Is it normal when guys get mad at someone else and take it out on their girl friends?ok here what happened I was talking to me bf and someone got him mad and he willn't tell me who got him mad or what they did.I understand that but he just stoped talking to me and he acted all mad at me.and I am worried about him.And I hate it when people him mad because he takes it out on me and that hurts.
2007-03-09 14:08:24 · 8 answers · asked by a girl in love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's not normal but it happens....it is misdirected anger. You have to let it be clear that you treat each other with respect and if someone gets you mad than you deal with them in that matter...not you.
Stand up and be clear!
2007-03-09 14:12:35 · answer #1 · answered by fade_this_rally 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it's time for you to find a new boyfriend. Something that your boyfriend should realize is that the world doesn't revolve around him and people aren't always going to do things to make him happy. It's fine to get mad, in fact it's not normal to not get mad every once in a while. He should never ever take it out on you though. There are plenty of guys out there who know how to treat a woman, if your boyfriend is going to take his anger out on you, tell him goodbye and find a guy who knows how to deal with his emotions. If he takes his anger out on you physically, that's really not cool and you should call the cops or get a restraining order.
2007-03-09 14:14:12 · answer #2 · answered by MrMarblesTI 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll somep people need just to be mad at the world for a few minutes and you keep acting nice and asking alot of questions really make everything so much worse tell himto talk to you later mabe in a half hour or just 10 min
2007-03-09 14:12:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never bug a guy to "share his feelings" when he is mad about something. When w come down from being mad we will talk about it. Just wait it out.
2007-03-09 14:14:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call it normal but he needs to know how his behavior affects you or it could turn into something other than hurt feelings.
2007-03-09 14:14:51 · answer #5 · answered by Tommy Lee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it,s not. he needs to stay away from you and take a walk to chill out, it,s verble a bouse when he takes it out on you.stay a way from him when he,s mad.
2007-03-09 14:13:29 · answer #6 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is immature, whatever age he is at. Tell him that his attitude is just not acceptable to you.
2007-03-09 14:14:11 · answer #7 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, it's only gonna get worse... MAN YOU ARE HOT!!!!
2007-03-09 14:11:31 · answer #8 · answered by PrettyEskimo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋