Does dating prepare you for marriage? Do your parents know that you date? What do you think of premarital sex? And finally, how do you think marriages can be improved in India?
2007-03-01 05:19:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Now dating is a childish game. Marriage is something precious. If you cannot give the value for that, it will be broken like glass. Follow the community guidelines.
2007-03-01 05:27:09 · answer #1 · answered by Expression 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does dating prepare you...?
The concept of dating:
The pair involved in dating should know that they have met to get to know the other person in better terms and to analyse whether they can spend the rest of their life with that particular person comfortably or not.
But half the times, this pair misses out the target. No need to prove this out as we can very well make out - There are more divorces in the societies where dating is prominent.
Dating is a must, and it does make sense, unless you miss the aim of dating. Remeber, whenever you date -
1> Don't get obsessed by the other persons looks or personality.
2> Be original, Don't try to impress. You cannot wear that mask throughout your life.
3> Share your inner feelings, your dreams, your fantasies, your goals. Its important for both, cos once you decide to bind into a relationship, you will need to co-operate with each other in these areas.
4> And specially for guys - Never the hell think about quick sex. Once you find a perfect match for your soul, you will definitely find a perfect match in that girl for your body. TRUST ME!!!
5> Dating is not always a success at the first meet. Give the other person and yourself a second chance.
6> If it still doesn't work out - DON'T WORRY - There are a plenty out there.
Do your parents know...?
They should know. If you cannot be honest with your parents now, you may have troubles when you try to introduce your mate to them
What do you think of pre-marital...?
A BIG NO. Pre marital sex induces problems you can't even wonder of. And if things don't work out between both of you after sex, it would be difficult to come out of relationship.
How do you think marraiges can be...?
Go anywhere in the world, marraiges can only go well if both the partners stick to their commitments.
Be it love marraige or arranged maraige, when it comes to your role after the binding, it's one and the same. It's like singing a duet song, where you don't know what rythm and rhyme to follow. You have to sing your part in accordance with your partner. If he/she is stuck somewhere with the rythm, you need to take control. You don't need to present yourself as the lead singer. The better you are able to contribute, the better the melody.
Divorce rates in India are amongst the lowest in the world. 11 marriages out of 1,000 marriages (around 1 marriage out of 100 marriages) ends up to divorce in India. This figure was even low in 1990. In 1990, 7.40 marriages out of 1,000 marriages ended up in divorce in India.
The divorce rate in India is even quite lower in the villages in India and higher in urban parts of India. These days divorce rates in India’s urban sphere are shooting up.
Divorce rates:
US - 50%
India - 1.1%
At least after reading these statistics, all you Indians out there, develop some respect for your own culture. Stop following west (specially when it comes to sex, relationships, ethics, etc.) if you wanna improve marraiges in the country...
:-)
2007-03-01 16:02:48 · answer #2 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dating is trail run oh no it is anti cultural event we are not suppose to promote it
caste, religion, rich and poor are problems of love marriages
2007-03-01 22:00:17 · answer #3 · answered by The Prince of Egypt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no bisexual mariages allowed
2007-03-03 08:45:03 · answer #4 · answered by faraze1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋