I am 21 years old. I have never had a real boyfriend or have really even connected emotionally with a guy....I have connected physically with a guy, but no emotional connection. I also feel like I connect with girls better and they are just always easier to talk to for me. I've never connected physically with a girl, but however, one time I had a sexual dream with a female friend of mine. I am so confused, does anyone know what this means? Am I lesbian?
2007-03-07 14:55:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think this tells that you are a lesbian. it's really commom that girls communicate better with other girls. if u feel and desire to communicate with a male emotionally even though it didnt happen, then there is a very good chance that it will happen. and about that dream, 90 something% of the human race has homosexual desires even if they keep denying them. dont go under the pressure of catagorizing yourself, just be yourself and do whatever you like to do and u will figure things out if u want to eventually.
2007-03-07 15:03:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dun think U r unless U actively prefer to hv physical liason with some one who is female. Some ppl are bisexual n they derive satisfaction from connections with both sexes while some r straight. Just a dream dus not indicate at all tat U r a Lesbian. No fear, go with the flow. U will know soon enuff.
2007-03-07 23:01:25 · answer #2 · answered by t4capricorn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Heck no, Your not a lesbian girl... For some of us girls it is easier to talk to the same sex....But for other girl they tend to talk to both of the sex. Male and Female It's Probabley you feel Uncomfortable about being around guys, Cause your scared to talk to them probabley the Fear of Screwing up! Your words and they might laugh at you or Something But girls on the other hand ar way More sensative,Me personalley I am the girl that can talk to both F&M and still feel comfortable. Trust me honey The guys wont Bite =]]...&& Yea that Dream is a little freaky..I dont Have any personal experinice on that so I would Not know What to say to YA!!
2007-03-07 23:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by ~DIZLILMAMI!!~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that's actually normal. I don't know about the dream part, but everything else seems regular. What I normally hear is why a girl is the odd one out for talking easier to guys, and lots of girls I know connect with girls better than guys.
2007-03-07 23:00:55 · answer #4 · answered by I'm scary looking! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it means anything definitely.It could be that you just haven't connected to the right type of guy yet.Some people take longer than others to mature sexually.Also emotional connections may take a long time.(with the right type of person)Expand the type of people you talk to and see what happens.Good luck.
2007-03-07 23:05:42 · answer #5 · answered by rockman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's up to you. Keep an open mind and see where it takes you. Most people wonder once in a while, but you'll know for sure where you feel most comfortable.
2007-03-07 23:00:21 · answer #6 · answered by pixie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-07 22:59:02 · answer #7 · answered by unknown 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
umm....well its either u havent found ur special guy yet or maybe u are lesbian so try it out and see how that path goes, if not you can always backtrack
2007-03-07 23:01:24 · answer #8 · answered by shanakon 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
so you are going to made one of life's most important decisions based on ONE dream? seriously?
2007-03-07 23:02:14 · answer #9 · answered by aishah 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no bother
2007-03-07 22:59:18 · answer #10 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋