If you had a date with a guy and you were not attracted to him. Would you care if he never called you again? Is there a small part of you that wants him to call so you can turn him down?
2007-03-03 09:37:51 · 19 answers · asked by bigpumpdaddy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, if he didnt call me, i would feel like a jerk, cuz he prolly isnt calling because he doesnt like u any more, maybe it was something U did, not him. he dumped u first....
2007-03-03 09:40:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In answer to your three questions ~ ~ ~ No....Yes....No.
I would not go on a date with a guy I was NOT attracted to as that would be encouraging something I know is NOT going to continue. That's just leading a guy on and that's cruel to the heart.
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If I did go on a date and the guy never called me again. Attracted to him or not...if he never called me after a date I'd find that rude. If people don't want to continue seeing each other...a phone call should be made even if just to say..."You may be fine...I'm fine...yet we don't mesh", type call.
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And, there is NO part of me that wants him to call just so I can turn him down. If I need to turn a guy down and say I don't want to date him anymore...if he doesn't call, I will make that call myself.
2007-03-03 17:40:49 · answer #2 · answered by onelight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the girl or if her friends know about the situation. If she has a self esteem issue she may want to boost herself up by turning him down, otherwise if her friends know she might want to turn him down to impress them. Also depends on if the date went bad or not or if he was a jerk.
2007-03-03 17:41:38 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal Kaye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attraction is not everyting. If he's a good guyl...be friends if he's willing. Never know...he could end up being your best friend. After all....I'd rather confide in a guy....in one ear out the other.
Good luck...\\
Sandy
2007-03-03 17:47:39 · answer #4 · answered by cocacolachickee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are very smart! If I wasn't interested I think I would want that phone call just to have it! Most girls want to be wanted even if they know they don't want that person. It's mean but it is true!
2007-03-03 17:40:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i wasn't attracted to the guy then i guess i wouldn't care if he called me or not. you can't force that. it has to come natraly. you know? but if he was a nice guy i might want to be friends.
2007-03-03 17:44:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be relieved, but then I wouldn't have been on the date in the first place.
2007-03-03 17:40:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU got it. I could care less if he called me again.
2007-03-03 17:40:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its defantly nice to still get a call
2007-03-03 17:41:00 · answer #9 · answered by smiles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way - once seen - best forgotten. I think you would both know that sparks were not flying...and you can't start a fire with out a spark!!!!
2007-03-03 17:41:11 · answer #10 · answered by Stokesy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋