I am in a relationship and I love him so much but I am really scared that I am being played. He is terrible on a computer (always getting in trouble, if you know I mean). He earned my trust again but now I am sensing by little things that he is converting back to that same ole same ole. I am not stupid on a computer , and he tries to cover his tracks but I still know. When asked about the sites--he lies about it. And its the little things that dont add up--- history cleaned,web cam has always been turned facing the wall-- now its facing where you sit. Now this actually sits on the monitor-- not like it can get moved by accident. He has thrown a fit about my old messenger list having guys names on there that I had way before he came into my life-- so I changed screen names and cancelled accounts. But he still has women on his (who he says they live far away and he never talks to them) and he is still on dating sites.He is just acting funny. He asked me to marry him.Am I being played?
2007-03-02 01:26:20 · 6 answers · asked by unsure2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well Hun its a possibility. if you are having trouble believing him and he keeps covering his tracks then i wouldn't trust him as far as i could throw him. as for telling you you can't talk to guys you have been friends with for longer than u have been with him is crap. If he truly loved you then he wouldn't try to control who you talk to or spend time with. Its a double standard if you cant talk to other guys but he can talk to other girls. Sounds like hes trying to control you and make it so u only have him to depend on. I say take a break see how things go. Don't just put up with what he does on the computer, if he truly loved you and wanted to spend the rest of his life with you, you would be enough. He wouldn't want to do things on the computer and try to hide it, rather he would be wanting to do those things with you and spend the time with you.
2007-03-02 01:36:01 · answer #1 · answered by sunnybrook19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might love him but it sounds like he is not ready for marriage. Being married takes a lot of comprimise and honesty and if you are having doubts now imagine what it would be like in a few years. If he is serious about getting married then he would change his habits for you if they bother you that much.
2007-03-02 09:35:43 · answer #2 · answered by D R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate when that happens. Its the good old manipulation game. You scratch my back and I'll think about scratching yours... If you cant trust him now after its all said and done, how can you trust him later? Ive played this one before. All its good for is a headache and resentment. Move on honey...
2007-03-02 09:31:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't marry someone whom you cannot trust!!!!! You would be getting married for ALL THE WRONG REASONS!!! Please don't become another divorced statistic. He is lying to you - you know it - you can see all the signs. Be true to yourself and find someone who deserves you!! Good LUCK!!
2007-03-02 09:32:29 · answer #4 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of this guy. He is playing games and you don't need that. DO NOT MARRY THIS MAN!! They don't change.
2007-03-10 00:11:40 · answer #5 · answered by missweber1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - if you stay with him, you are going to get your heart broken down the road.
2007-03-02 09:49:22 · answer #6 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋