hey i want to talk to this girl who is really nice and friendly< she goes to my church. im 13 (14 in the summer) and she is 13 (14 soon also) I want to know what i can say that isn't stupid and that she would like. we see each other wednesdays and sometimes sundays. im homeschooled she is public schooled. i found out what her name is it's sarah! i really want to know thank you!
i can't actually ask a girl on a date till im 17 but i can hang out with them hellpppp!!
plus i need kinda step by step instructions please
i don't go to the movies often either. plus im 13 i can't drive and i can't take a girl with us to the movies anyway.
ps what i mean by step-by-step is like what exactly do i say to her... i am serious please
i kno i sound desperate but i need help
anyone who has had a crush knows about how it feels
please help
2007-03-07 14:47:02 · 8 answers · asked by pistoluser 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
controle your self
2007-03-07 14:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you see Sarah, you could comment on how pretty she looks. Then you might ask her how she likes school.Then comment on what it's like to be homeschooled. Ask her if she has any favorite music, singers or books she likes. Ask her if she has any hobbies.Tell her yours if you have any.
If she lives in your area and there is a park,maybe you could both meet there and hang out. Soon you'll both be thinking of more questions to ask each other and maybe have lots to talk about the next time you meet. Hope this helps.
I'll pray for you,and the best of luck.
2007-03-07 23:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ღ♥Jeanene♥ღ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have a crush on someone i know it feels great. You get weak in your knees and you get butterflies in your stomach when you see or talk to them. I know how you feel...I have had that before now i am in love and it is a little different. What you need to do is just say to her "Hi Sarah i was just wondering if i could have your phone number? Maybe we can talk sometime." When saying it just make sure you look at her in the eyes and you have to be confident!! Good luck if you need more help just email me!!
2007-03-07 22:57:23 · answer #3 · answered by sweet and simple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bummer u sound like ur social life is really suffocated. just be friendly towards her, give her compliments but only if theyre sincere; dont say u like her earrings if u think theyre ugly. and compliment her clothes and accessories at first or ull come on too strong. just be sincere, and friendly and dont move into romance too quickly, especially at ur age. above all hav fun being around her and enjoy her company! good luck!
2007-03-07 22:54:31 · answer #4 · answered by kathofrin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am exactly like u!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am the same age, I like this guy too, and he is really flirty. I suggest you talk about movies you have seen. Act cool and try flaring your look without changin your look. I will be askin' a question so answer mine too. Wait it'll be on here too.
2007-03-07 22:54:17 · answer #5 · answered by Know-It-All or Nothing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say hey every time you see her. get to know(or at least meet) her parents. ask about any interests ie: sports, artistic things, drama, music, movies, wtvr.
2007-03-07 22:56:30 · answer #6 · answered by Randomocity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know anything else about her other than her name? If you know what interests her then it will be easier to strike up conversation.
2007-03-07 22:52:35 · answer #7 · answered by imachocaholic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm yer **** down. Women like the non desperate type ;)
2007-03-07 22:54:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋