Family & Relationships - 5 March 2007

He's my best friends brother (not the best decision) and we part of the same circle of friends so i can't just tell him i'm a lesbian. I need a strategy that will leave him as least bitter as possible. It's a sticky situation but any ideas would be really helpful. Thx!

2007-03-05 14:45:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it wrong not to reciprocate what has been recieved orally?

2007-03-05 14:44:19 · 10 answers · asked by p dizzle for shizzle 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, im not going to lie, i feel like im a nice guy, i respect them,everything, open doors , the whole 9 yrds.im no saint, im still a guy with needs... but i would do anything to make them laugh,(being stupid) or at least a smile. but i see real nice girls that deserve better. guys saying bad stuff when there not there. so....

my friends say to do the "asshole " approach, but i'm not. it's not my style.
what do girls like?

2007-03-05 14:43:57 · 1 answers · asked by that musican 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 14:43:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this guy I know, who is in one of my classes. After almost every class I say bye to him. Well the past few days there have been two times when I forgot to say bye, so instead he waves at me and says bye at me from a distance before he leaves. He only did this to me and nobody else. A few months ago or so though, if I forgot to say bye, he wouldn't say it either. Opinions?

Well there's more than that, too. He knows I love him and he is my teacher. He's single and me and him have everything in common, seriously. I've known him for many years (4) now, and have been in love with him during that time also. It is real, don't bother arguing against it or you'll be ignored.

He's really nice to me and flirt with him a lot. If he wanted to show me he wasn't interested, then he's doing a poor job at it. Why flirt back if hes not interested? Thats why I believe he is.

2007-03-05 14:42:56 · 12 answers · asked by Dreizehn 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys, what are your likes/dislikes when it comes to females? I'm curious, and I would like to know.

2007-03-05 14:42:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I met a guy in october but hadnt seen him since a month ago and he asked me out 2 see a movie and it went well so on firday we had another date we went for a few drinks and really hit it off but we havent kissed but after i left him that night he texted sayin he really wanted 2, since he hasnt had many gfs i assumed that all he was after is sex and last night for the first time he opened up abit more and asked me what would you do if we had the house to ourselves and i thought all i he wants is sex so last night i asked him straight and he got quite offended and said never mind goodnight and upset the thing is im not actually sure what he wants wheather it be dating like offically or to just have fun and hang out. What do you reckon?

2007-03-05 14:42:36 · 4 answers · asked by leann c 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, this guy Thomas says he's starting to kinda like me. Although, he really likes me bff Allana, she's like afraid of him. He's always begging her to hug him (he's kinda a playa but he's really sweet) and she always says no.
Well, heres what throws me through a loop... he's always hugging me, and he always has him arm around me or my waist, and he never lets go of me! He used to say I'm annoying, but since he's such a playa, I cant really tell what his thoughts are anymore! What should I do? It feels like I am his back up girl or something!
BTW, when I got really sick when we were hanging outside in our neighborhood, I sat down at the curb, and I was like crying my eyes out cuz I had a really bad allergy attack, and he sat next to me and held me in his arms and I was like,'I am getting too many mixed signals here!' So does he like me as a friend or more or what?

2007-03-05 14:41:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love my shower time hollar if you hear me can i get a amen? =)

2007-03-05 14:41:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I went home to the UK (for a whole year) with the kids but my husband's family lives in India. SHOULD I GO BACK ? SHOULD I STAY WITH THEM? WILL THEY LET ME GO BACK?

2007-03-05 14:40:21 · 6 answers · asked by sam_ar1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okai. well me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a month now. and I really really like him alot. I havent liked anyone in a really long time as much as I like him. Anyways, his birthday is coming up next week and I am getting him a nice gift that i know he will love, But I wanna say something cute in his card just to let him know how I feel. Does anyone Know any cute poems, sayings, or quotes that might be good for a new but great relationship??? And Guys, how would you feel if your girlfriend wrote something special in your birthday card????

2007-03-05 14:39:38 · 5 answers · asked by Nic.Marie<3 1 in Singles & Dating

with trust.Do you find it hard to trust most people.I do and most people are not trust worthy so for good reason I find it hard to trust.Just wondering if anyone shares my point of view.

2007-03-05 14:39:33 · 17 answers · asked by ♥ liz ♥ 6 in Friends

I was abused for 10 years mentally and fiscually, I divorced him after almost seeing death, I have meet someone really great but i get scared at looks and actions that make me go back to my past expereicence with my ex. Thinking this great guy is going are is hurting me when he isnt.

2007-03-05 14:39:29 · 7 answers · asked by Moonlight 1 in Singles & Dating

I find that I do require too much frm a partner and because of that I've remained single for quite sometime, I kno that no one is perfect, but I'm having trouble finding a suitable guy.....

Guys approach me alot, but I just dont see the right person who is actually worth it...I dont know if there is something wrong with me. Help!

2007-03-05 14:39:25 · 10 answers · asked by Diamond Princess 2 in Singles & Dating

My sweet pilot love is a Republican. I'm a staunch Democrat and have been all my life. I hate Bush and I'm very pro-choice.

When my darling said "Reagan was the greatest president of modern times," I cringed (hopefully not visibly). I excused myself to go to the ladies' room, then came back and said, "I know that he certainly said some impressive things, like 'Mr. Gorbachev, tear down this wall!' it made our country look good, which is an important role for the president." I'm willing to try to see his point of view. I admire his mind and adore him so...

Anyway, he said something the other night that implied that he might not be pro-choice. I said, "I believe abortion is a necessary evil," then fell asleep, but it's been bothering me. I'm afraid that would be a horrible point of contention between us! I'm almost afraid to even ask him. Should I avoid the topic and hope it never comes up?

2007-03-05 14:39:07 · 10 answers · asked by nondescript 4 in Singles & Dating

~Had a boyfriend in 7th grade.
~Didn't want parents knowing about bf, so never went anywhere with him.
~Got to liking bf SOOOOO much, that I dumped him so he could have a good girlfriend that actually dated him.
~He is dating my neighbor.
~No hard feelings, but I want him back.
~I feel like I can completely trust him with anything, and like him a 9.9 on a scale of 1-10.


My question:
~How can I get him back, causing as little pain as possible to him or my neighbor, who is REALLY nice, not mean... Please help, and you can call me bad names, I don't care, but I desperately love him, after knowing him for two years.

~Thanks.

2007-03-05 14:39:04 · 4 answers · asked by invisible_chic34 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, my ex is my kinda sorta my friend and although he claims to love me, I don't know. Anyway, I wanna talk to him but its hard to get him alone. Most likely I won't be able to talk to him until this weekend, but I don't want to wait. If he likes me, then my week will go by a lot easier but waiting is so damn annoying and I've done it for way to long and I can't do it anymore. I want to call him up and talk, but I'd rather in person. It's so much more easier because then I can see his face and read his expressions better. I really want to talk to him, but I don't want to appear vunerable or desperate. Should I wait out the week, or ask him to talk sometime after school? (we don't talk in school because we've basically been strangers since we broke up 2 1/2 years ago)

2007-03-05 14:38:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how old to get engaged?
married?

2007-03-05 14:37:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

we talk like everyday she texts me during school and calls me right after school she always wants me to walk her to her class. And she told me that she likes me but she has a bf and i dont know what to do

2007-03-05 14:37:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay I am 14 & my friends dared me to kiss this guy I really love & he know's that I like him,but should I kiss him???

2007-03-05 14:37:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i finally am brave enough to talk to the guy i like......but i dont know exactly what to talk about....he knows my name and eveything and i dont need to introduce myself but what should we talk about????
music?
any ideas?
thanks in advance

2007-03-05 14:37:13 · 2 answers · asked by tierra 3 in Friends

Dont say:

Cologne
Fishing stuff
Socks
Shoes
Pants
Belt Buckles
Jewlry.

Cause I dont do those things. There just not me. K.

Im not spending over 30$ here. Im cheap. But I want to spend ATLEAST 10

2007-03-05 14:36:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This happened 2 years ago by a football player at the University she goes to. She knew him before and he had never tried to even kiss her before this night. She told him no several times, he held her legs and forced her. He weights 300 lbs and she weights 120 lbs.

She said it didn't last long and she left fast, never told anyone till me a few days ago. The reason she told no one is because the football players at this University are very popular and she felt no one would believe her. I understand that knowing our state and the feelings for our football players.

He is a senior this year, I'm not sure if he is still at the University because some of the football players don't stay after their senior football season. I tried to look up a possible address but have found none.

I am not sure what I want to do about this. Any suggestions without pressing charges? Keep your head, dont suggest violence.

2007-03-05 14:35:55 · 17 answers · asked by Jan G 6 in Singles & Dating

i have this guyfriend and one time i got really mad at him because all of a sudden he started snarling at me and acting like i was totally stupid and he was being really jerky. i didn't cry or yell at him, i just stayed away from him and didn't talk to him. then, he started saying to my friend that i was too "emotional" for him. is getting mad at a guy really all that "emotional" or is he just too immature?

2007-03-05 14:35:00 · 9 answers · asked by C♥ 4 in Friends

My bf has been calling me everyday since i know him for almost 7 years.We were based in different citiesHe has moved abroad for employment.Now he has stopped calling since almost 2 months.No mails tooWhy is he doing this?

2007-03-05 14:34:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

does this mean she wants to talk

we just started talking in class more

always says "u didn't say hi to me today"

does she like me

2007-03-05 14:34:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-05 14:34:19 · 8 answers · asked by KELLY B 1 in Singles & Dating

Believe it or not, in my 18+ years of life, I have never been on a date simply because I have never found a girl who lives up to my moral expectations. No, I am not a fundementalist or hardliner, but I just believe in respecting ones own body and other. I look the other way at girls who swear or drink or use drugs, I do not like clevage, I think that more emphasis should be put on how one acts that what one looks like, I think that people should follow God, I believe is waiting until marriage for sex, I do not like immoral intimatacy, etc. When I boil it all down, the only girls are Muslims (who I cannot date for religious reasons), girls who do not want to date at all, and nuns. Do I expect too much from girls along the lines of morality? Correct me if I am wrong, but are not people supposed to find somebody that they love, not just somebody who arouses them? This is the reason so many marriages today fail! Opinions please...

2007-03-05 14:33:59 · 23 answers · asked by Coxy 3 in Singles & Dating

Alot of guys do it. Wat do yall think?

2007-03-05 14:33:30 · 8 answers · asked by Eason W 5 in Singles & Dating

i know yea i gotta try it to c what works,but i dont wanna feel stupid,like i think i would really surprise him cuz ima a shy quiet type of girl,i been knowin him for a good while now...i never even kissed n e one like "dat" u know,so...

2007-03-05 14:33:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating