To ask a girl out is realy not difficult, but to me it is. because some times the girl might have a boyfriend, but when they are asked they say no. and they cheat. so, waths the point in prolonging the innevictable when you know sometimes you'll never get the answer you want. because of that it's realy very hard for me to ask a girl out. i don't realy know the right words to use, sometimes i know the words but i don't know how to say them. i want to kno whow to ask a girl out.
2007-03-03 15:50:47 · 11 answers · asked by henry_arsenallegend 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be shy, just ask her... Otherwise there's no other way of her knowing... So, take a chance at love...
2007-03-03 15:53:30 · answer #1 · answered by Rain L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm speaking from a girl's perspective. Most girls like guys who are straight forward and don't play games. If you really like this girl only then should you ask her out. Otherwise it is better to be friends with her. Get to know her when she is living her daily life? Does she get mad often? Does she have many guy or girl frineds? Where does she usually spend her time? Asking these questions will then give you an idea whether you should invest time into thinking about asking her out. Then ask her out, simply. Tell her, you think she is someone special and would like to get to know her. In fact you would like to take her out. If she says no, just say, how about we remain friends? Since I think we're compatible, throwing away friendship does not sound so good, so what do you say?
This allows her the freedom to make her own decision without feeling pressured. Remember if she plays games....well, that's someone you don't want to spend your precious time with anyways. It's better not to be with her, so then consider other options. I know this advice may serve you well. Good Luck.
2007-03-03 16:00:03 · answer #2 · answered by AroseC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls have just the same amount of fear and self-consiousness as guys the one thing i remember hearing on all the talk shows from fashion models and bunnys is the complaint i never get asked out , because guys are too shy to ask me so be bold and dont put a limit on the times you ask and dont aim low there women good looking women sitting at home on saturday night so hey so she says shes got a boyfriend how can you find out if that hot girl is available take the chance im average and short and . ive gone out with pictoral models in the army and catalog models from sears and pennys hot young girls the secret i talked to them about ordinary things and asked to hear their point of veiw then i listened
2007-03-03 15:57:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jump in and take a chance you never know, you might get one BIG surprise and she might say Yes!! Try and think of all the positive things and not the negative! She just might like you back and feel the same way you do!!!
2007-03-03 15:59:54 · answer #4 · answered by luh luh la reee! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been asked out dozens of times....not to flatter myself, many of them were not the best way to ask someone out for the 1st time. For example, never go with the, "we have known each other for a long time" or, "i think its time to take our relationship to the next level." THIS NEVER WORKS!!!
go with and Instant messaging or text, so if she rejects you, it won't be face 2 face. if you don't want to do this....then just ask her. say "would you wanna get some coffee?" that way, if she turns out to be really un-likeable, you still have a great cappicino!!
2007-03-03 15:58:02 · answer #5 · answered by ella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask the girl if she would like to go to the movies sometime
2007-03-03 15:53:41 · answer #6 · answered by PrincessC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a friend to ask her if she has a boyfriend. Tell your friend to ask her if she likes you. that way you can get an idea what to say and do.
2007-03-03 16:00:08 · answer #7 · answered by Pie Lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know i have the same problem to so i might suggest to ask one of her friends first to see if she has a boyfriend first so you wont have an embressing ending
2007-03-03 15:53:36 · answer #8 · answered by wen godzilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow some ******* balls its exactly what you think it would be ask them "hey do you want to go out sometime" what did you think there was some spcial code word that would make them instantly go out with you.
2007-03-03 15:54:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
try the movie it always worked 4 me
2007-03-03 15:54:04 · answer #10 · answered by crengle60 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋