Family & Relationships - 2 March 2007

I'm 29. She's 24. We're together for over 4 months now. I'm v much in love with her and we're still together, despite her idea since 2 months to reunite with her ex-boyfriend who has emigrated in another country. She says she can't forget that ex. But last week, we learned that my girlfriend was 6 weeks pregnant from me. Me, I was ready to care for her and the child, and marry her. But she said 'no', and said she would be unhappy to give birth to that child, as she wants to emigrate and be with her ex again. So yesterday and today, with my help (I'm heartbroken but I love her too much), she aborted with the Cytotec pills. She cried afterwards, saying she 'lost her baby' and felt guilty. But now she says she's relieved, and is starting to think about her ex again, although she still wants me to be by her side. Should I walk away? Or do you think that she will realize that love is worth being with me? I'm so depressed now, but after losing that baby that I wanted, I don't want 2 lose her

2007-03-02 01:37:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-02 01:36:33 · 9 answers · asked by Chelsea 2 in Friends

did you guys know that amal is originally from India, she lied and said she was from morocco, ah well nowadays everybody is beggin to be an arab

2007-03-02 01:35:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-02 01:35:10 · 6 answers · asked by Miss Jordan 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I have had a lot of problems even to the point to where we took a week away from each other (more his idea than mine). Things are going great so far. We've been back together for 3 weeks now. I lost a lot of confidence in myself and our relationship. I need some suggestions on how to get my confidence in myself and the way he feels for me back???...

2007-03-02 01:35:10 · 6 answers · asked by Dsoftball 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i told one of my best guy friends that i liked one of the guys in his class and i told him to keep quit about it.. but he went and told the guy i like that i like him!!! the guy i like came to question me about it and i was really embarrassed!!! why did my friend tell?? and why did the guy i like have to come and quetion me about it??? did he want to humiliate me??

2007-03-02 01:34:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-02 01:33:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is going on. I like this boy alot and i just don't klnow what to say when i'm around him. it's like like i lose track of time and it's just me and him standing there in the hallway. i can't stop smiling when i';m around him i can't think i can't do anything. and he always is on my mind.

2007-03-02 01:33:25 · 11 answers · asked by sexyja09 1 in Singles & Dating

Were you as happy as she was? Were you scared? Did you secretly not want her to be pregnant? Just wondering where a man's mind is at that time. Thanks!

2007-03-02 01:33:03 · 9 answers · asked by Lotus 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-02 01:32:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have tred everything! romantic getaways, foreplay, sex under her terms, everything! I find myself wanting more and more and its not like i am bad at it(actually damn good) she just gets preoccupied in everything but me.

2007-03-02 01:31:49 · 16 answers · asked by chemreaction 2 in Singles & Dating

Theres this girl i aboslutley hate. She is so bratty and rude, and shes completley full of herself. Ive dealt with her for all year and now i just can't stand her. I want to tell her that shes rude and she won't have any friends if she keeps acting the way she does. What should i do about this?

2007-03-02 01:31:46 · 6 answers · asked by chicklet554 2 in Friends

Theres a guy at my school (we're both 15) and we're attracted to each other. If we started going out and had sex, with the proper protection, would it be bad? We wouldn't do it out of pressure, but because it would feel like the right time and place and person.

2007-03-02 01:31:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met him last 2 weeks ago and we have met several times. now i am working with him in the school as a part time tutor(we are students). we keep on telling jokes with each others everytime we meet. on valentine's day, i asked him for flowers and he said that i must be his girlfriend in order to get the flowers. i thought he was joking and challenging me. but now, he told everybody that i am his girlfriend. actually, i don't really like him. just wanna know whether he loves me or not?

2007-03-02 01:31:12 · 9 answers · asked by anonymous 2 in Singles & Dating

I am so excited, I'm going out on a date with someone next week. I need ideas of what we can do!

2007-03-02 01:30:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife is going to a funeral for some guy she didnt know. She dated a friend of his and is going for him. Should this bother me or am i being insensitive. I havent really expressed being annoyed by this because I didnt know if I was being stupid. Let me know your thoughts.

2007-03-02 01:30:45 · 17 answers · asked by John D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so we've been dating 4 months now & he said it during sex but I didn't say it back. I won't trust he really means it until he says it not in the bedroom? I'm right to think this correct?!

2007-03-02 01:30:18 · 16 answers · asked by Kate M 4 in Singles & Dating

just because.

2007-03-02 01:29:37 · 13 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

This has been the first time that I have ever been nervous around two guys, at the same time, because I have many guy friends. Someone told me that I blush when I talk about them or are near them. I am a senior in high school and I have known them since middle school. Out of all my guy friends, I am closer with them.

("How do I deal with how I feel and how to reveal to my sweet love as another day fades away?" ["Our Song" by M2M])

2007-03-02 01:29:25 · 2 answers · asked by kagome679 2 in Singles & Dating

I had a crush an intense crush on this guy in high school, but was too shy to do anything about it. He's always been in the back of my mind.

Recently we just started talking through the internet and we've exchanged numbers and starting calling and texting one another. We have plans to meet up tonight for dinner and a drink.

It's been 6 years since high school and since we've seen one another yet the converstations have been great between us and I really excited to see him.

Could this be fate? Could this be a sign that this was meant to happen?

2007-03-02 01:29:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems like so many people think that if a woman gets pregnant and the father is out of the picture, her only choices are to abort or be a single parent. Life or death. Why don't people even consider adoption? Why doesn't it come to mind?

Note: I am strongly pro-choice, as long as the choices are presented equally.

2007-03-02 01:28:55 · 4 answers · asked by GeminiVirgo1971 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

people are so disappointing. Will anyone truly live up to your expectations?

2007-03-02 01:28:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not saying I am one. Just that you never see them with a life partner and I'm wondering if their appearance is off-putting. I know they spend a lot of time at sea but they all retire sooner or later!

2007-03-02 01:28:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-02 01:28:04 · 19 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, i've known this boy since middle school and i am 22 now. he got in contact with me through myspace and told me to call him. he tells me he wants to be with me (even though he rejected me back then), and i was confused. he apologized and said he was a player back then, but now, he wants to be in a serious relationship. he smokes (i hate that!), but says he is gonna stop soon. and he has a kid too (i'm not feeling that either), but i can tell he has changed by how he speaks to me that he is serious. anyway, my question is, what would you do?? i want to give him a chance, but do you think i am making a bad decision??

2007-03-02 01:27:13 · 7 answers · asked by Essie 6 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend of 3 years and I just broke it off and she is saying things like, "I could go out and date someone else right now, and be with them for 3 months but I would have to leave them because I know I wouldn't be happy". And things like "I saw myself marrying you" and "I don't see myself with anyone else for the rest of my life".

But then says but "I just dont feel it right now, I want to.. but i dont"

Tell me, is it over for good? Has anyone ever said these things to a guy only to found out thats not how you truely feel? I'm ok with us being apart now, but it hurts bad to think that we will never be together again... Just wondering if anyone else has any experiences like this and it worked out positively(as in you got back together) thanks

2007-03-02 01:26:38 · 9 answers · asked by dieselmave40 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in a relationship and I love him so much but I am really scared that I am being played. He is terrible on a computer (always getting in trouble, if you know I mean). He earned my trust again but now I am sensing by little things that he is converting back to that same ole same ole. I am not stupid on a computer , and he tries to cover his tracks but I still know. When asked about the sites--he lies about it. And its the little things that dont add up--- history cleaned,web cam has always been turned facing the wall-- now its facing where you sit. Now this actually sits on the monitor-- not like it can get moved by accident. He has thrown a fit about my old messenger list having guys names on there that I had way before he came into my life-- so I changed screen names and cancelled accounts. But he still has women on his (who he says they live far away and he never talks to them) and he is still on dating sites.He is just acting funny. He asked me to marry him.Am I being played?

2007-03-02 01:26:20 · 6 answers · asked by unsure2 1 in Singles & Dating

I like my gf but I like someone else too. If i break up with her I don't know what will happen. She's already on suicide watch

2007-03-02 01:26:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-02 01:25:58 · 10 answers · asked by VENKATA RAJENDRA PRASAD S 1 in Family

e.g. these clothes are from Italian or French designers and they are very good,etc

2007-03-02 01:25:58 · 9 answers · asked by ♥♥♥Miracle♥♥♥ 3 in Singles & Dating