i recently won a state lotto, 23 million dollars..i dont mind saying as my real name isnt here.. i have never really had a problem getting dates but now im scared they just want my money..i still own my old house (which is really average) and i drive an old car. i have a new hummer which is nice but i actually drive my old car to dates or to clubs. am im being deceitful for not letting on that i have money now? in some ways i feel guilty..but like the other night i actually had a woman tell me she was too high maintenace for me... she had no idea!! so i took her to my new home , which she of course loved and she became a totally different woman! so i told her im sorry i was too poor for her and took her home. so..how do i know if a woman is sincere? do i keep on like im poor just to check..will that cause problems later because i lied?
2007-03-07 10:27:50 · 7 answers · asked by old wise one ;) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't say "I am poor", then you're not lying. I would definitely not tell them untill much later. If you date a special girl & find she's the one you want to marry, tell her when she starts planning the wedding. You might want a pre-nup (or not). Definitely keep your money where it is not ALL available too easily. As in very separate from household budgeting. Get/have a licensed & reputable money manager.
2007-03-07 10:45:36 · answer #1 · answered by mazell41 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say don't tell right away, feel it out on a few dates. You should be able to tell by then who is materialistic and money grubbing and who isn't. The $$ should be like an extra, like "hey, smart and fun AND rich!" but not the only reason they're dating you. Live the way you lived before the $$ for the first handful of dates. If she sticks around, cool :)
Congrats! I'm jealous. Guess I need to play the lotto if I wanna win.
2007-03-07 18:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by leos_mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...test her. See if that is all she wants. I mean is she happy just being with you or does she want the nice car, expensive restaurants, and gifts? I mean most high maintenance girls show their true colors early on when you take them to a "regular" place. To be honest, your finances should have nothing to do early on. Stick to regular price restaurants and nothing to extravagant early on. I don't think that is lying. You don't need to tell her that you have money until you are ready. If she is independent and has her own money..then she won't want yours! However, pay attention to her lifestyle and so forth. I suggest not telling anyone you have the money to be honest because people tend to try to suck up to you or take advantage of you. Use your own discretion when telling people you have money. Most lotto winners end up losing all the money they won and getting inolved in drugs, ect. Sad stories! Good luck!
2007-03-07 19:16:33 · answer #3 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say but a loot of girls will want u for ur money i would sugget to act like you always do and dont tell n e one about ur money then when u trully meet the girl u will know the time and let her know about ur money... or u can find someone rich like u who has money as well lol =) good luck
2007-03-07 18:52:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey man just keep your Fortune in the "Down-low" they don't need to know. Just pretend you don't have it and continue life how it was before you made the millions.
If you liked my answer wanna spare $500,000? :D
2007-03-07 18:32:55 · answer #5 · answered by FeverLust 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell you might be flat brofe for a while so no more shopping sprees she what she do
2007-03-07 18:31:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they all are gold digging ho bags
2007-03-07 18:33:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋