Family & Relationships - 7 March 2007

Hi does a man care what color a vagina is ? dark or light? I am under the impression that men dont like darker colored vaginas, mine is dark and i always feel so shy around my husband i always turn off the light, I am a tan skin color lighter than halle berry, my ex used to tell me he hated dark vaginas and now after being with my husband for 10 years I still dont feel secure, even though he loves having sexual relations with me, but I hate feeling so self conscience about this issue, any advice?
BY THE WAY MY EX WAS MY VERY FIRST SEXUAL PARTNER AND HE DID A GOOD JOB ON MY SELF ESTEEM., BECAUSE HE WAS 13 YRS OLDER THAN ME AND HAD A LOW SELF ESTEEM

2007-03-07 10:35:22 · 2 answers · asked by WellaTeam 2 in Singles & Dating

hi ladies. i'm a married male and love being dressed in gowns that have total coverage, weight, layers, poufyness, girlyness, etc.

why does it feel so good to me? i mean this in a sensual sense first. any suggestions for my wife and i 's next dressing adventure? outfits? things to do after i'm dressed?

2007-03-07 10:35:09 · 3 answers · asked by poofygirl11 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this guy in college, and then couple of years ago we had a brief relationship and got pregnant. Since he didn't want to get together with me and assume patternity (he's already a single parent of a 13 year old), I wasn't ready mentally and financially to have a baby;I decided to get an abortion. it was very difficult decision and I went into a deep depression....plus I had complications, which I almost died. He never called me again not even to find out if I was ok and since I didn't call either, we lost contact for two years; until last month that he got my email address through my other friend (that doesn't know about this whole deal) and he offered me a job.
I hated him for being a coward and not taking responsibility for his actions and for not showing any feelings for my well being. he's asking me what have I been up to...I didn't answer his email. now my other friend is asking me for lunch and there is a possibility that this guy will be there. what to do?

2007-03-07 10:35:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am planning my wedding this july and i really want calla lilies as the flower, but i heard that they go dorman shortly after easter. My wedding is July 7th, will i be able to get Calla Lilies.

I know i'm running kinda late on this, but i've been engaged for 6 months now and we finally decided on a flower, i'd hate to think we have to rethink it all.

2007-03-07 10:35:01 · 8 answers · asked by annette7931 2 in Weddings

2007-03-07 10:34:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When I look at her, she sometimes. looks back at me and turns her head away. Usually, when I look at her, I see her with her eyes closed and her head pointing in my direction. we aren't in a relationship, but what does she want? Why's she doing this?

2007-03-07 10:34:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we both work full time and split all the bills equal 50/50.we live in a condo complex that does all the "outdoor work" for us(mowing,repairs ect)plus they will fix anything that goes wrong inside too.my bf would never think to wash his own clothes and will complain when something he wants is dirty rather than just wash it himself.trying to get him to help get groceries will almost allways end in a fight.on the weekend he gets to go play golf,play with his son ect as our complex does all the "mens work".yes i have tryed to ask for help but he allways has an excuse i'm tired,i'll do it later,ect and it never gets done.what can i do i feel like i spend all my free time cleaning up after both of us.

2007-03-07 10:34:07 · 9 answers · asked by jennymartin67 1 in Singles & Dating

my parents dont want me to work they say they are enough for me and they buy me everything but its not truee because i am an adolescent and sometimes i nees something but my parents are not there ,!

2007-03-07 10:33:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-07 10:33:23 · 16 answers · asked by lorrie1120000 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend and i am only 14 years old and we have been together for only 2 days! but he has liked me for 3 months and now he finally has me. but things are getting really different. this is the first time iv been in an situation like this so im confussed. my boyfriend kissed me the day after we hooked up and today he asked me if i wanted to tongue kiss him tommarow and that he does. it will only be 3 days since we have been together. not only that he asked me if he could smack my a**!!! now i dont know how to replie to him i do want to tongue him and i really dont care if he smacks my a** but he could get in trouble for that and then get suspended! so what do i do? what do i say? how do i say it? im soooooo confussed. what do u think does he like me or is he just in it for sex?

2007-03-07 10:33:05 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so I'm 14 years old I've had boyfriends before and stuff but now i go out with this boy and he like barley talks to me or anything cause I'm his first girlfriend what should I do so we can COMMUNICATE!!

2007-03-07 10:33:03 · 13 answers · asked by BLONDI 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband recently began thinking about getting circumcised. Oddly enough i've never been with a circumcised man and didn't really know how to respond when he told me he was thinking about having it done? Is it really any different at all? Will lovemaking feel different? Has anyone been in a similar situation? Well any answers/advice would help really.

2007-03-07 10:31:58 · 12 answers · asked by Rebecca 1 in Friends

just wanted to tell the world what a wonerful husband i have and how happy he makes me...and for you girls out there, theres plenty of good guys out there for you all.....

2007-03-07 10:31:56 · 7 answers · asked by X_Angie_p_X 3 in Singles & Dating

i am going to be married and i dont know what to give to my husband ! something cute and something that he willl likee ,

2007-03-07 10:31:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have been friends with him for 3 years and i wrote him a letter telling him i like him..but now i feel like are friendship is wierd..and i cant say anything to him..cause im scared..yes im in love with him..dont tell me diffrent..what should i say to him tommarow

2007-03-07 10:31:00 · 8 answers · asked by dimepiece 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 10:30:52 · 1 answers · asked by jami rene 1 in Singles & Dating

Are there any good ways you like to be kissed, cuddled?

2007-03-07 10:30:47 · 22 answers · asked by ♥Dougie_Poynter♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 16 and i dont live with my mom. but she went to vegas and spent 300 out of her rent money. when she came back she borrowed that 300 from me. if she was short or late on rent theres a 30 dollar fee/fine. she wants to give me that 30 dollars for helping her out. Me: Im always happy to help her but should i really accept that 30 extra dollars?? if not, please tell me, or tell me how much You think i should be willing to accept along with my 300 she borrowed. I need your opinions on this!! thanks!

2007-03-07 10:30:27 · 8 answers · asked by americask8trgrl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband is outside of the house 10-12 hours a day with work and travel to and from work. He never calls me during the day to see how I am doing or just to say hi. He knows I am at home all day alone and I do this for him. I'll call just to say hi, or send him an email to let him know I am thinking about him. Sometimes when i do call him at work, he seems distant, maybe busy, or will cut the conversation short. This just burns my *ss! How can one be SOOO busy, all day, that he cant even pick up the phone to say, "hi honey, how are you doing"? I guess I feel like this, cuz he recently had an affair, we are trying to fix it, but I cant help but be skeptical when he acts like this, and when he used his last job to cheat on me. I dont know if the man is really that busy, or if he is avoiding me, or worse, cheating again.

2007-03-07 10:29:48 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so there’s this girl, Jamie that I liked in school. I told her how I felt, but for 2 years after I told her up to when school ended, though we talked about other things on occasion, she didn’t mention about how I liked her. So, 5 years have passed since I last saw or heard from her. I sent her a short letter last week basically just telling her happy birthday, as it will be later this month. I mentioned how I liked her in the past, but only as reminder of who I was. Anyway, I sent the letter to her mother, so she could forward it to her. I got an email from her mother 2 days ago. She was nice enough, thanking me for remembering Jamie’s birthday and that she will forward it to her. As I said, 2 days have passed, and I haven’t gotten a reply back from Jamie. It depends where she lives and how busy she is, but what if she has gotten it? We last saw each other on good terms and I didn’t say anything weird in the letter. I don’t understand why she wouldn’t reply back?

2007-03-07 10:29:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok there is this guy that i have been seening as a friend on and off regularly since new years he treats me like no other man has ever treated me and he well lets just say he is what ive always wanted from a man should i let it be what it will be or ask him how we should handle us we both have been hurt and decided to not get into anything serions but he called me baby for tha first time does this means he feels me deeper than i think or what please help

2007-03-07 10:29:23 · 4 answers · asked by sweetandthick42 2 in Singles & Dating

Just a query, as my mate is currently talking about a teacher he dated once, and he is wondering, if she is neat and tidy in the class room, and dirty in the bedroom,
any professionals out there that can comment?

2007-03-07 10:28:42 · 4 answers · asked by Frenchie 3 in Singles & Dating

hi, i'm christian and i met a guy 4 years ago and he asked me to marry him. i was born in the same country that he lives right now, but we have diffrerent religion, he loves me, just for myself and nothing else. i love him too but the reason is we both have strict family about our religion and i don't know what i have to do, i want keep my religion and he wants to keep his religion too, but i don't know it work it out.

2007-03-07 10:28:14 · 19 answers · asked by Washington D.C 1 in Singles & Dating

yeah happy endings

2007-03-07 10:28:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i recently won a state lotto, 23 million dollars..i dont mind saying as my real name isnt here.. i have never really had a problem getting dates but now im scared they just want my money..i still own my old house (which is really average) and i drive an old car. i have a new hummer which is nice but i actually drive my old car to dates or to clubs. am im being deceitful for not letting on that i have money now? in some ways i feel guilty..but like the other night i actually had a woman tell me she was too high maintenace for me... she had no idea!! so i took her to my new home , which she of course loved and she became a totally different woman! so i told her im sorry i was too poor for her and took her home. so..how do i know if a woman is sincere? do i keep on like im poor just to check..will that cause problems later because i lied?

2007-03-07 10:27:50 · 7 answers · asked by old wise one ;) 2 in Singles & Dating

Female engaged, male w/ his girlfriend. The guy has been telling the girl about how annoyed he's been w/ his girlfriend, and how sometimes he wants to be single, but other times the single life seems boring to him. Do you think this is just a heart-to-heart, or is he hitting on his engaged co-worker?

(She's my friend. She says they're just chatting, I say it's more...)

2007-03-07 10:27:21 · 7 answers · asked by bella 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 10:27:01 · 11 answers · asked by Taken_092101 1 in Weddings

im 18 years old, recently had a miscarriage which i didnt take in quite well. Because of my culture i am not allowed to go out with boys or have any contact with boys. when i had the miscarriage i was in hospital so i had no choise but to tell my mum. she was angry ...with me ..she wasnt concerned about my health or how im feeling she cared about what are people going to say if they find out.. she told me she was glad i miscarried. needless to say two days ago my sister spat in my face my mum came running upstairs and started beating me with a shoe. before my sister liked my boyfriend was always nice to me and now this sudden change of her hating me and the fact i go out to see him. my mum and her always shout at me to stay at home and clean. havnt been to work for two weeks now.. havnt been eating properly and whenever im at home NOBODY is talking to me. :(

2007-03-07 10:26:14 · 36 answers · asked by someone24000 2 in Family

Should I move on?
I met this guy once. And I fell in love with him. I knew he liked me. We just let it lie at that because he is 7 years older, but it was love. Well I had to move back to where I came from but it's only about 3 hours away. So...we talked until this girl that moved there about the time I moved away became his girlfriend. She's only a little bit older. Now they are engaged, and due to be married next year. I still love him and think about him constantly. What should I do. Tell him? Or not and let him be now in "love" with her?

2007-03-07 10:26:06 · 7 answers · asked by The Random Blonde 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy, we talked and went out once but every time I call him to come chill he stands me up and says he was very busy and cant get away. Do u think he's playing games.

2007-03-07 10:25:47 · 9 answers · asked by aisha c 1 in Singles & Dating