Family & Relationships - 3 March 2007

The girl I am seeing has stopped having sex with me. She says she wants to wait till she is married. There isn't much intimacy. I am in a tough situation because if I act like and ask for it she runs off and gets turned off by it. If I act like it doesn't bother me, I feel like she doesn't like me. I know there isn't another guy cause she spends a lot of time with me. She does everything but the intimacy. What should I do? What is the best way to go about this. We broke up a couple months ago because she said I was being needy. So what would be the appropriate response to this? Find another girl? Be patient?

2007-03-03 16:05:22 · 5 answers · asked by D 1 in Singles & Dating

there's this guy i've been seeing and for 7 months he said that he was single never been married.....he would call me all the time and talk about his family and tell me how his mom wants him to get married and start a family and i went on myspace went on his page and his sister left a comment on the page and said that he is married with two kids and that he needs to stop lying to everyone on myspace. why would he lie like this?........no rude comments

2007-03-03 16:05:02 · 29 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I need some good advise, on how to write a letter to your spouse of 7 yrs, and is divorcing me, and how i am so sorry for all of the wrong things i have done in my marriage. I have never cheated on my spouse or anything like that, but i have done alot stupid things, without thinking, and it was very wrong for me to do, and please don't critisize me, i am seeking real help. Well, it started when i got stupid and came up with the most outragious idea, that i would use my husband checking account to pay on a bill, without him knowing it, and yes he found out about it, but we talked on the phone, and i told him how sorry i was, and it was a very stupid move, but i didn't learn did I? next thing i did, was i claimed one of my kids on my taxs, and that one is more of a different thing there, he is trying to keep my kids from me etc. all i want to do is make up for my mistakes and wrongs that i have done, can anybody please give me advise on how to write a letter to him?

2007-03-03 16:05:00 · 6 answers · asked by gshawl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he said we aren't over, he said "the tension between us is too high, and i'm afraid that if we don't cool it we'll be over. don't think i don't love you, i told you i love you more than anything in the world, more than anyone i've ever loved before, and i meant it." then he just left. i have to see him at church tomorrow, what do i do when i see him? do i say something?

2007-03-03 16:04:43 · 12 answers · asked by lauren 2 in Singles & Dating

I am feeling like this since my close friend found a guy she likes and I think he likes her back and he's my god-brother. And when we go out together she will always be stuck on him and like forgotten bout me and my another friend. When I said, "You are gonna ride the skyride with him right? Nvm I'll just ride it alone." Then I can see from her face that she really wants to ride with him but said "No.. I can't let you do that." It's so clear that I see it through her heart!

2007-03-03 16:04:18 · 8 answers · asked by ♥Butt3rfLyKis5ez 3 in Singles & Dating

i have a boyfriend but this boy at my school keeps asking me out and he writes down his number and hands it to me during break at school.i keep telling him no. but he keeps giving me letters .me and my bf kee telling him to leave me alone, but he won't wut do i do ?

2007-03-03 16:03:05 · 16 answers · asked by sugarbabe 1 in Singles & Dating

I saw a guy walking up to my girlfriends apartment when I drove up. I waited around for several hours and came back very early in the morning and the person was still there. Several days later I told her what I saw and she said he was a friend that stayed the night after her one girlfriend cancelled a get together. Should I believe her?

2007-03-03 16:02:50 · 15 answers · asked by Zippo T 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-03 16:02:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm going through the divorce I never thought would happen - trying to raise my daughter in the best way. Believe her father and her need eachother - doing all I can there. But want advice from children that went through "broken" homes as to what they dealt with that was good / bad from their parents or parents who learned lessons along the way too. Please don't give a bunch of links, I've read those - I want YOUR real thoughts... My daughter means everything to me and I truly put her before all else... We both could use your help. Thanks in advance.

2007-03-03 16:02:17 · 5 answers · asked by Wildflower 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Sometimes circumstances force you to be lonely . How can one enjoy ones own company ? any tips

2007-03-03 16:01:46 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my girls friends birthday is coming up...what should i get her?? we're pretty serious now, i was thinking about getting her a tong, and playboy bunny ears, is that a good gift?

2007-03-03 16:01:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i got to know that there was a guy in my class that have a crush on me...my friends told me that he always ask bout me and all the stuff bout me..one day, he called me and start to msg me..he even msg me that he said that he likes me and wants me to become his girl..i rejected his idea because i said that i need to know him better and then only i can make my decision..he agreed...but whats bother me is that the way he treat me as if he treat me like his own friends and he even bullied more me in the class compared to my other friends..so, i don know whether i should said yes or no to be his girl...he really got my attention but his behaviour certainly not ok to me...

2007-03-03 16:01:18 · 3 answers · asked by denise 1 in Singles & Dating

Would a round mirror look better underneath, or square??

2007-03-03 16:00:58 · 3 answers · asked by spen21 2 in Weddings

My sister is getting married in july. her and her fiance live in Michigan and are getting married in ohio i was wondering what state would they get their marriage license in

2007-03-03 16:00:51 · 6 answers · asked by Jenny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

today i just called of the wedding bc my soon to be groom IS NOT listening to me and i am starting to get really depressed about it. did i do the right thing? why the hell did i do it? was it the wrong choice? please i really dont know what to do. i tried to talk to him but he just walked out on me. then he came back packed ALL his stuff and just left me 4 months pregnant with twins alone. i really dont know what to do HELP

2007-03-03 16:00:42 · 10 answers · asked by god's child 2 in Friends

my fiance is american and i am filipino.

2007-03-03 16:00:39 · 6 answers · asked by fbbaetiong 1 in Weddings

cheated on love. still love her .

2007-03-03 16:00:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and this other kid only flicked these emo kids off because they kept looking at us. To my complete surprise they actually tried to fight, I got hit once in the mouth and it did'nt even bruise. It was 4-2 and they fought like girls.
Who else thinks they can't fight at all?

2007-03-03 15:59:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just Imagine. A Man and a Woman that are attracted to each other. They have never been introduced to each other....and they never talk to each other...But they romance. They get excited when they see each other...they admire each other. All the romance they have so far is only thru the eyes

They want to touch and feel each other...and take it to the next step. SHould they?

2007-03-03 15:59:26 · 9 answers · asked by Nir V 1 in Singles & Dating

ok heres the problem, my friend and her bf broke up thursday night, he asked me out on friday and i said yes, was it the right thing to do(I really really like him)....... Im 14

2007-03-03 15:58:40 · 8 answers · asked by briahanna2011 2 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy and we've been together for a few weeks. We havent done anything sexual, but I'd like to in the future. Sometimes when we make out he'll suggest, physically, that we go further. I think this would be and feel "normal" if I wasn't a virgin because I'm definately attracted to him and trust him...

My question is though, how should I tell him I'm a virgin? It hasn't been brought up so maybe that's why he thinks it's fine for him to try and go further wih me...? I don't feel pressured or anything but I'd like to tell him I'm a virgin so he knows why I'm not going for it right now... Any advice is appreciated!

2007-03-03 15:58:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-03 15:57:52 · 5 answers · asked by smmsoccergirl 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay I like this guy...but..he is a Cowboy He is really sweet and that is just what i have heard from people that know him or talk to him alot!He told one of my friends that he wants a girl that is into Rodeo and i have been to a few but i'm not all for it! But he thinks i'm cool(or atleast thats what he says) I have wrote him a note or two, and he seems to like it but he wont reply or talk to me..but when we walk down the halls he looks at me like he wants to talk but somthing is holding him back! but i dont know what it is? I want to get to know him and talk to him but i'm holding back as well and scared of what might happen when i do talk to him whether it will be bad or good? WHAT SHOULD I DO??? HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!

2007-03-03 15:56:48 · 6 answers · asked by luh luh la reee! 2 in Singles & Dating

i just wanna know how women feel on this ore deal cuz i eat my lady all the time cuz she loves it she has the best orgasams that way and she said i am perfect and i love to do it cuz it makes her feel good....... okay i love to do it cuz i love her buut in my face

2007-03-03 15:56:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, since I am americanized and I am sure there are some things that are different the way we do with the european. I need help because I am not gonna see her only for a day but it's going to be two weeks. Help, I need help to do this. I am going to stay in the same house with her and my bf, oh gosh this is going to be hard! It sounds like she is nice because when my bf came to visit me, she was asking him about me and say hi to me. However, there are still things that I am concern about, specially this is going to be our first meeting.

2007-03-03 15:55:58 · 7 answers · asked by sweetcherry 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

so can I have it?

2007-03-03 15:55:12 · 5 answers · asked by And Hearts Weirdo 3 in Singles & Dating

What should i get my bf for his birthday (march 14) and our one year (march 7).... he doesn't want clothes and i already got him colonge for christmas.... i need some ideas... like something for his xbox 260 maybe?...

2007-03-03 15:54:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there's this guy i've been seeing and for 7 months he said that he was single never been married.....he would call me all the time and talk about his family and tell me how his mom wants him to get married and start a family and i went on myspace went on his page and his sister left a comment on the page and said that he is married with two kids and that he needs to stop lying to everyone on myspace. why would he lie like this?........no rude comments

2007-03-03 15:53:40 · 14 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and my girl of 7 years have had a great relationship.. well just recently she's needed help from a guy I don't like.. she was hiding calls, text messages, and emails from me... Everytime I confront her she denies it. She says I will "call him, and act like your not here, and ask him about it... he might think I am psycho and it will ruin my chances getting on the job but I'll do it.." Thats what she said she would do if needed. Basically, with me there, she'd call him and act like I wasn't there and try to bring it up. She will say, "what do you think happened?" or "for me to have sex with someone, there has to be some feelings there."

This went on for about 2 weeks but things seem ok now.

Basically, my question, do you think she's guilty or not? COULD they have done something, or maybe not? What do yall think based on this? If there was something, would she REALLY call him and act like I wasn't there to see what he would say?

Confused?

2007-03-03 15:52:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so i told this girl that i really liked her and wanted to know how she felt about me and if she'd want to go on a date...i didnt get a chance to ask her on the phone so i got impaciante and sent her an email...its been a 24hrs now and no response what so ever...what should i do

2007-03-03 15:52:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating