cheated on love. still love her .
2007-03-03 16:00:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. DON"T STRESS-keep a diary and write all your feelings. good and bad.
2. FLIRT- with other girls. Soon your ex will catch on and want you back.
3. GET OVER HER- obviously your relationship wasn't worth it. and neither was she. find someone better for you, even if it takes time, keep your eyes open.
4. PLAY NICE- if you want to pretend that you are over her, even if you aren't, be nice to her. be her friend. (unless she is a bit**, and then just let her cool off!)
5. THANK ME- when your love life goes from zero to hero!
2007-03-03 16:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by ella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well - if you cheated on her you are going to need to find a way to forgive yourself first. Which means you have to admit that you know what you did was wrong but you did it anyway. You have to take responsibility for the hurt and harm you have caused her, and then yourself for your behavior.
The truth is, if you truly love her - you are not going to ever 'just get over her'. The two of you created an emotional experience, a tie, that is always going to be shared between the two of you. Doesn't mean that you can't move on. It just means that this should be recognized and honored.
If you want to find someone else - make sure you aren't just looking for a replacement. Someone to fill in this sudden hole in your life. Make sure you look when you WANT someone to be with you, not NEED. Two different things.
Above all else, make peace with past -and then allow the past to fall back from the present. Don't allow it to rule you, or force your desicions because of guilt etc.
The best way to find someone, it seems, is to just stop looking and just start being yourself.
2007-03-03 16:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by noncrazed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way of getting over your first love, because it's your first love... But the best thing is to keep yourself busy or find somthing that you like to do.
Maybe you should answer questions on yahoo/answers, then you will see that you are not alone on this heart breaking adventure.. Everyone experience it, but give it time and your heart will be heald. Also you will find new love.
2007-03-03 16:04:59 · answer #3 · answered by Rain L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself time to heal. dont jump into a new relationship or you may get hurt more or hurt the one you jump to. love is hard to forget. Just know if it did not last there is a reason for it. It might mean that your true soul mate is someone else. But heal first. Put your energy into that. then love again.
Best wishes
2007-03-03 16:04:39 · answer #4 · answered by wingedladyk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouich. Sucks. I still miss my ex, its been over a month. The best advice I've gotten is just to worry about working on yourself, and time will heal your wounds. Don't worry, this is only your first broken heart.
2007-03-03 16:03:34 · answer #5 · answered by Tireless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and get over it
2007-03-03 16:02:42 · answer #6 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋