When she waled away, B asked me "What's wrong?" and said "She needs to stop acting like a dyke." Well for some reason, B thought I was calling HER a dyke, and got super pissed at me.
tbc...

2007-03-09 14:11:39 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-09 14:11:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He is really sweet. My best friend and I don't know how to tell him I like him. My friends say we look cute togather but, I don't know. Help me please!!!

2007-03-09 14:10:37 · 13 answers · asked by cutelittlebitch_130 2 in Singles & Dating

I like a guy at school who is a junior and is 17, I am a freshman and 15. We are both in JROTC and share a lot of common interests. We flirt a lot and he hugs me all the time. Today after school he asked for my phone #. Do you think he likes me?

2007-03-09 14:10:24 · 6 answers · asked by BRC91 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 14:10:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know this has been an ongoing debate about which is harder, going to work and raising kids or being a stay at home mom. Just wondering what some of you thought about it and why. I used to work full time with 2 children, do ALL the cleaning and half of the cooking, plus I was the driver to and from daycare and getting them ready every day and then going to work. So I can say i've done it both ways and I really think staying at home is harder. There is no relief. You don't get a day off, a sick day, you take your work with you on vacation, and so on. Yes you can PAY a sitter to get away. It's the only job I know that you don't get paid to do, and you have to pay to take time away! LOL!!!

2007-03-09 14:09:24 · 11 answers · asked by nymom 5 in Family

2007-03-09 14:08:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

No bad words please !!!!! Just angry words that aren't bad !!

2007-03-09 14:08:39 · 6 answers · asked by katelyn.wallace 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it normal when guys get mad at someone else and take it out on their girl friends?ok here what happened I was talking to me bf and someone got him mad and he willn't tell me who got him mad or what they did.I understand that but he just stoped talking to me and he acted all mad at me.and I am worried about him.And I hate it when people him mad because he takes it out on me and that hurts.

2007-03-09 14:08:24 · 8 answers · asked by a girl in love 2 in Singles & Dating

...for a character I am creating?
My character is one of those shallow people who is always obsessed with what's in and trying to follow the latest trend.
I need some help thinking up couple of different trends or fads for my character to go through,
eg. Hippy, Gangster etc. and I need costume ideas and the way she would talk etc.
Any help or ideas would be great!

2007-03-09 14:08:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

did it end up working out? WHat caused the separation and what was the solution?

2007-03-09 14:07:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok i dated this guy for about 4 months and we broke up. neither one of us have moved on at all. we still both love each other and he was dating this girl who i kind of dont like cuz of all the stuff she put him thru. anyways they broke up like two days ago i think and now hes coming to me about it. weve talked about getting back together and everyone says we make a great couple and we will get back together one of these days. are we meant to be?

2007-03-09 14:07:12 · 14 answers · asked by blondie 2 in Singles & Dating

call 609 705-5521 and ask my ex fiance to have his new girlfirend jackie to stop calling me? i am very depressed and cant stop crying

2007-03-09 14:05:13 · 5 answers · asked by theartisttwin 5 in Singles & Dating

How does one get over a terrible shyness around women. I've had a lot of bad relationships and a few short flings that just tare the heart strings. I'm almost afraid to try to start over again but I'm tired of being alone. How does one get over being shy in social situations and the terror of being rejected? When I get into social situations I have this great need to run and hide. What can I do?

2007-03-09 14:04:43 · 13 answers · asked by Lightstar 2 in Singles & Dating

I really like this girl but I don't know if she likes me....we talk a lot and we call each other....we see each other at church and we go to the same bible study and we had lunch together for the first time today...she called me today and asked me if we could move the lunch to a different location b/c it's our spring break and her ride was arriving earlier than expected...she said she didn't want to cancel because he wanted to have lunch with me...the way she talks to me, it seems like she does but I can't tell...when I met her for lunch, her roommate and her guy friend were with her and her roommate kept asking me all kinds of questions...like interrogating me...when Courtney)the girl I like), her roommate, the guy friend, and I went back to their room, it was a mixture of her talking to me and getting to know me better and her talking to her guy friend...I don't know if she likes me or him...please help me make sense of this...should I giv up or pursue it?

2007-03-09 14:04:12 · 7 answers · asked by Michael W 1 in Singles & Dating

And she can't watch a movie half way into it. She has to see it from the beginning. OK, many of you will agree with that but the CSI thing bugs me.

2007-03-09 14:03:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My exbf and I have a one year old son together. We went through a lot but to make a long story short it didnt work out and he married another women( she can have him)
she is now pregnant also and him and I are not speaking except through are lawyers. She contacted me today and said she was in trouble and wanted me to meet her. She is 7 months pregnant and I am sure it is about my ex.( he is avery bad person) I told her I dont want to get involved, it took me years to break from his control. IS that right what I said

2007-03-09 14:03:38 · 28 answers · asked by Kelly K 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont get why my parents are still married. they dont really like each other, my mom doesnt even like talkiing to my dad. my mom told me last summer she was cheating on my dad with a guy she worked with, then when i told my dad, she lied and said she was joking but i know her and she wasn't. i know she still cheats on him with that guy, by the way she talks to him on the phone at work and how she always tries to hide her text messeages when someone walks by, and also when i see that guy he won't look at me in the eyes. does anyone else just wish there parents would end a pointless relationship?

2007-03-09 14:03:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend just broke up with me. He said I didn't talk enough and I really meant to. He just doesn't know he leaves me speechless. (He didn't make an effort to talk either though)
Anyways, I REALLY like him and my best friend told me he still likes me.
I want to get back together with him, but I don't know how to ask him.
What would be the best way to ask him?
(by the way im in 7th grade)

2007-03-09 14:02:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my two freinds are going out with each other. i'm afraid that they might hurt each other. what should i do?

2007-03-09 14:02:10 · 7 answers · asked by baby V 1 in Friends