There is this guy that I think I have a crush on. But I don't want to, because I know that he'd NEVER like me back. He's just way too out of my league, plus I think he thinks I'm weird anyway.
I just had a dream about him, we were writing notes back and forth and stuff, and he said that he wanted to be my friend forever or something. And when I woke up I was REALLY sad that it wasn't a dream...
How can I stop liking him? It's so hard to, but I need to.
2007-03-01 22:19:42 · 7 answers · asked by SarangHaeyo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is like you said, a crush...get over it because if you r not in his league and you think he thinks you are weird, he probably does think you r weird. You have instinct and this is how you are feeling the vibes you r from him. Listen to your instincts, it is like an eighth sense. Some women have this and when they learn how to handle it they know how much happier they are for listening to it...This guy would control you anyways, if there was a chance for you and him...Just get away from him and wait for someone you feel comfortable with...
2007-03-01 22:29:06 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Minnie Mouse♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't really stop your emotions. If you like him it's not easy to stop unless you find someone else.
Oh And when you said you know he'll never like you, are you sure, after all love moves in mysterious ways and you can never really tell what the future has in store for you. So there's still that possibility. After all Love is all about taking risks even though it seems so impossible. Anything is possible as oong as you put your mind into it.
AS What Leo Buscaglia said
" To Love is to risk not being loved in return,
And That's Alright too.
We Love because of love.
Not to get something back.
To hope is to risk pain,
To try is to risk failure,
But risks must be taken, because
the greatest hazard in lifeis to risk nothing.
The person who risk nothing does nothing, has nothing, and is nothing. He May avoid suffering and sorrow but he can't learn
feel, change, grow. He has forfieted his greatest trait and thats his induvidual freedom
ONLY THE PERSON WHO RISK IS FREE."
Although pain and disappointment is in store for you, you must remember those things come with love, there's no love that's pain free after all. Even true love has disagreements sometimes
Love is like handing someone a gun and trusting them never to pull the trigger. As difficult as it is it's true.
But remember that a heartbreak is always a blessing, it may be the worst nightmaire but it's only Gods way of saving u from the wrong person.
We simply have to accept that love and life always has and will have pain and disappointment
2007-03-02 06:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by Love or hate? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just try to stop looking at him and thinking about him, find another guy that you have interest in, so you don't think of him and then eventually that person will get out of your mind. That's what's happening to me right now. Sometimes even time will pass and you'll forget all about him. I know how you feel I was there, but I started liking another guy, single and I think we have something going.
2007-03-02 06:31:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he "out of your league"?
I think you should find a way to get to know him before you decide if you really like him.
Sometimes, being weird can be really attractive. You never know.
2007-03-02 06:42:15 · answer #4 · answered by Joe Bostonian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know you're interested in him in THAT way, its oneway to kill this urge. There is another way though perhaps, and that is to start dating a lot of other guys, and that can take your mind off of this one.
2007-03-02 06:26:38 · answer #5 · answered by money maker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think...be practical...just tell him you like him as a friend...nothing's wrong to tell a friend you like him or her
2007-03-02 06:29:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop smokin dope.
2007-03-02 06:23:34 · answer #7 · answered by dcam47 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋