My boyfriend and i are dating 2 months already, both of us want to be with each other, but he always needs to tell me that i need to take care of myself, that i need to wear make up everyday, and be pretty for him in order to be proud of me, i can not get why he can not accept me as i am, and he is so suspective, i do not know how to be with him and get rid of his machoizm, pls advise
2007-03-03 09:37:19 · 11 answers · asked by dream 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no offense, but that guy sound slike a reall b****
if i were you, i would dump him, and find a guy who accepts me for who i am. A boyfriend shouldnt be there to tell you that you need makeup, but a boyfriend should be someone who cares about you and accepts you. :)
2007-03-03 09:43:19 · answer #1 · answered by <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a lot more than him being macho. If this guy is going to be with you he needs to accept you and adore you for who you are. That means liking/loving you just as much when you're sick in bed or dressed up for a night on the town. It sounds to me like he wants to change you and no offense, I'm sure you're find the way you are.
If he has trust issues those are his problems. He sounds like a lot of work and life is short. Are you sure he is worth the trouble?
2007-03-03 17:43:00 · answer #2 · answered by ←Shea→ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him. If he's telling you what to wear and how to wear yoru make up already he's only going to get worse, i've seen girls who's boyfriends start out like this and after 6-monts or a year the guy is telling them who they can talk to who their friends are.
Guys aren't easily changed, If that's his nature your better off with somebody else. They usually get worse over time not better.
2007-03-03 17:48:03 · answer #3 · answered by Rhuby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is what he is. If you don't like it, accept it and break it off. He's not going to change - this particular male characteristic never gets better, and will likely get a lot worse, especially if you comply with his wishes.
You've only been with him for two months. Before you get too emotionally attached, just end it. Save yourself and him a lot of grief.
2007-03-03 17:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow are you starting down the wrong path... "get rid of..." ANYTING... is not a way to start or develop a healthy relationship... his attitude, his cat, your clothes... nothing.
It is obvious he does NOT accept you the way you are but rather sees you as someone he can MOLD into something he can toy with. You need to bail while you have remotely any self-respect and sell-esteem left to call yours.
2007-03-03 17:43:08 · answer #5 · answered by wonderful1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you like being with this dude? sounds to me like it might not last much longer especially if he cant take you for who you already are.. sounds like he has some control issues...
2007-03-03 17:41:59 · answer #6 · answered by LION 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes play into his ego that usually work, then understand how shallow he really is.
2007-03-03 17:43:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new boyfriend.
2007-03-03 17:41:17 · answer #8 · answered by Emily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he dont like you for who you are dump hisass cause its never going to last anyway
2007-03-03 17:41:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds all right, but you guys might not be that compatible...
2007-03-03 17:44:21 · answer #10 · answered by 1000 Man Embassy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋