Family & Relationships - 3 March 2007

she doesnt realize that i love her because i see the real person. she is always trying to push me away. constantly questioning my love for her. what can i do?

2007-03-03 15:52:21 · 8 answers · asked by rkurdek 2 in Singles & Dating

my ex and i are getting along and he is with another woman and it actually going good eveyone likes each other and now they are trying to set me up with one of her exs any advise.(we are not divorced yet)

2007-03-03 15:52:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-03 15:51:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There will be 10 women getting together at my house. I am thinking of having a "Simple Pleasure" gift exchange. Each person will bring a wrapped gift that they consider a simple pleasure (coffee, candle, chocolate).

How should we distribute the gifts? I was thinking maybe like the white elephant game but I do not want anyone to have hurt feelings. Do you have any ideas about the exchange? Do you like the simple pleasure theme? What should the we limit the cost to? $10? Thanks for your input!

2007-03-03 15:51:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i am really bored and kind of sad

2007-03-03 15:50:51 · 10 answers · asked by mee_shell 1 in Singles & Dating

To ask a girl out is realy not difficult, but to me it is. because some times the girl might have a boyfriend, but when they are asked they say no. and they cheat. so, waths the point in prolonging the innevictable when you know sometimes you'll never get the answer you want. because of that it's realy very hard for me to ask a girl out. i don't realy know the right words to use, sometimes i know the words but i don't know how to say them. i want to kno whow to ask a girl out.

2007-03-03 15:50:47 · 11 answers · asked by henry_arsenallegend 1 in Singles & Dating

girls help,
can any of you tell me how i can tell a girl i have had the hots for since i was 21 that i think she cute and that i like her without her thinking that i want to ask her to marry me???i mean i like this girl a lot and i want to give her a better chance to be loved because her boyfriend she is with now is always hunting when she wants to go on dates and i don't think that is write do any of you girls have any ideas on how i can get her to notice that i like her and want to ask her out?? she is one year younger than me and i'm 25...

2007-03-03 15:50:28 · 2 answers · asked by geostrom b 4 in Singles & Dating

I always feel like if this is what I'm thinking about then our marraige is probably doomed. My wife has alienated herself from all of my friends and most of my family. I can't stand not being around the people I love aside from my wife. When marriage depends on such vague qualities such as trust and shared values, how does one keep a marriage healthy and whole? The emotions are SO intense -- on days we are loving eachother it is total bliss ... and on the days we're fighting it becomes the worst day of my life!! Sometimes I just feel like I'm better off alone. I feel like I'm putting a lot of effort into it, but things can go quickly from great to horrible. I'm okay with making tradeoffs, but not at the expense of losing long-time friends and family -- when is it time to call it quits and start over??

2007-03-03 15:50:06 · 13 answers · asked by misterlyle 3 in Marriage & Divorce

The only problem is the whole, I don't know if he likes me. Plus, here comes the big one, he lives 1500 miles away. I like him but I'm not sure how to hint it without being to obvious. What should I do?

2007-03-03 15:49:44 · 1 answers · asked by lalablah_blah 2 in Singles & Dating

i did something today that made my boyfriend freak... and to explain why he freaked he said that it was something his ex girlfriend did and that was why he broke up with her!? wtf do i do...???

2007-03-03 15:49:16 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Lately its been a little lonely. Im not sure how to react to this. Should I do something?

2007-03-03 15:48:55 · 13 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend father hit her because she didnt want to it. Is this wrong or right..

2007-03-03 15:48:09 · 13 answers · asked by J-C 2 in Family

Just share your opinion.

2007-03-03 15:48:01 · 17 answers · asked by What gives? 5 in Singles & Dating

I told my ex (soon to be officially) husband that I wanted a divorce the first week of January. We jointly filed the first week of February. Per the divorce agreement, the house is mine, and he signed it off right before we filed for divorce. So it has been almost a month, I had to serve him with a 30 day notice to get him to understand that he has to find another place to live. I have not been weak, I have been completely honest with him and have told him that he has to leave. I am at a total loss, and I am really sad that I become nauseous when I commute home in the evenings because I know he will be here. I want him out now. What can I do?

2007-03-03 15:47:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ive broke up with my ex almost 30 times. well we ended it again and i put my foot down this time. each time i thought it would get better and it never did. well i stopped having sex with him and i didnt let him move back in this time. well he has always come back to talk me into getting back together. do you think he will this time. he said hes tired of me fussing at him. well im sick of him all together. he lies to me and doesnt respect me at all. and has never cared about my feelings. so what im saying is i hope he stays away this time cuz i really dont want to see him again. and since he always came back before do you think he will this time based on what i told you. i dont want him to call or come by. i want to move on with my life this time.we dated almost 3 yrs. so do you think he will try it again cuz if he does i will have to get a restraining order so he will know i mean business this time. so what are the odds of the low life returning again at my door. plz no smart comments

2007-03-03 15:47:48 · 8 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

I see this quiet guy in class. I don't know him or anything, but I just think he has a unique style. i am a shy and really quiet person. (this is a university class). however, i do not even sit next to him. how do i start a conversation with him? should i ask him advice on how to study for the class?

sometimes, it's kinda weird to talk to someone (a classmate), maybe that person think it's kinda creepy. So... what should I do? How do I know if this person has a girlfriend or not?( because i see him text messages a lot)

Thank you for help!

2007-03-03 15:47:35 · 2 answers · asked by Melted heart 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-03 15:47:33 · 6 answers · asked by Christina T 2 in Friends

American women specifically and Western women in general have problems that turn men off:

Western women want men to serve THEM most of the time but are unwilling to put in the effort or TIME to make it an intelligent partnership.
Western women are coarse, vulgar, rude, or distinctly lack femininity.
Western women are argumentative, critical, and demanding (i.e. bitchy).
Western women are money-hungry and superficial.
Western women are generally mentally unstable.
Western women use sex as a weapon and reward to get things.
Western women are just bitter and show contempt for men.
Most of non-Western women in Latin America, Asia, and Eastern Europe are the exact opposite of Western women.
Non-Western women do not have anti-male bias and they are not pre-occupied with fairness and trying to prove themselves and to make a point.
Non-Western women are not self-centered and do not have high-maintenance, superficial, and stuck up attitude.

2007-03-03 15:46:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know i would would you

2007-03-03 15:46:02 · 4 answers · asked by mitchel mussos girlfrann 1 in Friends

2007-03-03 15:45:45 · 1 answers · asked by happyfeet 1 in Singles & Dating

pick one

2007-03-03 15:45:32 · 21 answers · asked by bright_green_dress 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-03 15:45:16 · 3 answers · asked by jenn k 2 in Singles & Dating

What i mean, is.. Would it be likely for people to give you wedding gifts if... You already live with your fiance and have a baby together? Ive been wondering that for a WHILE.... Would you? How likely is it?

2007-03-03 15:44:38 · 19 answers · asked by Chef Mommy 2 in Weddings

my friend's mom hates me because she thinks i do mean stuff to her daughter but the thing is I DON'T. she tells her mom lies about me being mean to her and she started cutting herself. her mom thinks im the cause. her mom drives me home everyday and now i'm really scared of her. what should i do?

2007-03-03 15:44:06 · 13 answers · asked by jkl; 4 in Friends

my best friend just broke up with her boyfriend of almost 6 months because her family doesnt want her to be dating. She loved him very much, and now I don't know what to tell her. I feel like a horrible friend but I honestly have no idea. any good suggestions on what I could say that might make her feel better?

2007-03-03 15:43:47 · 5 answers · asked by Elizabeth J 1 in Friends

My 1 year wedding anniversary is coming up in the next 2 months.My husband and I got married on 5/27.We did not go on a honeymoon as my husband decided to take his vacation a week early before I did. Going anywhere this year is going to be out of the question as our work schedule is completly different plus we don't have a lot of money to spend.(Other obligations always comes first). What could I do to make our 1 year anniversary memorable without spending a fortune?

2007-03-03 15:43:10 · 5 answers · asked by fairydust52606 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive never kissed a girl in my entire life. I know its patethic. I wanna know how do i tell she wants to kiss me and whens the right time to do it. And is there anything i should kno before i have my first kiss???

2007-03-03 15:43:07 · 32 answers · asked by boogernigga 1 in Singles & Dating

the woman is known for being very friendly with men. She also keeps calling my husbands phone even though I've told her to stop. She also has come over to my house many times even after being told to stay away. My husband says that there is nothing going on .that it is just business( my husband does custom auto upholstery) She has called my work and left word for me to call her but when I did call her she said she wanted to get everything out on the table but then said that we could meet somewhere..... but she never shows up to meet me. She has left several threatning messages on my husbands phone saying that we'de be sorry that we treated her like so many others had done..... what should I do???

2007-03-03 15:42:47 · 54 answers · asked by somelike 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-03 15:42:47 · 9 answers · asked by July Wedding Girl 2 in Weddings

I'm a guy and I have no game. I'm 24 and I've never had a girlfriend. My therapist told me to just ask my friends how to flirt. I'm uncomfortable with that so I'm asking you all. What do you do?

2007-03-03 15:42:41 · 5 answers · asked by THE STUDLIEST 6 in Singles & Dating