Family & Relationships - 1 March 2007

i am changing my life, i trying to have more friends than i used and i trying to get a girl that i really like. when i talking to my friends i got upset cos i talkin really **** stuff to them. i am trying to be myself but sometimes u know u have to careful what you say. i want to say fresh funny stuff!! i don't want to be boring guy. i really get depress if someone is not beside me. i think my life is boring so i trying to have many friends as i can and there is this girl that i really like . i talked to her just once and i trying to talk to her again but i get really nervous. i am sick of being scare, nervous and feeling down. i know my life is not all that bad but still i feel ****!! i am not dumb nor ugly. i am normal guy but i want to be normal guy who have one simple girlfriend and nice friends and enjoying his life!! am i askin too much??? can i have that kind of life?? everytime i get depress i don't want to do anything so how do i stop it???

2007-03-01 05:26:24 · 1 answers · asked by shone 1 in Singles & Dating

Bear with me, I will try to be brief. Some mornings, not all the time my husband wakes me with oral sex. After 2 or so intense orgasms he leaves for work. No sex. That evening will be normal except he will touch, kiss, fondle, talk really dirty. Go to bed, no sex. Next morning, he will get me to the OH GOD jumping off point, but I don't finish. That evening is when the AWESOME sex takes place. (I know why am I complaining, right?) He never drags it out for more than 2 days, and he doesn't do it very often. Maybe once 2 months or so. I even try my best to get him to put out, but he doesn't. He holds his ground. No matter what I do, it's a no go. WHY DOES HE DO THIS????? HE'S DRIVING ME NUTS!!!

2007-03-01 05:26:14 · 7 answers · asked by lady_green591 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my girlfriend for about a year and a half now. I'm leaving for the army in June, and ever since I decided, we've been fighting a lot because she is scared and upset about this. I love her, and when I think about the good things of our relationship, I can't wait to see her. Yet, recently I mostly just see the bad, and how we make each other feel like dirt sometimes. I do love her, but I have my doubts about things working for sure. She wants a 100% gaurantee from me that I will make things work no matter what. She says I'm just afraid of failure, and I just want a way to feel better if things don't work. She also feels like we're bound for failure if this is the case. Lastly, she is worried I that when it gets hard I'll just bow out, because I've spoken about breaking up before since we've been fighting so much. I'm worried she may be right. I do have a certain fear of failure. I love her, but I can't seem to commit 100%. Theres always this nagging in the back of my head.

2007-03-01 05:26:10 · 6 answers · asked by nowayman72 2 in Singles & Dating

What do women think about one night stands no string attached ?
or is this just for holidays?

2007-03-01 05:26:04 · 11 answers · asked by fulhamish 2 in Singles & Dating

First date, second...tenth?

2007-03-01 05:25:50 · 2 answers · asked by bpgveg14 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 05:25:35 · 26 answers · asked by bhargavi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we have been together a year hes been married now divorced and says he;ll never marry again?

2007-03-01 05:25:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 20 and I like 2 guys. Both are interested in me. The one guy is 18 but mature and we get along great. We always have a great time when we around each other. He is shy but kinda weird like me so we get along well bc of that. but I question the fact that he is 2 years younger and the other guy is 20 so only a couple months older. We also get along great. I like him because hes kinda serious and I'm crazy so we balance each other out. Who should I choose?

2007-03-01 05:25:21 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 05:25:00 · 5 answers · asked by ♥michele♥ 7 in Singles & Dating

Is it the most important? Not at all?

2007-03-01 05:24:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love my girl to the point i want to marry her. but i am now starting to have my worries with what she is doing when she isnt with me. this girl has had 13 sexual men in her life since is has been 14. she is now 21. she also has told me that she cheated many times in the past with on her ex's (but reasons that i could understand). she always has been open with me about her past and vice versa, but we have been serious since july and there are many times to where she can come over to my house on the way home from work....and i mean she HAS to drive by my house to get home..and most of the time, it is I who asks for her to stop by. she always wants me to visit her (mostly at her work) but i dont like that. so where do i take a stand? i dont want to pry into her personal life, but i also am following my heart with this one, & she claims that she would NEVER cheat on me b/c i am different than all the other guys. do i believe that? do i trust her? do i stop going out of my way for her?

2007-03-01 05:24:53 · 4 answers · asked by brianju 2 in Singles & Dating

Retirement
Life Insurance
stocks/bonds
Bank Accounts
etc.

We are in the process of a divorce and I need that information that he has kept from me. He is very controlling and has that kept confidential. I have already seen a lawyer... Isn't there an easy way for the lawyer to request that information from him?

Does my lawyer need my input so that we are sure to have ALL of the information?

I'm confused.

2007-03-01 05:24:27 · 8 answers · asked by Jennifer J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 & half years, and getting married next July. We are very happy and get along well, but we, as many couples do, have had our moments!!
Especially because I am really jealous of his ex girlfriend. He is nearly thirty (I'm 25) and his last 'serious' girlfriend was when he was20! It was with a 16/17 year old girl. During the 1st year of our relationship I saw a picture of her at his sister's wedding. She looked really pretty, very slim, long flowing blonde hair!!! I'm over weight, have short dry horrid dark hair and crap skin!!!
To make things worse, I love to sing (karaoke - but I'm good). My Boyfriend first told me that his ex girlfriend was a good singer (she sang Pie Jesu at his sister's wedding!!! Oh crap did that make me feel, you would not believe?!!
Next, he decided to tell me once that she was a dancer who lived in a nice house...blah blah blah!! Ok, he say that he doesn't even think about her etc etc. HELP ME ! ! ! !

2007-03-01 05:23:58 · 20 answers · asked by Fairy Dust :*:*: 2 in Singles & Dating

ive heard that how people used to attract a mate...

2007-03-01 05:23:31 · 8 answers · asked by SGPearlGirl 3 in Singles & Dating

How did that work out? If not, why not?

2007-03-01 05:23:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my mother-in -law told me recently that it is against the law for a brother and sister to share the same bedroom. my son (2) and my step-daughter (5) share a room. we only have my step- daughter every other weekend so it's not a big deal and they don't care. they have seperate beds, of course. i think my mother-in-law is trying to start trouble b/c she talks to my step-daughter's mom a lot and for some reason she doesn't want any of us to get along. anyway, i just want to know if we are doing anything wrong. any info will help. oh yeah, we live in tennessee.

2007-03-01 05:23:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-01 05:23:11 · 12 answers · asked by Sw33t3PiE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In the State of GA. The woman is serving the man. They have two kids and stay at the same residence.

2007-03-01 05:21:21 · 10 answers · asked by jared 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-01 05:20:55 · 16 answers · asked by tiemetight814 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-01 05:20:52 · 9 answers · asked by Tiffany R 1 in Singles & Dating

her best friend said she is big on hookups n breaks guys hearts. n most of all she thinks she can get anyone. so how do i get her to notice me? i have no idea. and i get nervous around her. wat do i do?

2007-03-01 05:20:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to get my fiance out of the house for aournd 2-3 hours this weekend. I want to make a nice dinner with the works (a cake, flowers, candles, etc) without him knowing. This weekend marks 100 nights til we get married and I thought it would be kind of a celebration. I thought I could send him to get a few things but we don't need anything. please offer me some advice.

2007-03-01 05:19:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Does dating prepare you for marriage? Do your parents know that you date? What do you think of premarital sex? And finally, how do you think marriages can be improved in India?

2007-03-01 05:19:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hello, people...i need your opinion. i just moved from asia to europe, n its not easy at all to face this life all alone, without friend n family to talk with.
i take a language course, n i met someone n i think i 'like' him, he's friendly n sympathic...but lately why everytime i talk with him, he's always angry and critism everything that i say? i never mean to complain all my problem to him, i just have no idea what sholud i talk with him, so i talk about our course (we're in the same class).but he's misunderstanding n today he said that everybody has problem, not just i. so i admit n tell him that I'm not a kind of woman who has lots of idea to talk about. yep, now i regret to say it, i just want to be honest...well, maybe tommorow he doesn't want to talk with me anymore.
people, did i make something wrong? or maybe he didn't like me? of course in my class there is another woman who much more beautiful, more inteligent, n younger than me. I always tell myself 'never hope'....

2007-03-01 05:19:16 · 14 answers · asked by Vivienne 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 05:19:06 · 10 answers · asked by kon 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I haven't talked to one of my friends for about a month.
She's been through so much--she was raped by her dad, put into a foster home, put into a psyche ward, had anorexia, cut herself, tried killing herself multiple times...
Just the other night, my friend called me, telling me she tried overdosing on pills, AGAIN. but it didn't work.
I'm really sad... But yet frusturated at the same time with how many times she has done this... it feels like she just wants attention.
Yet, I'm scared, because maybe sometime she will wake up dead...
And I feel guilty. I'm just a mix of emotions.
And, what should I do? .... Thanks...

2007-03-01 05:19:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

your man probably lied to HER as well as he did to YOU. If your hubby cheated on you, why not get mad at the RIGHT person, which is HIM! not the other women, i'm sure your hubby told her that he was single.... why, then, do you women get all vader on her a s s and not him??? don't you realize that both of you women are being used/hurt??

2007-03-01 05:18:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

does height and weight make us look weird or different? im 6'2 175 with a muscular body, and shes 5'3 110-115 with a slim body...how would you think we look if you saw us?

2007-03-01 05:18:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Divorce rates are increasing in India. Does anyone know the exact figures with a reference?

thanks!!

2007-03-01 05:18:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What am I supposed to do when, my mom finds out that I am talking to my ex boyfriend over the internet and she has already told me not to ever talk to him again? Do I try to explain why I am talking to him or do I just except the fact that my mom hates me and believes that I have chosen my ex boyfriend over her, but I'm not so can someone please help me.....

2007-03-01 05:17:52 · 8 answers · asked by tbird_kinard 1 in Singles & Dating