how do i keep myself together without feeling down or crap??

Question

i am changing my life, i trying to have more friends than i used and i trying to get a girl that i really like. when i talking to my friends i got upset cos i talkin really **** stuff to them. i am trying to be myself but sometimes u know u have to careful what you say. i want to say fresh funny stuff!! i don't want to be boring guy. i really get depress if someone is not beside me. i think my life is boring so i trying to have many friends as i can and there is this girl that i really like . i talked to her just once and i trying to talk to her again but i get really nervous. i am sick of being scare, nervous and feeling down. i know my life is not all that bad but still i feel ****!! i am not dumb nor ugly. i am normal guy but i want to be normal guy who have one simple girlfriend and nice friends and enjoying his life!! am i askin too much??? can i have that kind of life?? everytime i get depress i don't want to do anything so how do i stop it???

Answer 1

Sounds like your self esteem is low and you need to remember all the good stuff about you. I would take some pressure off yourself and don't try to be something you are not. Take up some new activities/sport/interests and get involved with clubs and groups. It is an easier way to meet people and means the focus is not just on you. Spend time with the people who know you well and be kind to yourself. You are making brave moves and Rome wasn't built in a day.