She liked me but I didn’t tell her how I felt so now shes going out with someone else. . She tells me it doesn’t mean a thing to her but she can't break up with him cuz hes "to nice." and had no good reason. After I told her how I felt about her she told me she wanted to be with me and so I went out with her. The other guy has no idea. Though the fact that he doesn’t mean a thing to her and shes still with him bothers me. I really like her. I don’t wanna leave her. But im hurting cuz well he gets to kiss her and hold her hand to!
I talked to her about it and she said she didn’t know what to say or what to do. She knows it hurts me but I don’t think shes gonna do anything about it. Should I leave her? Make her choose?
2007-03-07 14:53:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is your middle name Mat? Then your first name must be Door!
Wake up! She left you. Your leaving is redundant.
Stop the pity party and date another girl.
2007-03-07 15:00:20 · answer #1 · answered by kitchenheatindex 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Consider this... if she is going out with you, but already has a guy, she is a CHEATER. If she were to break up with the other dude and be with YOU, chances are very likely she would cheat on you the instant someone else came along. She is what is called an "opportunist" - and she will always be on the lookout for bigger and better opportunities. Right now she is is playing BOTH you guys and loving every minute of it. DUDE! If you really LIKE being used by this girl, then go for it! Be for warned - players play all the time, hurting people along the way is unavoidable, but NEVER enough of a consideration to stop the game. If you "win" her, YOU loose!!! She WILL hurt you. When she does, you will learn not to trust girls who are sneaky lying two timing egotists - that would make you a blind fool - open your eyes and guard your heart - your emotions can cloud reality.
2007-03-07 23:41:49 · answer #2 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you should leave her. If she really cared about you she wouldn't still be with the other guy. As for her saying that she couldn't break up with the other guy because he's too nice, well that's an excuse. I know you like her but dude, she's hurting you, you need to be in a relationship that makes you happy and someone that only wants to be with you. If this guy didn't mean anything to her then what is she doing with him? Drop her and find someone more deserving. Good luck.
2007-03-07 23:05:36 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Phyll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, nomatter how much yo like her, she's with another guy, and you moved in on HIS girl, on top of that you did it behind his back (cowardice). If you really like her make her choose, though I'd have to say she's either playing you, or not mature enough to hold onto a SINGLE relationship. Hope it works out....
2007-03-07 23:00:49 · answer #4 · answered by theonewhoguides 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kinda agree with celeste...it sounds like she's using you...if she didn't like the other guy she wouldn't let him kiss her and hold her hand and stuff like that...i mean no self respecting girl would do that. make her choose! hopefully it all works out for the best
2007-03-07 23:02:15 · answer #5 · answered by n1cyndy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to choose. It is not fair to either one of you guys. It sounds to me like she is hanging on to both of you so if she loses one of you, she will have someone to fall back on. Also...you have to consider that if she is cheating on him with you, she is likely to cheat on you with someone else. If she was truly commited to you, she would break it off with him. Best wishes!
2007-03-07 22:58:47 · answer #6 · answered by fair blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont break up wit her. She sounds like an understanding girl. ask her if she'd rather be wit you or him, but dont put too much pressure on her or she might choose the wrong guy
2007-03-07 22:59:21 · answer #7 · answered by imachocaholic 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hun you should make her pick. if she hasnt broken it off with the other guy then she doesnt want to. she sees things in both of you that she likes and she thinks that she can keep you both
2007-03-07 23:09:34 · answer #8 · answered by luvnlifelol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force someone to choose. Time will tell if she really likes you over this other guy. Hang in there....
2007-03-07 22:59:18 · answer #9 · answered by angels 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why should she choose? You decide if you want to be with a girl who has another boyfriend or do you want to be with someone that wants to be exclusive with you? If you decide to be with her and her boyfriend, then you have to accept what she does. If you don't, then you leave and find someone worthwhile.
2007-03-07 23:00:17 · answer #10 · answered by Lana 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋