Don't think I don't remember him. It was also crazy delicious with him and not just the sex either. Well I am common law married for almost 11 years. So, yes it is difficult sometimes, but I spent some time thinking about everything and decided that I just can not go cheating on my husband even for something I know would be so good.
WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
2007-03-07 14:46:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm married.
I had sex with a girl some years ago.
I recently met her again recently and sex with her was the best ever. It may not be always true but it was something I'm glad I didn't miss. And I have been careful to be sure my family does not know and will never find out.
Be careful of the ones you love.
2007-03-07 14:52:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Through all of your question, you never once mention love. Do you love your "husband"? I am assuming that you do since you are still with him after 10/11 yrs, unless there are children which are the reasons your with him. Either way, is it worth risking your family for something that may not be all that good~anymore. I assume that you haven't had sex with this ex since you have been with your "husband". So you don't really know if the sex would still be the best sex ever or not. For all you know, he could have ED(erectile dysfunction)!!
2007-03-07 23:37:52 · answer #2 · answered by Donna J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not what you asked but perhaps just as important. Are you using the term - common law - casually or very knowingly and seriously. Common Law marriages are not accepted in most states. So if you are depending this you should check with your state if it is accepted as legal marriage. There are all kinds of reasons, inheritance, etc. So check it out and do not assume.
2007-03-07 22:51:55 · answer #3 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear,
There is clear sign that you are the responsible...
WIFE and i hope MOTHER too...
See, sex is not everything for Woman than the...
Her FAMILY....
And, it's not sure that your x-boy friend still ready....
Have physical relationship....
And even if you both are agree to do so...
It's not at all sure that you will find same...
Pleasurable moments that you had...
I think Woman can control Sex appeal...
Than the Man...
There is RISK as well...
I would not be dishonest to my Wife and my Childrens...
You can do it...
Good Luck !!
2007-03-07 23:10:00 · answer #4 · answered by hitz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...if you get together with your ex you would only be benefitting yourself and your ex...but think of all the people you will hurt by doing this...i'm sorry but the consequences are just not worth it. try spicing it up with your husband by adding some toys ... you know kinky it up a bit
2007-03-07 22:55:32 · answer #5 · answered by n1cyndy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in your husbands shoes. How would you feel if the tables were turned? Why would you want to hurt someone so dear to you? Besides if this other guy is so good, why is he available?
2007-03-07 22:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
why is this sexy xbf your ex? if you love his sex enough to cheat, then you should marry him. Your husband loves you (i think) so dont be a ***** to him
2007-03-07 22:52:26 · answer #7 · answered by It's a secret 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're a horrible person for even considering messing around with this person. Go back to the fiery pits of H*** where you belong. People like you disgust me.
2007-03-07 22:52:20 · answer #8 · answered by Justin G 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
id direct the effort and excitement that i know id get from the affair into my marriage. spice it up a bit
2007-03-07 22:58:43 · answer #9 · answered by kathofrin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the guy and go back to the ex... :) j/k It depends how do you feel about your husband?
2007-03-07 22:52:05 · answer #10 · answered by Curious_Camo_Jess 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋