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I have tred everything! romantic getaways, foreplay, sex under her terms, everything! I find myself wanting more and more and its not like i am bad at it(actually damn good) she just gets preoccupied in everything but me.

2007-03-02 01:31:49 · 16 answers · asked by chemreaction 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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I have had experience with this myself. Not wanting to have sex at all with my boyfriend. and then after awhile he just kind of stopped putting the pressure on me to have sex. And then once i relised what he was doing it made me want it so much more. The tables turned and he seemed like he didnt want it at all. So what i think you should do is make her notice that you dont want it no more.. and it might drive her crazy and in time you may have the best sex EVER!

2007-03-02 01:36:37 · answer #1 · answered by jonah.kelsey 2 · 0 0

It's simple. If u need sex more then your gf is providing and u can't be happy in the relationship without it, then u need to find someone else. Of course u should tell her exactly how u feel about it but make sure that u make it sound like u are addicted to sex WITH HER (flattery is always a good thing). If u can't make adjustments then u have to move on.

2007-03-02 01:44:32 · answer #2 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0 0

Wow, you are a man after my own heart......now who has told you that you are "actually damn good"? Need to know more about your girlfriend, how old are the two of you? How long dating? Any children? Stressful jobs? Are you a good kisser? Are you in the relationship for ONLY sex? You have said nothing about being in love.....if it is a loving relationship-you love her and she loves you, don't refer to it as "sex", refer to it as "making love to her"....tell her you find her irresistible and can't keep your hands off her....explain to her that you have sexual needs and that you would like her to be a little more receptive to them. Now don't expect to get laid every day, be reasonable...maybe she just isn't very sexual....ask her what you could do differently. Maybe she doesn't think you are as good as you think you are....lots to consider here, her feelings on sex is the place to start. Good luck you animal you!

2007-03-02 01:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

What can you do? You are actually damn good?? You TRIED? foreplay???
roflmbo...... evidently you are not that good....
Well it seems you are given two choices or maybe three.. Change girlfriends. Get a new book on the joys of sex. or meet Mr Hand. OK do all three.. that could work.

2007-03-02 01:52:41 · answer #4 · answered by ricketyoldbat 4 · 0 0

Be persistent, don't let her say no, sometimes girls get bored with the nice guy routine. Put it on her and don't be afraid to be aggressive, we like it. Don't be mean about it, just in control of the situation. Right now she thinks that she is in control of the whole relationship, your in this too and you deserve to be happy and satisfied. It sounds like she doesn't appreciate you, maybe you should reminder her that you are a good man and that she should appreciate you more. It sounds like she expects things from you and is unwilling to give of herself to make sure your happy.....hey, if she's not going to take care of you there are plenty of woman that will.

2007-03-02 01:43:22 · answer #5 · answered by Inspiremebit 1 · 0 0

Talk to her, ask her what's wrong, it might be self image issues on her part, or might be something else.

If a woman (who is an adult) and not a virgin, doesn't ever want sex, you will likely never be satisfied and always feel cheated... You should cut her loose and find someone you are more compatible with, and so will she!

2007-03-02 01:38:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

maybe she is not ready yet...or she is just worried tat ur with her cz u 1 sex only...maybe u push her 2 much 4 sex...because even if she finally agrees,she only does it to make you happy.you shpuld make her have sex with you out of her will.try nt 2 push her so much 4 sex...do other things 2 show ur love.kiss n hug her...talk 2 her,understand her...when she finally have the feeling that u really care about her n nt sex only,she will give in to you willingly.that's my opinion anyway...

2007-03-02 02:14:24 · answer #7 · answered by cyndi 2 · 0 0

Are you sure you're really good at it? If so, maybe her sex drive is low. If you're good she should want "never to get out of bed".
She might need a medication to improve her libido.
Tell her: a man needs to eat three times a day, therefore he needs sex three times a day.

2007-03-02 01:38:01 · answer #8 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 0 0

Wow, Id love a man like that. I like sex all the time. She don't know whats shes missing!

2007-03-02 01:40:04 · answer #9 · answered by Another Planet 5 · 0 0

Ditch her and find someone with the same interests..... it is an intimate and special part of a relationship that bonds two and makes them stronger! You won't regret it.

2007-03-02 01:37:37 · answer #10 · answered by Betty 4 · 0 0

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