Hello, people...i need your opinion. i just moved from asia to europe, n its not easy at all to face this life all alone, without friend n family to talk with.
i take a language course, n i met someone n i think i 'like' him, he's friendly n sympathic...but lately why everytime i talk with him, he's always angry and critism everything that i say? i never mean to complain all my problem to him, i just have no idea what sholud i talk with him, so i talk about our course (we're in the same class).but he's misunderstanding n today he said that everybody has problem, not just i. so i admit n tell him that I'm not a kind of woman who has lots of idea to talk about. yep, now i regret to say it, i just want to be honest...well, maybe tommorow he doesn't want to talk with me anymore.
people, did i make something wrong? or maybe he didn't like me? of course in my class there is another woman who much more beautiful, more inteligent, n younger than me. I always tell myself 'never hope'....
2007-03-01 05:19:16 · 14 answers · asked by Vivienne 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It could be he misunderstanding everything you say and is quick to say something without thinking first. The things is that you are in a different country and sometimes when you are a new person from a different place it can be tough, especially since you don't know anyone, there is nothing wrong with being honest and you know it is a good thing, maybe your classmate has something going on with him that has nothing to do with you and it is adding pressure on him and causing him to be angry at you for no reason, sometimes that can happen. Just let him know that you did not mean any harm to him and that you are new around there and just seeking some advice and thought he might be a good person to get some advice from and you hope that whatever he is going through is not the real reason he is critizing you. It is all you can do, reguardless of what comes out of it know that you were sincere and you did everything that you could.
2007-03-01 05:32:20 · answer #1 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, are you really telling him all your problems because you want his attention?
I think you feel very insecure because you are not in your comfort zone- near family, friends & things that are usual in your life.
Life is an adventure so do not confine yourself to just one man or one friend. Even if you like him a lot. Unless he commits himself to you, you are counting your chickens before they are even hatched. Make the decision to explore other possibilities and do not focus too much on your problems.
Remember you are fortunate to have great opportunities to travel and experience new things. Enjoy!
2007-03-01 05:29:47 · answer #2 · answered by kitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didnt make a mistake your were just venting and tell your self never hope with out hope there would be enthusiamism in life some men are jerks and maybe he was having a bad day , if you want topics to talk about ask him questions were he grew up?kids?family? hopes?dreams? favorit things? you will find some thing in common
2007-03-01 05:25:15 · answer #3 · answered by cwilsonhappylife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think that way. There's someone for everyone and if he doesn't understand you, then he doesn't deserve you even talking to him. There are more other guys out there that are willing to listen and understand us girls. Be patient and don't think that someone is more beautiful than you, because if you see yourself that way people are going to see you that way to, so have more selt-esteem and confidence, and people will start to notice the difference in you.
2007-03-01 05:27:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you should just move on with this one and make other friends. You are in a big place focus on adjusting to your new surroundings and getting acclamated and the rest will fall into place. We can only allow people to be in our lives they cannot force us to be involved with them. Make that decision and deal with it. This is 2007 and we make our own choices.
2007-03-01 05:25:50 · answer #5 · answered by Cheryl R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand you are eager to make new friends. It seems you open up too much to him and he is not feeling comfortable around you. Everyone has his/her problems. Keep your problems to yourself for no one is very happy around grumpy people. Make friends with people who share same interest or hobbies.
2007-03-01 05:29:31 · answer #6 · answered by Kimora Miranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that's harsh I think maybe you opened up to him to much and now he feels weird around you so he acts mean just give him some space and apologize to him for upsetting him he will get over it
2007-03-01 05:23:55 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys love girls who are confident. Be happy and confident :)
It sounds like he probably just wants to be your friend and nothing more though, especially if he is grumpy towards you.
2007-03-01 05:28:45 · answer #8 · answered by hello 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY ADVICE:
time to move on, just be friends - acquaintance
and Find another guy
2007-03-01 05:24:37 · answer #9 · answered by Franky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't like you maybe because of your different culture. most europians hate asians. stay away and focus yourself to the books or computer
2007-03-01 05:23:26 · answer #10 · answered by maria virginia de la aguanta ha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋