today i just called of the wedding bc my soon to be groom IS NOT listening to me and i am starting to get really depressed about it. did i do the right thing? why the hell did i do it? was it the wrong choice? please i really dont know what to do. i tried to talk to him but he just walked out on me. then he came back packed ALL his stuff and just left me 4 months pregnant with twins alone. i really dont know what to do HELP
2007-03-03 16:00:42 · 10 answers · asked by god's child 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i keep telling him i didnt have sex with his friend. but he just says im lieing and im tired of telling him im not.
2007-03-03 16:13:55 · update #1
i am sorry for you.why don't you try your common friend to talk to him and make him understand .if he still doesn't want you,just forget him.he is a not to be trusted.he would ditch you for any small reason. i don't think you should continue your pregnancy,its better that you face it now than ,with your kids.and dont forget to inform him of that .
2007-03-03 16:42:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not sure, you are not ready for marriage!
So as far as that goes, you made the right choice. To bad you didn't make it before getting pregnant, but time doesn't run backwards.
Obviously he doesn't want to marry you. His accusation may just be an excuse for him not to take responsibility for his actions.
If you marry him, the result will not be good.
I don't know what to say, but I'll only suggest something most people don't even consider. There are thousands of infertile couples who have been waiting for years to adopt babies. You could bless your children with a stable loving home, and bless a nice couple at the same time. It would be a noble choice. But I know how hard it is.
2007-03-04 00:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all take a deep breath in and calm down. now that u are calm i think u did the right thing because the soon to be groom wasnt interested in your well being- he was interested in his. and even though u probably spent a lot of money u can get refunds on most of the stuff u paid for. i feel so sorry for you and i hope u feel better soon. good luck and congrats on the twins!!
2007-03-04 00:04:59 · answer #3 · answered by Pointe Your Toes! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow. What a predicament you're in!!
We really need more details than he's not listening to you. What isn't he listening to?
How many guests for the wedding?-nothing to fight over
Or something major, that could be a concern to your married life.
Sounds like you two need to have a heart-to-heart.
2007-03-04 00:07:01 · answer #4 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not happy in the relationship you did the right thing. If you get married it should be for life and you want a partner that will listen to you.
2007-03-04 00:04:20 · answer #5 · answered by Cherry R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing, don't worry...you saw his true colours before you said 'i do.' way to go....now he's the loser for walking out! i wish you all the best dear..i can see that you're a strong person because you had the guts to stand up to him and let him know how you felt..so stay strong and don't let him get you down :)
2007-03-04 06:11:30 · answer #6 · answered by shine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'd say you did the right thing...he seems to be an a**...
If you have family, ask them for help...friends ??? If not, you're on your own...get a lawyer and get money for you and the kids...
2007-03-04 00:05:14 · answer #7 · answered by Chrys 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a lawyer fast ,,call his mother and dad , and drop the bomb on him tell them hes probably screwing up their chance to know their grandchildren,, call your dad if a dude walked out on my daughter in this case ,,he,d never walk out with anyone again,, cause his legs wouldnt be along for the trip,, im irish and we do knees
2007-03-04 00:05:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what isnt he listening to you about?
2007-03-04 00:04:31 · answer #9 · answered by Zippo T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You nagged him enough that he lefy...
2007-03-04 00:05:41 · answer #10 · answered by skcs11 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋