I had a crush an intense crush on this guy in high school, but was too shy to do anything about it. He's always been in the back of my mind.
Recently we just started talking through the internet and we've exchanged numbers and starting calling and texting one another. We have plans to meet up tonight for dinner and a drink.
It's been 6 years since high school and since we've seen one another yet the converstations have been great between us and I really excited to see him.
Could this be fate? Could this be a sign that this was meant to happen?
2007-03-02 01:29:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yup, people enter your life for a reason. Good luck, hope all goes well for both of you.
2007-03-02 01:32:11 · answer #1 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be. I had a high school sweet heart. We drifted apart when he was in the service and stationed over seas. I regretted it for years and always thought of him even though I was married and with a family. 12 years later I was a divorced single mom, I accidentally ran into my old flame from the past. We dated, but, there was too much water under the bridge. He had grown up, I had grown up, he changed, I changed. The dreams we had in high school were no longer our dreams. We are still very good friends to this day. But not the sweet hearts we were years ago.
I also know of a sweet lady who found her old high school sweet heart on the Internet. Not by searching for him, it just happened through an e-mail friend who knew she knew that he knew sort of thing. Once they crossed paths again via Internet, they corresponded for a year. Then finally met again in person. This couple has been happily married now for 4 years.
I urge you to be careful when you first meet your old flame from the past. You never know what to expect. It could be a dream come true, or, it could be your worse night mare. I suggest you take a friend with you for the first meeting. It's better to be safe than sorry. Good luck. I wish you the best.
2007-03-02 01:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by Vida 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do think it's fate
My husband and I met 11 years ago we dated for 3 months and he dumped me for someone else telling me I was too young and he was not looking for a serious relationship at the time. He broke my hearth cause I was starting to fall for him. We both went our own ways for 5 years I moved to California with my new boyfriend, and he had a serious relationship with another girl. I always had this guy in my head not only that he broke my hearth but he was the most gorgeous men I ever met and I could not get over him. I came back in my home town in June 2003 because my relationship was on the rocks and me and my husband met just like that again he was newly single. When we saw each other it was like we never left each other. And since that day we've been together we married 2 years later and now I'm pregnant with our first child.
So I do believe in fate.
2007-03-02 01:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by AK 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its whatever you believe dear. Some people believe in fate and all that. You just have to live your life how you want and see what happens. If it was meant to be you will know. If not, there is plenty of time to find the right guy that completes you best! Or at least one that you can actually deal with on a regular basis! Good luck
2007-03-02 01:32:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes...it could be fate or not. Just make sure he is actual the person you would like in your life. Don't get stuck accepting a persons flaws to simply be with someone. It should come naturally. My brother has done this a number of times and had to learn the hard way. Have fun, be open minded...and only MORE time will tell. Good luck!
2007-03-02 01:34:20 · answer #5 · answered by Kimber 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"Signs" are all about interpretation! I had the love of my life from high school come back for me after many years and call me to get together. My heart flew & sang -- I was SURE this meant we were going to be together happily for ever -- until I got to his apartment and he introduced me to his wife and asked me to babysit his KID while he took her shopping!!!
And can you believe, that 25 years later (yes, I'm old!), after 5 kids and 3 wives (and divorces) -- he STILL tracked me down again, trying to get back together once more?! LOL!!!
Fate is what you make of it, as I keep remembering, looking at the wonderful man I've spent the last 20 years with. But don't let this old cynic spoil ALL your fun. Go, have a good time -- but just watch your back, OK?
2007-03-02 01:34:58 · answer #6 · answered by Yahzmin ♥♥ 4ever 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
As fare as im concerned i think that it is fate. My boyfriend and myself were best friends for 4 years before we got togeather. As i went out with other people he would watch from the side line. After four years of him waiting to see what would happen to us.. were engaged to be married and i have no regrets what so ever.
2007-03-02 01:33:53 · answer #7 · answered by jonah.kelsey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it could be. Especially since he was always on your mind. But it also could be you never quite got over him. Do not romantize this too much. Go slowly. Too many women and men jump too quickly and the other person panics and runs away. Slowly and allow him to show his feelings first in time and you can match his if you feel the same. Have fun.
2007-03-02 01:32:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try thinking with a logical mind instead of in terms of "fate" or "something theat was meant to be." There is no master plan for your life that is written in the stars, your life will be a combination of events that just happen to you and events that you make happen to you.
2007-03-02 01:35:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on how you feel about it. If you believe that it's your destiny to be with this person then you will subconsciously be more willing to put forth any effort you need to in the relationship and automatically open to new ideas and ways to solve problems and stuff. So perceive it how you will and you'll be happy. Kind of a freak coinidence if you ask me so maybe your on to something!
2007-03-02 01:33:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
angie here
yes i belive it could be fate bc i have to admit i met this guy back in 1995 from a former friend he ended up going out with her but on the other hand in they ended up breaking up and then 2 yrs later we met up again and got togeather and got married and had 2 kids out of it so yes it could happen
2007-03-02 01:36:18 · answer #11 · answered by Angie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋