~Had a boyfriend in 7th grade.
~Didn't want parents knowing about bf, so never went anywhere with him.
~Got to liking bf SOOOOO much, that I dumped him so he could have a good girlfriend that actually dated him.
~He is dating my neighbor.
~No hard feelings, but I want him back.
~I feel like I can completely trust him with anything, and like him a 9.9 on a scale of 1-10.
My question:
~How can I get him back, causing as little pain as possible to him or my neighbor, who is REALLY nice, not mean... Please help, and you can call me bad names, I don't care, but I desperately love him, after knowing him for two years.
~Thanks.
2007-03-05 14:39:04 · 4 answers · asked by invisible_chic34 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
~My other friend talks to him on IM.
~He said that he wonders if he made a mistake with me, and that makes me feel bad, but could it mean anything?
Thanks.
2007-03-05 14:40:38 · update #1
I am in ninth grade now, still like him.
2007-03-05 14:48:27 · update #2
Yes, I still talk to him, we are on quite good terms, as we have french class together.
2007-03-05 14:49:15 · update #3
~Also, am I a...*****...for dumping him, or would you have done the same in my situation, I need to know.
2007-03-05 14:56:44 · update #4
~Also, am I a...*****...for dumping him, or would you have done the same in my situation, I need to know.
2007-03-05 14:57:56 · update #5
I'm really not sure what to say, are you still talking to him at all? If you don't talk to him than there is no chance to get with him, and if he is dating your neighbour than that kinda hurts your chances. You'll probably have to wait until they break up, which might be soon if your just out of 7th grade. You have to get talking to him again to start the feelings with him. But don't try to force them to break up, again if you do than you have no chance, because he'll end up hating you for destroying his relationship.
2007-03-05 14:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by Eric B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Casually approach him for help and assistance. Try to avail as many opportunities as possible to be with him. Tell him that you did not mind any of his mischiefs if there were any. Express explicitly that you like him and would like his company as much as possible.
Keep close friendship with your neighbor too. If she opens up, do not forget to be the first to tell her that you have a liking for this person. If she is a good friend she will move away from him. ( or she will become your enemy) this you should do only after knowing the feeling of your boyfriend for you. Then you will surely win
2007-03-05 22:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by atom45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you still in 7th grade? Because honestly, you don't know what real love is...you can't experience the magnitude in 7th grade. You'll meet so many more guys between school and work and other friends and you'll probably find someone that's a lot better than this guy.
2007-03-05 22:46:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you dhould ask him f he still likes u then tell him that u made a mistake when u broke up if he says he still like u
2007-03-05 22:44:46 · answer #4 · answered by bebedol27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋