Me and my girl of 7 years have had a great relationship.. well just recently she's needed help from a guy I don't like.. she was hiding calls, text messages, and emails from me... Everytime I confront her she denies it. She says I will "call him, and act like your not here, and ask him about it... he might think I am psycho and it will ruin my chances getting on the job but I'll do it.." Thats what she said she would do if needed. Basically, with me there, she'd call him and act like I wasn't there and try to bring it up. She will say, "what do you think happened?" or "for me to have sex with someone, there has to be some feelings there."
This went on for about 2 weeks but things seem ok now.
Basically, my question, do you think she's guilty or not? COULD they have done something, or maybe not? What do yall think based on this? If there was something, would she REALLY call him and act like I wasn't there to see what he would say?
Confused?
2007-03-03 15:52:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It all was going on while he was supposed to come get the application... after he got it, things went back to normal so dunno what to think?
2007-03-03 15:53:37 · update #1
Yeah
2007-03-03 15:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible that something was going on because she was hiding things from you, however you would know her than me, so this is for you to answer based on how much you trust her. Don't assume that he wouldn't be in on it, so that she could call and he could act naive, with that said I am engaged and I trust my fiance a great deal and if something like this came up, I would first confront the hidden things(texts and such) and upon a reasonable answer give him the benefit of the doubt.
Take a look at this website:
http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/catch_cheating/public/catch-cheating-spouse.html
2007-03-03 23:59:52 · answer #2 · answered by voicesunbroken3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, she asked this guy for help to secure a job? She kept text messages from you maybe because she knew exactly how you would react. She knows you dont like the guy so maybe she thought it would be easier to keep it from you. I couldnt imagine anything happening between the two of them because the contact was only during the time she needed this guys help. Its now back to normal Also she would be crazy to call him with you in the room if she was trying to hide something. I think she was saying this to try to prove to you that nothing is going on with the two of them. I know if I was cheating on my man, I certainly wouldnt be ringing my lover in front of him in case something was said that would point the finger at me.
Jealousy is a terrible thing and even when someone is doing the right thing it is so hard to prove your innocence to the person who is doubting you. Maybe if you werent so jealous she wouldnt feel the need to hide things from you. It is important to be trusted and if my man was doubting my sincerity and expecting me to answer questions to ease his jealousy, I think I would get pretty cranky. Just believe she loves you and until you have something concrete to go on, you will only eat yourself up with imaginings....let it go....trust your girl....lack of trust will destroy any relationship.
2007-03-04 00:09:12 · answer #3 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not mess with her as why would you respect someone who was keeping something from you??? If she is keeping this from you what else is there to hide?? You have to have trust in a realationship or there is nothing.. Sorry I hope you have a good friend to help you along in this....
2007-03-04 00:02:08 · answer #4 · answered by Dawn l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is a job really worth disrespect towards you? She needs to put you somewhere on the Top of her list. right now it's all about her......................
2007-03-04 00:08:17 · answer #5 · answered by nfgatcer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is looking for more attention, and time to find somronr you can trust...
2007-03-03 23:57:55 · answer #6 · answered by skcs11 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she could be. Or she isn't.....but she did hide these from you. Is she happy with you? Are you happy with her?
2007-03-03 23:56:57 · answer #7 · answered by Cherry R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's banging this guy!! Dump her!!!
2007-03-03 23:55:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋