Ok so we've been dating 4 months now & he said it during sex but I didn't say it back. I won't trust he really means it until he says it not in the bedroom? I'm right to think this correct?!
2007-03-02 01:30:18 · 16 answers · asked by Kate M 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yea play it safe!!! Actions of love, and I don't mean sex, speak louder than words.
2007-03-02 01:33:16 · answer #1 · answered by kitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK so my Christianity says no sex before marriage but I had lots and lots of lovemaking prior to my marriage,so back to real life. If you feel comfortable making love to someone but your not sure if you can trust their stated love for you, the first thing I would advise is talking with him about it. If you don't feel the relationship is ready for talking yet then stop having sex with strangers. Otherwise if you really like this person be honest with him and your self, tell him you really enjoy your time spent together in and out of the bedroom but if he loves you and not just your expertise
that its OK to say so. If he gets defensive about any of it, enter at your own risk. Good luck, and God bless you in your quest for love.
P.S. theres no better invitation for love than an invitation,
so speak up all of you and don't be afraid to put yourself out there! If at first you don't succeed try,try again.
2007-03-02 10:12:56 · answer #2 · answered by ☆♥•´`•.¸ ;-) •´`•.¸ ♥☆ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When we are in action we tend to feel so into it that we confuse our feelings emotions with our feelings. Love is not all about sex, only a 50% but the other 50% its all about little meaningful things that when they are true 9it will convince you love's really there. If you feel it aint there then it s not true, meaning hes a bit confused about it!!!! You could say I Love you anytime anywhere, whenever you feel like saying it, but meaning it needs to be convincing, get it?
2007-03-02 09:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by u_b_easy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooooh. Thats a tuffy. Im guilty of the same thing. Ive said the same thing during sex cuz honestly, i didnt know what else to say. I wouldnt bring it up unless he brings it up.
2007-03-02 09:34:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are correct to think that way because, most of the time guys tend to say it "in the moment" as they call it... and when he truly means it you'll realize it in his voice.
2007-03-02 09:42:47 · answer #5 · answered by Meiba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are correct!
Wait until the blood is powering the head above his shoulders - and not the one below his belt - before you believe it!
2007-03-02 09:32:47 · answer #6 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be right and you could be wrong it all depends if it was just sex or if it was love to you, because if it was then he probably did mean it otherwise you could be right.
2007-03-02 09:32:42 · answer #7 · answered by ♫ Think happy thoughts ♪ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most definitely, he could just be saying that in the heat of the moment.
2007-03-02 09:33:59 · answer #8 · answered by SOS 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying it and hearing it is one of the greatest feelings in the world. If he shows you, even better. Don't say it if you don't mean it!
2007-03-02 09:34:40 · answer #9 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HMMMM let me see if I understood your question... it's OK to bang his brains out, but not to say I love you. Hmmmm Pathetic does come to mind here
2007-03-02 09:47:37 · answer #10 · answered by nalla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋