Ive never kissed a girl in my entire life. I know its patethic. I wanna know how do i tell she wants to kiss me and whens the right time to do it. And is there anything i should kno before i have my first kiss???
2007-03-03 15:43:07 · 32 answers · asked by boogernigga 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are indeed things you should know:
First, make sure you two do it in private. Secondly, make sure you two are vibing. You are probably asking: How do I know if we're vibing. Luckily for you, I won't tell you something like "you'll just know", there are physical give-aways. Some more obvious than others. One is the mirror-image, if both your body postures are very similar (for instance you have your elbow on your neck and so does she), that's a huge giveaway. A second is if her eyes are dilated (difficult to notice in poor lighting), but another sign from her eyes is if she looks at your eyes for longer than usual and a huge give-away: she looks at your lips.
As for the right time, again I refer to vibe. Sexual tension (like any other emotion), rubs off onto other people (take a club for example where women are grinding men and the whole place is packed full of horny people). The air should be thick with tension, but at the same time a comfortable atmosphere where both of you aren't ridiculously out of your elements (while bungee jumping as a extreme example).
To go IN for the kiss, look her in the eyes, make sure it's an extended gaze, then look at her lips, and move slowly and smoothly forward. Personally I take the "Hitch" approach where I go 90% of the way and let the girl come the rest. When you go 90%, the girl knows exactly what you are doing, she has the comfort of making the decision, but she will also be very pressured to kiss you back. So good luck! And don't worry, not kissing a girl isn't really pathetic until you're... 40 I guess...
2007-03-03 16:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by Hermes711 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First kiss, dear god man don't use tongue. Make it a slow, sensual kiss, where your lips just touch. Don't be afraid to caress the nape of her neck or her arms. If you're worried about timing, choose a quiet, intimate moment where in the silence all you can feel is expectation. Watch for her signals to make sure she's receptive to it as well - keep in mind her tone when she's speaking, if she looks away from you or not, etc. Touching her hair a lot, lots of eye contact, and the occasional hand on your arm while you're talking to her are very good signs.
Oh, and make sure you know the girl first. Otherwise you'll end up riding home in the back of a police car.
2007-03-03 15:47:38 · answer #2 · answered by blairs_smirking_revenge 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
One, its not pathetic if you havent kissed a girl in your entire life.. It depends on how old are you.. I was 14 when I first kissed a girl so its not a big deal. Also, I think youre worrying too much about how do i tell.. just go for it and dont make it seem awkward. And no you just gotta know how to kiss.
2007-03-03 15:46:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's easy to see when a girl wants to be kissed and I agree with "i'm confused" (oh the irony) when he/she says that you should do it when she least expects it but at the same time wants it... but make sure she wants it otherwise all you'll get is a slap on the face or a kick on your balls... like I said, it's easy to see when a girl wants a kiss, she plays with her hair, looks into your eyes, maybe bites her lips in an innocent and at the same time sexy way, maybe starts grabbing your hand, resting her head on your shoulder or she'll kiss you first... there are some girls tho who want to be kissed but don't really show it so in that case you're gonna have to wait till she can't stand it anymore or ask her if you can kiss her, it's okay to ask, nothing wrong with it... stolen kisses are the best tho, but that's when u see the girl really wants to be kissed, just go for it and surprise her if that's the case.
oh and something else, sometimes girls say or do things but they mean all the opposite... confusing I know, but we girls are like that.
2007-03-03 15:53:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? DeSi ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If its ment to be its ment to be. My advice would be to go in slowly that way if by chance she doesn't want to then you'll have time to stop. If you go in to fast then she does one of those head turns and you end up looking stupid. If you are going to go for it though, make sure your brush your teeth, and tongue. But don't pop to many breath mints, then it will seem like you were expecting the kiss. And the last thing you want is a girl to think that the whole thing was planned out. I'm sure you will be fine. I wish you the best of luck.
2007-03-03 15:47:25 · answer #5 · answered by lalablah_blah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOOK make it easy on your self. TALK about your friends kissing, what dose she think of that? TELL her you know this girl that learned to kiss a grape fruit.(me) THAT should loosen her up 4 the big kiss. Get lip gloss to to make them soft too.BUY her a new tube of lip stick, tell her those are so sexy lips. SHE may just feel like kissing you then . good luck.
2007-03-03 15:50:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first time i kissed a girl she complained that i kissed weird..i guess i did because i was like you..try kissing a girl that you know won't bad mouth you to all her friends or worse your friends..they laughed at me and i was very hurt..but if she is a friend just ask her honestly for her opinion..and don't ask your sister or a family member either...yuck..just a close friend who knows more then you do..and don't try to french kiss on your first kiss...its a good kiss but save that for a real special girl when you know what to do and you enjoy it...have your breath smelling good and don't eat onions or garlick..brush your teeth and rinse with a good mouth wash..wear some good smelling after shave but don't make it so overpowering that you make her GAG ..good luck...
2007-03-03 15:53:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 20:04:40 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all dont ask her that totaly just destroyes the moment ya its nice to get approval but seriously dont. second thing moments cme uslually after a moment that was totaly wierd like u looked strait at each other for like 2 minits and didnt say any thing well good luck and remember what i told You
2007-03-03 15:47:53 · answer #9 · answered by Story teller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your gonna be really nervous, trust me, it was almost two weeks before me and my girlfriend kissed, the best scenario is if your watching a movie, VERY SLOWLY move your head closer to hers, if you do it slow enough it should take like 10 minutes, then if she wants to kiss you back she will get the hint and put hers closer to yours to. thats how i did it and it worked great, if she doesnt respond to you when your fairly close just slowly move your head back because she probly thinks its too soon
2007-03-03 15:47:35 · answer #10 · answered by Levi K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋