Alright so i have a girlfriend and we have been seeing each other for 2 years and 4 months now. I love her to death. Last night i was out partying...had a few to many beers smoked a few to many blunts and she called me. I wasn't that drunk at the time but i told her "i can't talk bye I'm at a party bye" I guess she was insulted because she then sent me a message asking me why i didn't invite her i told her i forgot which i did....and it was mostly the guys. I don't bring her to parties she's to almost "straight edge." Well after that I called her today and she told me she was on a "date kind-of" and asked if she could call me later....
-what in gods name does this mean??-
she then just hung up on me and wouldn't talk to me...
WHAT IS GOING ON?
2007-03-09 14:13:50 · 10 answers · asked by Mark 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've never brought her to a single party. She gets so mad but i know she'd get mad if i smoked pot but to be honest even if she was there i'd still smoked. I've blazed with her before twice. I just don't want her to see the "wild" side of me..I've told her that. I just i don't want her at parties...is that such a bad thing?
2007-03-09 14:25:19 · update #1
Woah! That is intense. Hopefully she is only saying that to try to get you riled up.
If she is not, and she did go out with someone else, your situation is certainly changed and you will have to decide how you want to deal with her cheating, if you consider.
Honestly, I would be up front with her, telling her that you were drinking and maybe telling her about getting high, but that your actions were never intended to cause her pain, while hers, even if she was not on a date, were done only to cause you pain.
That, in my opinion, is wrong.
I'd make that distinction to her - while your actions may have been, at worst, thoughtless, hers were intended to be mean and harmful and if fact were.
2007-03-09 14:16:44 · answer #1 · answered by FSJD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man she was just trying to do to you what you did to her by leaving you in the dark. She's probably out with her girlfriend's shopping or someting. But whatever she did it worked because you're on her freaking out. Next time just try to make sure that you include your girl in whatever it is that you have going on. The only thing that woman want is for you to at least ask them to go and if they say that they don't wanna go then she won't be that mad at you because you asked her. Make sure that the next time you do talk with her that you set up something just for you and her to do.
2007-03-09 22:22:46 · answer #2 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it is pay-back time.
In France we have a saying : don't do to others what you wouldn't like others to do to you.
In other words, she's doing just like you to make you feel just as bad as she felt.
Maybe a little gift next time you see and some excuses will be a good choice.
2007-03-09 22:21:48 · answer #3 · answered by kl55000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was just trying o get back at u because she was pissed off that u didn't invite her, and the fact that u said "i can't talk bye I'm at a party bye".....that really pissed her off. Don't worry about it, she wasn't really on a date she was prob just with one of her friends. hope i helped (=
2007-03-09 22:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by kissingislove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what u did was very very stupid but she polly told you that to get u mad and jelous because u didnt invite her and u hung up on her try doing something sweet for her and maybe she will come around to forgiving you dumb a** lol
2007-03-09 22:21:36 · answer #5 · answered by jengurl89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's really mad at you so she proabably just did that to make you feel bad....Good luck
2007-03-09 22:20:36 · answer #6 · answered by Yesky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is getting back at you and making you feel left out like you did her. she is hurt but doesnt want you to know. mak her talk to you and find out where you stand.
2007-03-09 22:19:08 · answer #7 · answered by Renee R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice going. you screwed yourself over
2007-03-09 22:18:20 · answer #8 · answered by Rach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you pissed her off shes trying to make you jealous now and dude! your stupid wtf. your lucky shes dated you this long. you need to change if you want to keep her!!
2007-03-09 22:21:50 · answer #9 · answered by Charli W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Idiot
2007-03-09 22:17:21 · answer #10 · answered by ♥CyN♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋