i never planned to meet someone so young. first of all he lied about how old he was he told me he was 34 even though that is younger. I have tried to let him go cause I feel like a mother image. But he keeps begging me to give him a chance. My friends and family say he is nice and if he treats me good go for it. Is this wrong.???
2007-03-01 22:31:26 · 20 answers · asked by babycakes3557 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No not at all, I use to date an older woman myself. I was 18 and she was 34. Some women don't reach their sexual peak until their 40's. Men around that age actually lose sexual drive, while 20 year old men are also in their peak. The two are sexually compatible...Only problem is the age gap will get more evident within time. Like in 20 years he will be 43 and you will be 69... see what I mean? It's ok for sexual fufillment right now..but you just cant expect nothing serious.....
P.s feel free to e-mail me if u wann talk about it some more ***wink***wink, I love older women, they are the best!
2007-03-01 22:43:11 · answer #1 · answered by yellowmedia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion it is what you both feel together. But the age will soon catch up on you. I have an ex who is with someone 20 years older and it is disgraces me to bits as they lie about their relationship and rip the system off. I wish he met someone that was younger and had a family.
He is wasting time. I think that you would feel like a mother image. I would not go out with someone more than 10years my senior or 2 years my junior because the age gap is too much.
2007-03-01 22:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,it's wrong.He's got a life ahead of him that you would be taking away.A life you've all ready lived that he has yet to experience.He's so young and naive that you're not going to be able to talk sense into him about the situation.One day he may want kids you can no longer have or may not want at you're age.I think if you were to stay with him in the long run you would be the one to get hurt.Same thing happened to my sister in law. After being married to the guy for 8 yrs.(her kids were 15 and 17) he strayed off with a woman his age and they have kids now.He's a good man and father.I knew it wouldn't last from the beginning because of the age difference.
2007-03-01 22:44:10 · answer #3 · answered by mygrandparentsrthebestintheworld 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think this is a problem as far as age goes. The only problem I see the two of you having is different goals in the future. You are at two different stages in your lives. At 23 I was just starting my adult life. I had just gotten married, new job that I thought would be my last, just bought a house. At 49 my mother was looking forward towards retirement.
2007-03-01 22:43:12 · answer #4 · answered by vospire s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with it lets say love has no barrier
but we have to be practical in life let say 10 years from now
do you think life is still promising??what happens when he wants to start a family,,,,kids,what happens when the passion run out?
if it happen in a reverse gender a man 49---lady23 every body will say cool dude you are a real stud!!!now a days you can read about this kind of relationship in the intertainment world but who last long and how long it last?every body will say ok it is a trend in hollywood they changed boyfriend faster than their under wear but every body has excuses---fashion
sorry if i am too direct wish you goodluck!!!
2007-03-01 23:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand maybe wanting a young thing to play with, but why did you not talk yourself out of it being someone young enough to be your child? That is way too much difference in age. If you had said 30 it wouldn't have seemed so bad.
2007-03-01 23:10:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not wrong- and age is just a number. I never planned on seeing a
nineteen year old! He, too lied about his age. And to prove my point- I actually learned a few things from him! So, age really is just a number...and I read somewhere that guys with older chicks are more sexually compatible!
2007-03-01 22:46:35 · answer #7 · answered by teresaannburr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think age necessarily dictates relationships, but you are almost 50 and he is just barely out of college by his age. What can you have in common? Your life experience is so much greater than his and you must have different desires and goals in life. I am not saying you should break it off or anything, just be prepared for all those age difference obstacles.
2007-03-01 23:31:12 · answer #8 · answered by crackermelons 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he lied to you. A real boyfriend wouldn't have lied to you about anything. Age is really important though especially if it's a really huge age gap. Your friends and family don't make the decision... what does your heart tell you?
2007-03-01 22:37:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He maybe messed up. I mean, I have seen pics of old ladies on the internet getting busy with young bucks & it makes me wanna throw up. Liver spots, operation scars, veins busing out, how the h*#% does a dude get excited over that? Your boy needs a night out with me and my buddies. We'll hook him up with some 19 year old stuff that will rock his world.
2014-12-04 15:21:14 · answer #10 · answered by KhrisB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋