I know this guy since highschool and i had a crush on his best friend (who happened to like me to). Anyway when things didnt work out with me and his best friend I started to notice him and well lots of things led to me thinking that he was interested in me. (He asked my number a thew times and i started to see him at places that i hang out ). But he never did something other than that. This has been going on for years! I like him but i know i can live without him. So two weeks ago after not seeing him for a while, me and one of my gf went out and she noticed a guy looking at me. So i turned around and saw him again. Still he didnt do anything! When we were on our way out he called my friend and asked us to have a drink with him. The whole time he talked to my friend and when I said we should leave he asked me for my nr? I said no but my friend gave it to him. A week later he sms me giving me his name and nr !
What on earth am i supposed to do and think now?
2007-03-01 22:47:36 · 7 answers · asked by rissienr 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. He is GAY.
2. Or he just isn't that into you. Stop wasting your life and time.
2007-03-01 22:52:03 · answer #1 · answered by Alea S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This was very confusing but, I think I understand. A guy you know and you have a crush on his best friend. Now his best friend wants your # and he's calling you. HHHHMMM...... well did you gave him a shot at it? Start at friendship (always) then later on if y'all get more intreasted in each other, then take it up. He might be too shy too. Need more help? Go straight to www.lovingyou.com for more help. Good Luck!
2007-03-01 22:57:19 · answer #2 · answered by Robby M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy does like you.He just don't want to hurt his best friend.He's kinda leaving it all up to you to make the decision.He don't want to step on anyone's feet or break up a relationship.You need to make a choice.If you like the guy that much(think about him more than you're b/f,fantasize about him,and have strong feelings for him)then you should break it off with you're b/f and give yourself time to think about what you want.If you dont feel this way,let him know that so he will leave you alone and pay attention to other wemen.
2007-03-01 22:57:24 · answer #3 · answered by mygrandparentsrthebestintheworld 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may have paid attention to your friend because he was hurt, jealous, or angry that you were first with his best friend instead of him so he was "doing the same thing" to you with your friend or he may not know who or what he wants and thinks he is going to date you both
Either way, it does not sound like he is ready for any serious relationship at this point
Be bold and brave and ask him! I wouldn't play fifty guesses, I would ask him (always keeping in mind that he may or may not be honest with his answer) no one can say without knowing him
Be careful and do not get hurt from this situation.
2007-03-01 22:58:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but this guy is just fishing for recreation he aint looking to catch. Do what feels right for you?! At the end of the day its up to you, regardless of all our answers posted here......
2007-03-01 22:58:24 · answer #5 · answered by munchkin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh?
2007-03-01 22:52:16 · answer #6 · answered by dcam47 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
baby gal follow ur heart.
2007-03-01 22:52:39 · answer #7 · answered by Jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋