Sometimes circumstances force you to be lonely . How can one enjoy ones own company ? any tips
2007-03-03 16:01:46 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
surf the net and ask questions on yahoo is one way to enjoy but then... your not alone?!
2007-03-03 16:04:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's a big difference between being alone and being lonely. I've lived alone for the past six years and it's the most peaceful, calm time of my entire life. I eat when I'm hungry; I sleep when I'm tired; I clean when I want to. I have many interests from reading to crocheting to sewing, to surfing the net, to studying the Bible to playing with my dog and two cats. I'm alone but I am never lonely. It's all in your attitude and awareness of all your blessings. Happiness is a choice.
2007-03-03 16:10:59 · answer #2 · answered by missingora 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1. Bike Riding in the Park
2. Taking a Walk In the Park
3. reading or writing while listening to music
4. Play videogames
5. Go online
6. Watch the 1st 2nd 7th and 9th seasons of The Simpsons because I don't own futurama or the other seasons of simpsons yet
2007-03-03 16:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sometimes the lonely time is the best time. you can catch up on stuff you like to do. you don't have to try to please others....only you. i love to be alone sometimes because i don't have to deal with stress and drama of other people's lives on top of my own life. here's some things i do with my spare time....and i have a lot of spare time since i live in a dorm away from home in a small town.
read...daydream...play games on the computer...watch a movie you've always wanted to see but were too embarassed to watch with anyone else...pamper yourself with a hot bubble bath and a self make over.....listen to music, dance around, sing along, look stupid, and say who cares cuz no one is watching....teach yourself how to do something (sew, knit, play a card game, fix the sink, to play an instrument...etc.).....clean.....write a poem or story.....surf the net.....watch tv....draw a picture....color in a coloring book....start a scrap book....become a photographer....create a new recipe....relax by candle light.....go shopping and splurge on that one thing you've always wanted, but put a money limit on yourself before you leave the house....catch up on your studying if you're in school...make a list about your best friend or significant other about why they're the best and give it to them the next time you see them....call a relative you haven't spoken with in a long time....rearrange your closet or bedroom....
the list can go on....i get bored and lonely in my dorm room...i have it to myself and there's not many people here most of the time.....so when i get bored with studying i think of something random to do.....it usually helps to pass the time.....i hope some of my ideas help you and aren't completely stupid!
2007-03-03 16:16:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How to enjoy lonliness.. Listen to your God, There is a reason why you are alone. Now Listen to your God. Can't you hear him saying -I love you! How I Have Longed to be alone with you! You know How I Have been Waiting to be with you. It's true and you don't need to be lonly anymore for sister God himself is with you. He will never Leave you.
2007-03-03 16:13:08 · answer #5 · answered by fe2bsho 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
do something that makes you a little bit better at something after youre done.. read a book and get smarter.. or talk to people online to make yourself more social.. or do some crunches and make yourself even sexier
i try to embrace my alone time.. its the only time of the day or week that i can focus solely on myself
2007-03-03 16:06:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
have things to keep you occupied so you wont keep thinking abt you being lonely. Go out by yourself or just relaxe and have the day to yoursel by blocking everyone else around you.
2007-03-03 16:05:33 · answer #7 · answered by CooCoo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can enjoy being alone, loneliness is not very enjoyable.
Reading is time well spent when alone. Movies, museums, and hobbies are a few others.
2007-03-03 16:05:24 · answer #8 · answered by nostromobb 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes just listen to music. It calms and relaxes you, you'll enjoy the music and loniliess!
2007-03-03 16:09:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Learn to play an instrument. I am playing the guitar right now.
2007-03-03 16:05:04 · answer #10 · answered by Tireless 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Same here, I only wish I knew, But work, reading and keeping yourself busy seem to help.
2007-03-03 16:05:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋