Family & Relationships - 7 March 2007

I have an opening for a job as an airhostess, its great money and stuff. I get to obviously see the world and get paid 4 it . Id be making enough money to.... buy me a house within a year and possibly a car. Im young im in my early 20s... but idk if i should go cause theres someone here that I care about alot were not together we're just really good mates. And I do hve feelings 4 him & Im not sure what I should do...
Should I stay here & hope something will happen btwn us or... GO and pursue my career.
Cause the catch is that I'll be working for an overseas company so I have to go and live over there where the company is and its over in South-east Asia or somewhere.

And yeah IDK what 2 do...

Please help.

I want to go so much cause its a once in a lifetime opportunity but at the sametime I dont want to cause of him.
But I'm not sure what to do... the opening for it is coming up soon. And all I have to do is sign up & I'm gone

Any advice at all

2007-03-07 14:57:39 · 8 answers · asked by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

she blames every thing on me marissa this your fault marissa come on it your fault you were talking about me and I know it!!!! grrrrrr

2007-03-07 14:56:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am 21 years old. I have never had a real boyfriend or have really even connected emotionally with a guy....I have connected physically with a guy, but no emotional connection. I also feel like I connect with girls better and they are just always easier to talk to for me. I've never connected physically with a girl, but however, one time I had a sexual dream with a female friend of mine. I am so confused, does anyone know what this means? Am I lesbian?

2007-03-07 14:55:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 14:55:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 14:54:07 · 16 answers · asked by mrp_ssy 1 in Singles & Dating

i mean when today i decided to set my gf free bc i hurt bc i am far away from her and she cant wait for me, she cried and pleaded to keep me even though i broke a promise then after a while she started making fun of my penis and clearly when we loved eachother she loved so ladies why is that? and i still care about but i know its the best we cant be their together? so question is will she forgive me ? and why she insult my penis by making fun of it?

2007-03-07 14:53:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm leaving for over a week pretty soon, so its going to be a long time before i'll see her again.

what a *****.

2007-03-07 14:53:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She liked me but I didn’t tell her how I felt so now shes going out with someone else. . She tells me it doesn’t mean a thing to her but she can't break up with him cuz hes "to nice." and had no good reason. After I told her how I felt about her she told me she wanted to be with me and so I went out with her. The other guy has no idea. Though the fact that he doesn’t mean a thing to her and shes still with him bothers me. I really like her. I don’t wanna leave her. But im hurting cuz well he gets to kiss her and hold her hand to!
I talked to her about it and she said she didn’t know what to say or what to do. She knows it hurts me but I don’t think shes gonna do anything about it. Should I leave her? Make her choose?

2007-03-07 14:53:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay, this guy asked me out today and hes cute, but i couldnt really picture goin out with him, im like prep and hes like goth, but, god im so confused i really think of him as a friend but i kinda do like him in a way!

2007-03-07 14:53:17 · 2 answers · asked by cutT 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it really true or just a fake mask?

2007-03-07 14:52:24 · 10 answers · asked by King of Hearts 4 in Friends

I would like to find a nice lady to date but where does one go to meet nice ladies. I have decided it dosen't mater what kind of job that I have, but it's hard to meet nice ladies I go to church every sunday and see ladies there but guess I just don't know how to date.

2007-03-07 14:52:00 · 3 answers · asked by kaikido2003 1 in Singles & Dating

Are there any women out there who have a really talkative partner. My partner, just never stops! He verbalises EVERY bloody thought. Any advise on how I can get him to shut up for five minutes?

2007-03-07 14:51:58 · 13 answers · asked by yutu34 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

This girl i really like has seen me shut down a lot of girls. we're both in our first year of university now, and she's given me a couple of signs (looking back twice and smiling @ me).... does the fact that i shut down a lot of girls increase or decrease my chances with her?

2007-03-07 14:51:22 · 5 answers · asked by teddyk k 1 in Singles & Dating

break up on the phone and get back together on the phone cause u board

2007-03-07 14:51:12 · 10 answers · asked by The DONmistress 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend broke up in dec. he broke up with me i think alot of it had too do with the fact that i didnt really act like i cared much about him. Last weekend i called him and he let me and friends crash at his house b.c we had no where else too go~~we ended up hooking up and i still acted like i didnt care after words b.c i thought thats wut he would have wanted seeing as he broke up with me. But he started too get mad and he said i was dropping him like he was nothing..but I'm really confused on if i should try too act like i do care about him or just blow it off b.c theres sooo much drama we'd have too go through if we ever go back together....but i need advice soo please help me!!!!

2007-03-07 14:50:54 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm about to give my g/f the ring, and I want this to be the most special moment!

2007-03-07 14:50:08 · 14 answers · asked by freaxs 3 in Weddings

I have a friend who lies alot.I dont mean a little white lie but ones that make them look stupid. I met her about 3 1/2 years ago.And at first it was cool we were the best of friends we did everything together. Then she would start to lie aout things sooo silly. She was always telling everybody she was pregnant,and i was the only one who knew she wasnt. She also lied about having kids, she said she had three kids that lived in flordia with her moms sister. I asked her mom how her sister in flordia was doin and she looked at me like i was stupid and said i dont have a sister. After that i just started to belive her less and less. i was still her friend we just werent as close anymore. And recently i have cut off all connections with her because she was acting really weird. She started calling me non-stop wanting to know what i was doing where i was at and who i was with. i mean she was like she was my boyfriend or sumthin. it creeped me out. she wont stiop calling now. What should i do?

2007-03-07 14:49:31 · 8 answers · asked by cam97881705 1 in Friends

hey i want to talk to this girl who is really nice and friendly< she goes to my church. im 13 (14 in the summer) and she is 13 (14 soon also) I want to know what i can say that isn't stupid and that she would like. we see each other wednesdays and sometimes sundays. im homeschooled she is public schooled. i found out what her name is it's sarah! i really want to know thank you!

i can't actually ask a girl on a date till im 17 but i can hang out with them hellpppp!!
plus i need kinda step by step instructions please

i don't go to the movies often either. plus im 13 i can't drive and i can't take a girl with us to the movies anyway.

ps what i mean by step-by-step is like what exactly do i say to her... i am serious please

i kno i sound desperate but i need help

anyone who has had a crush knows about how it feels

please help

2007-03-07 14:47:02 · 8 answers · asked by pistoluser 3 in Singles & Dating

I know it’s stupid to be asking but I was just curious. We were both each others first loves and we broke up about two months ago. We mainly broke up because he didn’t want to be with me anymore and I was going through a small sort of depression that he didn’t know about. We were together for about four months. He no longer talks or looks at me even though I see him every day. We have the same friends and they said he hasn’t talked about me since we broke up. You can tell me that there is no hope and that I’m a loser for hanging on if that’s what you think. I just wanted some ideas. And maybe some advice on how I should get over him if there is no hope. I know if we do get back together it will be his decision and I can’t do anything to affect it. I know bringing up the past relationship right now would be a bad idea.

2007-03-07 14:46:50 · 4 answers · asked by Simple Love 2 in Singles & Dating

Since i broke up with my girlfriend i have nothing to do. And no one to have perverted conversations with. Whut's something i can do.

2007-03-07 14:46:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Don't think I don't remember him. It was also crazy delicious with him and not just the sex either. Well I am common law married for almost 11 years. So, yes it is difficult sometimes, but I spent some time thinking about everything and decided that I just can not go cheating on my husband even for something I know would be so good.

WHAT WOULD YOU DO?

2007-03-07 14:46:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't think i am Big at all but me and my last gf still had sex and she said she liked it but i have seen pornos and stuff and its like everone is bigger than me? does size really matter? Is the realationship always have to be based on sex?

2007-03-07 14:45:36 · 18 answers · asked by jack s 1 in Singles & Dating

My g/f b-day is at the end of the month and I have no idea what to get her. I would like to get an engagement ring but thats out of my budget right now any ideas. Please help

2007-03-07 14:45:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We have been talking SERIOUSLY about EVERYTHING for a few months. She lives in a small town in Russia. She claims that I am the one that she has been searching for. I keep an open mind . Our conversations are daily and quite intimate. We talk of a day when we can meet. Is this just a dream or is this real. I have already asked her what she means and should know tommorrow when she writes again. But I`m so curios I would like to know right now. What do you think she is trying to say? Serious answers only please.

2007-03-07 14:44:52 · 5 answers · asked by grtoo9 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 14:43:56 · 20 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Singles & Dating

i have to do the decorating for my wedding on a tight budget, but i want the hall to look really great. however ithas to be cheap but look gorgeous. does anyone have any ideas and or pictures they can send to me. the wedding will be in the summer and our colors are black, silver, and red or purple ( notsure yet) i really like the swagsthat hang from ceiling look. please help with hall deco ideas.

2007-03-07 14:43:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-03-07 14:43:09 · 18 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

hey everyone,
I'm in my first year of college and recently moved to Canada. I'm smart (trying to become a doctor), pretty decent looking (got girls back in highschool), and i'm from a rich family who bought me a house + car + pays my credit card for me. I live on my own with no roommates or anything and i'm sort of missing out on the whole college experience. I have a couple of friends here but we're not that close. Saturday nights are the loneliest nights of the week for me. what should i do? Im not too into drinking.

2007-03-07 14:42:41 · 7 answers · asked by teddyk k 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 14:42:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-07 14:42:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating