Family & Relationships - 3 March 2007

Today i went to the mall and got some new make -up and got a free makeover with it ...Well when i came home i was hoping my boyfriend would notice and would say something but he hasnt . Do u think he can even see my new make up or he just doesnt care?

2007-03-03 09:53:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I went through a rough period in our marriage over the past few years, and we seperated for a while a couple years ago, and we have been going through marriage counceling with a pastor from our church, which has helped us alot to rebuild our relationship and bring us closer to each other.

Intamacy isn't a problem, we spend alot of intimate time together, just cuddling and snuggling, and talking. But when it comes to sex, she has no desire for sex. I want to make love to her, not for my pleasure, but for hers. And it gets really frustrating when I ask if we can make love, and she says not tonite, I'm not in the mood.

It's starting to get to where it's affecting me, where I'm at the point where I feel, why bother even asking, because it makes me wonder if she desires me at all. I love her and our marriage is doing so much better, except in this area. Romance and intamacy is good except the lack of sex. I know intamacy doesn't mean sex, but I want us to make love

2007-03-03 09:52:17 · 11 answers · asked by Bryan M 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have known my best friend for nearly 7 years, but we've only been friends for almost 1 and a half. We talk to each other once every two months and we only talk for 30 minutes each time. What should I do?

2007-03-03 09:50:59 · 3 answers · asked by Darcie C 2 in Friends

My husband makes comments all the time about thats not the right way or thats just stupid WRONG and alot of other things he says makes me fell worthless and stupid . I try all the time to do things to make him happy but it is never enough. He talks to the kids the same way just not as much as he does to me . I dont like it and i have told him how it makes me feel but nothing changes. What can I say or do to make him understand how i feel?

2007-03-03 09:50:39 · 21 answers · asked by tina seagraves 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-03 09:50:05 · 3 answers · asked by Dani 1 in Singles & Dating

Me & my boyfriend were together for 7 years We broke up back in December because I was really irresponsible, not cooking, not cleaning, being jealous all the time for nothing, Yelling at him and not talking to him like an adult. I was always spending money on stuff that I did not need. I was not saving any money at all. My boyfriend wanted a independent woman and That I did not do. Now I have my own place and paying bills and being responsible. My boyfriend saids he just wants to be friends for now but he is out there dating other women and he saids I have a chance of getting back together. Do you feel that I have a chance? What more do I need to do to prove that I am his dream girl. We get along so well but there were times I just acted like a child. I get along so well with his family and they all look up to me. I have been coming around being around him more lately since we broke up and been cleaning and cooking but I dont know anymore. I dont know if I still have a chance. Help!!

2007-03-03 09:49:52 · 7 answers · asked by starrynightbreeze2005 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-03 09:48:53 · 15 answers · asked by magic 4 in Singles & Dating

Hoping someone can just give me some words of encouragement. I am struggling to deal with a guy i sit next to at work who i thought was interested but it hasn't worked out. He still plays mind games w/me and i ignore him. Plus another girl at work is harassing me and making my life miserable cause she is jealous of my work performance. My boss is unable to fix that cause the girl does it in subtle ways when others aren't around. I've had a relapse of bulimia which hasn't been a problem 4 me 4 8 yrs. Plus my stepdad is dying of brain cancer. i don't want to go out and meet people for fear i'll be used and played again. and i am so depressed. i am under a dr's care, taking medicine, etc., but hoping to get a word or two of encouragement from anyone out there whose been through this stuff.... thank you.

2007-03-03 09:48:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why dont people respect say nude or porn models, strippers etc?


All they are doing is changing clothes, flirting and dancing ie keep fit. or say a porn star... just having sex like most do dailiy.


They are not hurting anyone, cheating anyone, mistreating anyone


They are not nec dumb..


Ie could get a job as a teacher or twice as much as a model and sort out the mortage faster.

Sex aint immoral or dirty (unless mud wrestling)

And marriage often ends up in divorce or fighting.

All they do is chear up lonly guys and make a top bucks night.


As for what if your daugher/sister.


Well same rules would apply to any job. Ie is she happy, treated well, has freinds, safe etc.


Plus as mate girls were alwasy up for things like wet t shirt competitions dont see the big deal as we would just think... cool , nice ****.


Not think of her in a bad way or loose respect.

We likes girl mates or girlfreinds as fun, freindly, caring, nice etc

2007-03-03 09:48:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A while back I made a blog post about the two women I have dated (not simultaneously) but didn’t got far.

While I started to talk about the second one I used this line:

“I admit I'm a rather shallow man, I tend to judge people on appearance AND personality. This woman, however was a tad overweight, and I'm being kind, but that didn't matter… somehow I still found her stunningly beautiful, I would never want her to lose a single pound.”

I was trying to look for a way to say how I’m an moron that tends to quickly ignore a woman due to body weight, but how I found this woman beautiful and without any defect.

Today, I got an response from her on the blog where she says:

“and you're being kind, you say? wow. glad you were able to overlook my apparent obesity.”

Now I feel like a worthless ball of putrid guano. I never intended to insult her or make her feel bad, I never “overlooked her obesity” because for me she had no defects and was perfect.

What should I tell her now?

2007-03-03 09:47:51 · 4 answers · asked by Joy 2 in Friends

My boyfriend left me two days ago and yesterday he came over to my house and he was kissing me and holding my hand and we went to the mall and all kinds of stuff that we did WHEN WE WERE DATING so last night when i called him i asked him whats going on with US and he said ill tell you when i feel like it...what should i do with him.?

2007-03-03 09:46:45 · 8 answers · asked by Punk 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

This question was inspired from a conversation I had with a guy today. He said that he thought that more women should be size 0, to which I laughed and said "What, so you don't like these curves?" then I twirled for him to look at me. To my HORROR he pulled a face and said, "No, actually, sorry babe, I like you but, you do need to lose a few pounds", Please tell me that not all guys have this view! Otherwise I am going to go into depression!

Don't even suggest making me go on a diet!

2007-03-03 09:46:35 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-03 09:46:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

half of parents are in favour of bringing back the cane,but the other half claim that this would be no use at all...just how are we going to curb this behaviour...do you think tv plays any part in influencing kids as some people suggest they are the biggest problem in our society showing violence and relationship problems in most of the before watershed programes.Are we just going to have to accept that this is the way it is from now on

2007-03-03 09:46:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so the guy i like ...i think he likes me to....but he doesn't know I like him. So how do I let him know without flat out saying I like him?

2007-03-03 09:46:01 · 6 answers · asked by OxiHEARTMUSiCxO 4 in Singles & Dating

Like even if the woman has a boyfriend she will tease and flirt her way to have free drinks and all that. Ya girls say we have the power we should be able to do it but then ask yourself why some guys cheat maybe its cause the other girls are using there power that they have over men and they dont care? hmmm rethink this and come up with guys flirt ill admit it with other girls but were not so forward about it any girl that we flirted with would not give in so easily guys give in easy and all girls know that so just look at the facts

2007-03-03 09:45:01 · 11 answers · asked by DreamAgain 1 in Singles & Dating

At my slumer-party, EVERYONE was falling all over him. We went out for two years. Please help me!

2007-03-03 09:43:34 · 12 answers · asked by houston_hottie101 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 19yrs&in love with a 29yr man.I met him when I was 13, he was more of a friend than a lover, but things changed..3yrs ago, he was forced to marry his cousin in order to save his sister's marriage.He refused to break up our relationship& he was already living far from his wife, visiting her yearly, making her pregnant twice already. Guilt built up along the yrs&I finally tried to break up, few days later, his wife calls and begs me to take him back..I'm still in medical school and have 4 more yrs to study..I really love him and I know he's feels the same way too..but do I really have hope in marrying a man who's 10 yrs elder than me, from a different ethnic race & country, married and a lower educational standard, though none of this bothers me at all..In 7 years I tried to leave him more than once, but never really had the heart to live without him, nor would he let me go just like that..Am I just being delusional and unreal? And will my parents ever agree?

2007-03-03 09:43:21 · 11 answers · asked by Calmness 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the night before yesturday i had a small fight with my bf. i actually wasn't mad at him, i was very dissapointed. And i still am. Yesturday i didn't call him until noon because i was so sad for being let down by him, but i got over it and we went out with some friends, the night seemed ok, the hugged me, and acted normal... today i called him once, no answer, waited like an hour and a half, called again and no answer, and i just tried to call him (about two hours have passed) and again no answer. is he trying to avoid me? what should i do? we've been together for 2 years, i love him, but is he trying to tell me something by avoiding me?

2007-03-03 09:43:07 · 1 answers · asked by chicken doggie 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I are hopefully going away in a couple on months. This will be our first getaway together. And i want to try and make it romantic. I want to take a bubble bath together. And was wondering if anyone knew where to get water prof condoms as my bf will not make love without them. thanks

2007-03-03 09:42:48 · 8 answers · asked by Crazy in Love 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-03 09:41:44 · 21 answers · asked by Princess Inquisitive 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been going through a divorce.

My wife and I have been seperated for 3 months and I have rebounded with a friend of mine that I have known for a long time. I think that I am treating the new woman with feelings I have for my wife. Recently, my wife and I have began to become "friends" and there is definately something still there. I have a 3 year old son that we both love and are both there for as a team.

Should I break up with the new girl with hopes of rekindling my relationship with my wife? or am I wishful thinking?

She left me by the way..... Thanks

2007-03-03 09:41:37 · 23 answers · asked by Jeremiah M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

their is going to be a huge dance on friday and i want to ask this guy in my school. he is 14 and i am 13 he laphs at my jokes and i am the only grl he talks to and he always talks to me when he can. dose he like me and how should i ask him to the dance?

should i go by my self and as him to dance when we get there?

2007-03-03 09:40:17 · 12 answers · asked by blah 3 in Singles & Dating

My dad is so unfair...he doesnt want to do anything! Like today im like you wana watch boxing, and hes like nah...and its always like that. My dad doesnt like to do anything and its not like I love spending time with him, but some times would be nice. What can I do?

2007-03-03 09:40:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Theres these 2 boys that i really like and they're both so different and they're both so great. I don't know who to choose. What should i do?

2007-03-03 09:39:37 · 9 answers · asked by Rosey Rose 1 in Singles & Dating

embarase the teenagers in public?

2007-03-03 09:39:12 · 14 answers · asked by EDDIE 2 in Family

hey im having a problem in making my arms and legs independant....especially my left foot! do you know any exercise that can help me?, i also need help with drum rolls! i can kinda do it, but it doesnt soud that right, how can i practice to improve?

2007-03-03 09:38:22 · 2 answers · asked by PuNk RoCkEr GuRL 2 in Singles & Dating

b4 i had sex for the 1st time my friends had vibrators and i was the only one without one,,,cuz i still wanted my virginity......but my friends said that masturbating urself was still ok....that i would still be a virgin...??????????????what do u think?

2007-03-03 09:38:13 · 2 answers · asked by moreira0110 2 in Singles & Dating

If you had a date with a guy and you were not attracted to him. Would you care if he never called you again? Is there a small part of you that wants him to call so you can turn him down?

2007-03-03 09:37:51 · 19 answers · asked by bigpumpdaddy 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i are dating 2 months already, both of us want to be with each other, but he always needs to tell me that i need to take care of myself, that i need to wear make up everyday, and be pretty for him in order to be proud of me, i can not get why he can not accept me as i am, and he is so suspective, i do not know how to be with him and get rid of his machoizm, pls advise

2007-03-03 09:37:19 · 11 answers · asked by dream 1 in Singles & Dating