The girl I am seeing has stopped having sex with me. She says she wants to wait till she is married. There isn't much intimacy. I am in a tough situation because if I act like and ask for it she runs off and gets turned off by it. If I act like it doesn't bother me, I feel like she doesn't like me. I know there isn't another guy cause she spends a lot of time with me. She does everything but the intimacy. What should I do? What is the best way to go about this. We broke up a couple months ago because she said I was being needy. So what would be the appropriate response to this? Find another girl? Be patient?
2007-03-03 16:05:22 · 5 answers · asked by D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, do you really want to get married to that?
2007-03-03 16:08:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the reference to a "rock and a hard place"?
Between you and me, I think I would move on and look elsewhere. IMO the lady is a manipulator. I could be wrong but it sounds like she may be practicing for marriage. If she can control you now, she can do it later. Sort of a damned if you do, damned if you don't situation. This may be a no win scenario.
Just an old man's opinion.
Good Luck on this one. I have a feeling you will need it.
2007-03-03 16:23:15 · answer #2 · answered by gimpalomg 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and have a heart-to-heart conversation with her. Don't put her on the defensive. Be kind and gentle with her. Let her have her say, and really listen to her.
2007-03-03 16:13:40 · answer #3 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she can't wait until marriage if she's already done it. stop pressuring her, that's scaring her off.
2007-03-03 16:08:38 · answer #4 · answered by lauren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it and go from there
2007-03-03 16:09:10 · answer #5 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋