Ok, my ex is my kinda sorta my friend and although he claims to love me, I don't know. Anyway, I wanna talk to him but its hard to get him alone. Most likely I won't be able to talk to him until this weekend, but I don't want to wait. If he likes me, then my week will go by a lot easier but waiting is so damn annoying and I've done it for way to long and I can't do it anymore. I want to call him up and talk, but I'd rather in person. It's so much more easier because then I can see his face and read his expressions better. I really want to talk to him, but I don't want to appear vunerable or desperate. Should I wait out the week, or ask him to talk sometime after school? (we don't talk in school because we've basically been strangers since we broke up 2 1/2 years ago)
2007-03-05 14:38:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wait on it...and don't agonize over it in the meantime. try to put yourself in the clearest state possible to determine if he's being honest and if you really want that, and possibly the options if its not gonna work.
2007-03-05 14:42:52 · answer #1 · answered by satirev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you need to get a life! I don't mean to be rude, however you say you don't want to appear desperate and vulnerable but that's exactly how you appear in just that little paragraph you wrote! You cannot live your life waiting for someone to show you how great you are. You have to find that out for yourself and BELIEVE IT! You don't need to waste your time trying to decode his responses and facial expressions. Move on with your life!
2007-03-05 22:46:10 · answer #2 · answered by Emily Dew 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel for you. i know what its like to wait and its hard. but i would wait for the week. i know wht you mean when you say you would much rather talk in person. but it will be hard but i would just wait out he week. ive had to wait out a month before. now that was really hard but once i looked back it wasnt as long as it seems.
2007-03-05 22:43:33 · answer #3 · answered by sunshine24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is your X and if you still love him you better jump up and do something befor someone comes alone and gets him...So what are you waitting on?....This 2007 women talk for their selfs so move it go get your man!
2007-03-05 22:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by flyangel1118 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. What are you waiting for? Just be ready for the worse!
2007-03-05 22:41:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl i love your hat and yea i think u should talk to him asap and tell him whats on your mind.
2007-03-05 22:41:33 · answer #6 · answered by precious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probaply going to come to you
2007-03-05 22:43:38 · answer #7 · answered by ieatpuss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋