my friend's mom hates me because she thinks i do mean stuff to her daughter but the thing is I DON'T. she tells her mom lies about me being mean to her and she started cutting herself. her mom thinks im the cause. her mom drives me home everyday and now i'm really scared of her. what should i do?
2007-03-03 15:44:06 · 13 answers · asked by jkl; 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
my mom wont let me ride the bus or walk home and no one else is available to drive me.
2007-03-03 15:48:32 · update #1
Tell your Mother...the school counselor, a teacher. Your friend needs help and it looks like her mother doesn't listen to her daughter...all you can do is try and help her, by turning her in to someone else, who CAN help her...
Good luck !!! [[[ ]]]
2007-03-03 15:47:33 · answer #1 · answered by Chrys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not your friend's mom that started the hatred.
The fact is this friend(i don't think she is) hates you. You should talk to someone in your family about this, maybe your mom.
She will probably figure something to drive you home rather than the friend's family's car. Then, tell your mom to deal with her mom. You just have to deal with the friend of yours, by asking her why did she do that. And in a well-manner.
2007-03-03 23:54:53 · answer #2 · answered by middle of mind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your mom know about this? I think she should. It could be that you are reading something in this woman that isn't there. You know she's not going to hurt you, but your mom should probably go to bat for you with this other mother. If you can't resolve it with your moms help, it might be best to find another ride home.
Her daughter has a problem. Either she can't see it, or she can see it, but is in denial. At any rate, her daughter needs to get some help to overcome this. It can be done, but her mom's participation in this is essential.
2007-03-04 00:04:59 · answer #3 · answered by kj 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find a time when you can speak privately with your friends mom. tell her how you honestly feel, tell her you are afraid for her daughter as well and are concerned for her safety. Tell her YOU ARE ON HER SIDE. I am sure her mother feels helpless. it is easier to blame someone else because most of the time moms are really thinking that maybe it is something they did.
2007-03-03 23:52:15 · answer #4 · answered by misse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with her because her daughter is going through things and the mom is blind to it and if talking gets you no where find another way home to avoid the uncomfortable situation
2007-03-03 23:48:59 · answer #5 · answered by Superfly21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could talk to your friend's mom. You could also find another ride home.
2007-03-03 23:46:47 · answer #6 · answered by KaTsToe2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being her friend if she keep doing that to you or just try talking to her and ask why is she telling her mom lies. if shes your true friend she would stop telling her mom all the lies.
2007-03-03 23:51:03 · answer #7 · answered by margie s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom whats going on and how you feel.Also be honest with yourself and ask yourself if youve ever mistreated the womans daughter, whether intentionally or unintentionally and apologize if you have.
2007-03-03 23:48:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just look the other way and think about something else. trust me, ive had experience in this. theres nothing really that u can do except not to get rides w/ her anymore.
2007-03-03 23:47:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your parents about what happened and how you're not comfortable in this situation. you didn't do anything wrong, and your friend there obviously needs help.
even if you were mean to her, her mother shouldn't blame anyone for her cutting herself. you can't make someone do that to themself. so her mother needs to get a clue.
2007-03-03 23:48:46 · answer #10 · answered by tinkbostwick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋