2007-03-09 14:08:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What for? Just because she's overweight? Not a good reason. Everyone needs a friend. You would just make her depressed. Be friends with whomever you want to be.
2007-03-09 14:12:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
See, this is the attitude that makes so many girls starve themselves to be skinny, and skinny girls to outkast the heavier ones. No one wants to be seen with the lardass, so they shun them and make fun of them. There is so much pressure on women to be thin, be pretty, be popular, be smart, we have to be so many things all at once that we sometimes snap, and then we get labled with PMS because were moody.
No you should not stop being her friend, apperently you found her interesting and stimulating at some point and the fat didn't bother you, if it does now so much that you don't want to be her friend, then maybe she should ditch you and get a friend that really cares about her.
2007-03-09 22:16:42 · answer #2 · answered by veachypoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, after all why did you become friends with her in the first place it must have been because you saw good qualities in your friend perhaps a friend is exactly what she needs to get her motivated so that she can lose weight if she wants to. just because she is overweight doesn't make her any less of a friend
2007-03-09 22:17:08 · answer #3 · answered by Kathy G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never.....if you enjoy being around her and you both have fun why would you want to stop being friends with her? Friendship is from the heart not from outward appearances. I have many friends that are overweight, and I truly enjoy their friendship. They are not only fun to be around; but they are also intelligent and enlightening. Never stop being friends with someone just because their outward appearance might not be the best. Enjoy them for who they are not what they look like.
2007-03-09 22:41:54 · answer #4 · answered by Seminolecharm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No friends are a good thing to have when people have problems. If you say this girl is overweight maybe she needs a friend to help her get into shape. Dont judge on appereance!!
2007-03-09 22:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by bringing da heat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really mean. I'm not sure that SHE should be friends with YOU. I mean, cmon!!! Just because she is overweight doesnt mean that she isn't a good friend!!! You sound mean...And I bet your as skinny as a board, right? Well I got news 4 u. It's not that easy to lose weight, and people who ARE overweight need friends to support them through it all. So....If you through her to the curb you arent really her friend.
2007-03-09 22:30:08 · answer #6 · answered by You Know You Love Me <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No if she is your friend it doesnt mean anything it doesnt matter if she is overweight be freind she probaly doesnt have alot of friends so be her friend and DONT stop
2007-03-09 22:13:10 · answer #7 · answered by KAITLYN D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is a good friend do not. If her being overweight bothers you so much then yes, you do not deserve her for a friend.
2007-03-09 22:12:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow nooo. that would be really shallow and a stupid reason to not be friends with someone. do you not like her as a person? cause thats a valid reason. her being overweight is not
2007-03-09 22:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by Rach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the issue is weight and you are that shallow, the answer is yes. She can do without you in her life. I know who disliked me when I was fat. They are happily out of my life now that I am thin. Help her or leave her, both will be in her benefit.
2007-03-11 10:56:30 · answer #10 · answered by NakasEvilTwin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋