Family & Relationships - 1 March 2007

do you think people who are capable of committing suicide are more than capable of killing somebody else? ie.(murder)

2007-03-01 22:48:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know this guy since highschool and i had a crush on his best friend (who happened to like me to). Anyway when things didnt work out with me and his best friend I started to notice him and well lots of things led to me thinking that he was interested in me. (He asked my number a thew times and i started to see him at places that i hang out ). But he never did something other than that. This has been going on for years! I like him but i know i can live without him. So two weeks ago after not seeing him for a while, me and one of my gf went out and she noticed a guy looking at me. So i turned around and saw him again. Still he didnt do anything! When we were on our way out he called my friend and asked us to have a drink with him. The whole time he talked to my friend and when I said we should leave he asked me for my nr? I said no but my friend gave it to him. A week later he sms me giving me his name and nr !

What on earth am i supposed to do and think now?

2007-03-01 22:47:36 · 7 answers · asked by rissienr 2 in Singles & Dating

I am with a man who cares alot about me, But from the begginning we had so many problems he made my feelings very cold for him. I now am having problems make it right. He lies all the time about stupid stuff and I dont understand why. He knows that this is a real issue for me and it only makes things worse. I always ask him why he is lying and why. Is all he says I am sorry I wont Lie any more. He can talk to me and tell me. I dont no why he is doing this. Can any one tell me why they think he lies And does not have to lie is the whole thing.

2007-03-01 22:46:16 · 13 answers · asked by babycakes3557 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Pub crawl/ Bar hopping ect..

All advice is welcome. Do's & Don'ts, clothes, hair, make-up, flirting tips anything and everything a girl will need.

2007-03-01 22:43:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im a college student..im fall inlove w/ a High School student....she's pretty like a Fairy...she's always in my mind...but im a coward person..i mean little bit shy to court her..but i think she's got crush on me also..i dont want to lose the oppurtunity....I want her to be mine....would someone help me plss...Her name is Clarisse "Lala" Montecillo™...

2007-03-01 22:43:13 · 5 answers · asked by ††kaNji†† b 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 22:38:09 · 11 answers · asked by sameer 1 in Friends

i have 2 sisters.. and i'm the youngest... there's a 8 and 13 year gap between us.. im 14 now.. do u ever feel jelous of ur sisters or brothers?? i have 2 confess that i do.. esp since my sister gets all the freedom.. like my sis and mum went 2 get their hair cut and went shopping.. while i had no idea.. they both saw me.. but never asked me if i wanted 2 ***.. i think it's a bit unfair..

2007-03-01 22:37:52 · 3 answers · asked by I'm insane 3 in Family

I can't imagine how she will react towards me because a lot of people have tried to ask her but she flips.

2007-03-01 22:36:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-01 22:32:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i never planned to meet someone so young. first of all he lied about how old he was he told me he was 34 even though that is younger. I have tried to let him go cause I feel like a mother image. But he keeps begging me to give him a chance. My friends and family say he is nice and if he treats me good go for it. Is this wrong.???

2007-03-01 22:31:26 · 20 answers · asked by babycakes3557 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 22:31:25 · 17 answers · asked by rishi 1 in Friends

I have talked to this guy for awhile in passing and he asked me out in jan - dating ever since. Things are great. He says he will do anything for me and I don't doubt it (he drove 60 miles to take me to breakfast after work one morning).
The problem is me.
On the outside I am friendly and inviting, but I let no one get close to me.
This is because I am a "cold" person. I dont feel much. I am detached - emotionalally and physicially. Last night he said that he loved me, and I could not say anything. Even when we are "together" I am just going through the motions for him. Is there something I can do, he is starting to worry?
Note: I have always been this way. Not just with him.

2007-03-01 22:31:10 · 13 answers · asked by shae b 1 in Singles & Dating

but for now he is in Austria, i and my sister is in u.k so for more than 4 months now he has call me but i think he sometime call my sister, but i belive that there is notthing like relationship btw them.
but when we where in austria he use to tell me that he like my sister the way he likes me and that he also told me to give my relationship as a secret 4 now and he can,t even stand in my sister present and be talking to me, even ti give me a peak. i,m so confused becas it is just as if his friendship with my sister is effecting our relationship, pls tell me what to do

2007-03-01 22:30:53 · 4 answers · asked by sweet 1 in Friends

2007-03-01 22:29:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Does anyone know of Dave Porthouse, comes from Yorkshire originally and moved down South to Kent. Started his own business called BOA Construction????

2007-03-01 22:28:17 · 1 answers · asked by themonstermuncher 1 in Friends

During our sessions, I have noticed that one of my 2 female companions often begins to get jealous and aggressive towards the other one and tries to push her out of the bed. I get over this problem by showing her more attention, but then the other one starts to behave aggressively and tries to scratch the first girl.

How do I make them behave themselves in bed and understand that I love them both equally ?

2007-03-01 22:27:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My wife of 33 years,has lost interest in our sex life.She was also,going down the path,of saying "I think you and I would get on better,if you got your own place. So I got my own place,a flat,which I doubled up as an office...but I was still keen to keep our relationship going so ended up going home every night..having a few drinks on the way home from work..with a few guys in a local club.I was doing 2 jobs a day, and finishing work at 11 pm at night..my wife would be in bed,asleep when I got home at10 pm..and thus,I was having no adult conversation, or as we say "chilling" before I went to bed ! She thought I was having affairs (I wasn't) . and then came her next solution..I don't want you coming home here if you have had a drink.
Together, with my wife sleeping on the edge of the bed for 2 years , and no sex..I began to get the idea,that I wasn't wanted...so I then started playing the field.I love her.I love sex! I had an affair with a nurse, who told everybody ! What should I do ?

2007-03-01 22:25:50 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-01 22:23:00 · 8 answers · asked by sunil d 1 in Friends

serious question, whats the diffrence, what changes in life once you get to 28?

2007-03-01 22:20:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

do you think timing is everything in relationships

2007-03-01 22:20:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this guy that I think I have a crush on. But I don't want to, because I know that he'd NEVER like me back. He's just way too out of my league, plus I think he thinks I'm weird anyway.

I just had a dream about him, we were writing notes back and forth and stuff, and he said that he wanted to be my friend forever or something. And when I woke up I was REALLY sad that it wasn't a dream...

How can I stop liking him? It's so hard to, but I need to.

2007-03-01 22:19:42 · 7 answers · asked by SarangHaeyo 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex of 8 mths broke up with me 1 mth ago. We reached a situation where that was probably for the best because she was adamant her unhapiness over the previous 1 mth was caused by our relationship. That coincided with her suffering from depression which I thought was causing her to be negative about us. She refused to accept this despite her dr saying she was depressed, giving her meds & referring her for counselling (which she says she won't do).

I decided to give her some space and haven't contacted her for 3 & a half weeks. We last spoke 2 days after the break up. She said that "it would be nice to see me when I'm ready" and we agreed to meet after a couple of weeks. I haven't contacted her & she hasn't contacted me.

I have been clear for a few weeks that I want to try & get her back. That is why I decided on no contact, to give her space. I am not sure when to contact her!?

I want to try & get her back but know if I push too much she will pull away

Any thoughts people?

2007-03-01 22:19:39 · 6 answers · asked by bepositive1976 1 in Singles & Dating

my wife gets hit from me (with a warning b4 i do) everytime she doesn't obey what i know she should have to do for the good of us as a family. now i feel tired/bad hitting her and i have decided to give her the authority/responsibility to control our family but i'm not happy with that. please help

2007-03-01 22:15:13 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

At first i thought it was just a cover- so that he does not have to reveal his true feelings, but I am not so sure anymore. He tells me things like "get off me!" and "rape!" And the newest, he tells me my tongue is "slimy"! At first it was funny, but its getting old and I feel like I am the butt-of all his jokes. And almost like the whole relationship is just a big joke to him! Does he not take the relationship seriously? Am I making a big deal out of nothing? Is he just trying to avoid dealing with his feelings?

2007-03-01 22:14:46 · 3 answers · asked by teresaannburr 3 in Singles & Dating

i don't know why people would merry to get a green card? How much would someone really pay to get inside the us?

2007-03-01 22:12:47 · 11 answers · asked by mo1979ca 2 in Singles & Dating

We came to live in Africa on a short contract 18 months ago. Six months later I had to go abroad for 2 months for a major life-saving op. While I was away he started an affair with a local girl who works in the market. He promised he would end it but never did. When I discovered she'd had an abortion and was pregnant again I asked him to leave. Haven't seen him since and am much more at peace, but he sees the boys several times a week. Turns out he's had quite a few affairs. I'm planning to move home with the boys, but once we go it'll be hard for them to see their Dad more than once or twice a year. I think he plans to stay long-term; he's scared he won't get work elsewhere. The school here is not very good and I need family and friends around who love me... But, guys, I need your advice, especially if you grew up with a long-distance Dad. Is this going to work out OK for my boys, or am I making a big mistake? I'd do anything rather than hurt them.

2007-03-01 22:12:47 · 4 answers · asked by clio 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

im so depressed,by boyfriend dumped me even tho he was the one in the wrong,a abusive controling freak.. and im stuck in a crap job away from my friends and family,im lonely and lost my confidence..my work people want to take me out tonight,ive bought a outfit but havent got the confidence to wear it as i think im going to look too overdressed and silly as i dont dress up anyway.. what do you think..its a green and black wrap over dress quite low cut and comes just above the knees with some black leggings and some black heels,im quite pretty,olive skin with caramel brown coloured long hair and slim.do i sound like a hideous freak??

2007-03-01 22:12:02 · 28 answers · asked by ViXoNvEe 2 in Singles & Dating

one of my m8s has took me of as her other half on bebo and made me her 4th m8 when i was 2nd before ,proberly cos i worrie about her abit , other m8s dont want to met me cos there busy etc and i have done nothing to them what can i do , now im feeling low

2007-03-01 22:12:01 · 6 answers · asked by ak222002 4 in Friends

I hav a moblie phone but i dont hav the sweet words that i can txt her... co i hav told her that i love you so many times.. plse help//

2007-03-01 22:11:40 · 7 answers · asked by Earlbunny 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 22:11:27 · 8 answers · asked by jagriti b 1 in Singles & Dating