I saw a guy walking up to my girlfriends apartment when I drove up. I waited around for several hours and came back very early in the morning and the person was still there. Several days later I told her what I saw and she said he was a friend that stayed the night after her one girlfriend cancelled a get together. Should I believe her?
2007-03-03 16:02:50 · 15 answers · asked by Zippo T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hell no. Was the dude goodlooking if so, she got bonked
2007-03-03 16:06:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worst thing you can do in a relationship is to break trust between you and another. Although you have evidence that may feel pretty strong there is always the time when it can be misleading ( and for your case I hope it is). I say forget about it, but if it happens again maybe calmly ask your girlfriend whether she's happy with your relationship.
2007-03-03 16:07:13 · answer #2 · answered by dallyrob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO! Dude, the guy friends that she doesnt invite you to meet are not just friends. Especially the ones that stay the night!!! God, I cant tell you how many times i've seen stuff like this happen. Girls with boyfriends DO NOT let guys stay with them at their apartments overnight unless something fishy is going on... they just dont. Man, I say get out now and if you dont feel like you are ready to do that then you are going to have to watch her like a hawk, but who wants to babysit? Either way, if you see this guy again you might have to set him straight because regardless of her intentions we both know that guys dont stay at a girl's place unless we are interested in them and he is moving in on your chick either way. Man, dont let her drag you around, im telling you this sounds like an instant dump situation to me. Especially since she did not make a point of telling you, you had to call her on it. If she cared she would have told you ahead of time, or at least called you and told you what was up as it was happening. Get out now!!
2007-03-03 16:11:32 · answer #3 · answered by Ray G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any other clue that she might be cheating? If not then you don't want to accuse her, because then she will know that you don't trust her. Trust is very important in a relationship. Adviously you don't trust her if you think that she is cheating. You need to get more evidence before you ask her. In the mean time be very cautious, and use protection during sex, just in case. Best of luck to you.
2007-03-03 16:10:16 · answer #4 · answered by meesh_nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't believe her cuz she keeps on hanging out wit the same guy in like several hours later and than the next several days u told her everything u saw and she said it was ''a friend'' don't trust her just dump her *** and move on wit the girl that can treat u much better than that whore.
2007-03-03 16:13:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not believe her. Sounds to me like he might be a "friend with benefits." If she is your girlfriend, she should not have random guys spending the night. My guess is she is indeed cheating.
2007-03-03 16:07:09 · answer #6 · answered by fair blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. from everything ive ever experienced....id say she is lying. i mean even if the part a/b "him" and his girlfriend is true. why on earth would he need to stay the WHOLE night. you should leave her before she leaves her. or at least strongly question ure relationship.
2007-03-03 16:10:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had guy friends who slept over on the couch but they were usually around alot and my boyfriend knew them well. tell her to invite him over you would like to meet him. no matter what be very friendly and do not accuse her of anything because if she is guilty she will start saying. "you do not trust me, wah, wah wah."
2007-03-03 16:13:09 · answer #8 · answered by misse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? No way. That's BS. Why couldn't he stay at her girlfriends? Dump her dude.
2007-03-03 16:06:53 · answer #9 · answered by Tireless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I duno. Do you trust her? Is there any reason why she would cheat on you? Don't jump to conclusions. Keep doing your investigating until you really know what's up.
2007-03-03 16:07:01 · answer #10 · answered by thefirehot1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋