I am with a man who cares alot about me, But from the begginning we had so many problems he made my feelings very cold for him. I now am having problems make it right. He lies all the time about stupid stuff and I dont understand why. He knows that this is a real issue for me and it only makes things worse. I always ask him why he is lying and why. Is all he says I am sorry I wont Lie any more. He can talk to me and tell me. I dont no why he is doing this. Can any one tell me why they think he lies And does not have to lie is the whole thing.
2007-03-01 22:46:16 · 13 answers · asked by babycakes3557 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
leave him
you are only hurting yourself........ this is NOT a healthy relationship
2007-03-01 22:49:08 · answer #1 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there are many possibilities.
He could well just be a compulsive lier who feels as though he has to lie to you in order to getr you off his back.
Another reason, although quite harsh could be that he is seeing someone behind your back and is looking for things to argue with you about. You must be careful in a situation like this as you may find yourself getting very hurt.Take head, sit down and tell him to be real with you, and only then will you get the answer you deserve.
2007-03-01 22:52:33 · answer #2 · answered by Key Lo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is lying because he is frightened of something. Maybe if he goes to see a counsellor or a psychotherapist this issue can be sorted out? Having said that, you don't seem to feel that strongly for him, so it may be best to move on from the relationship. If you do still love him, then attempt to sort the problem out, but if you don't, then it sound like a real no=hoper to me.
2007-03-01 23:51:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhhhh did you know some thing you move my Payne cause i have same thing with my girlfriend so look how i solve my problem....all the time i was angry with her until some day she call me then i told her i must see her then when i saw her i told her every thing that she was lied on me then i told her you have tow way one stop lair and stay together or still lie and we break up so she chose the right decision and i think she is stop lying now , so may be this will help you
2007-03-01 23:10:44 · answer #4 · answered by pantera_hdr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he lies to pretend he is someone that he is not. He is also a very deceitful man and will only cause problems for you. This is an opportunity to leave the relationship and find someone that you can trust. You have signs now leave and move on to someone that full fills your happiness.
2007-03-01 22:50:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can explain why he lies except for him. If he lvoes you you are very lucky.
If this gets you down, you should suggest going for couples therapy (its the things to do these days). This might help him talk more openly, and explain why he lies.
If he doesnt agree to this, buy a book in this area.
Then try yourself.
If things are still no working out, then be honet with yourself and do yoruself a favour. You deserve a man who loves you, but you also deserve hoensty from both him and yourself!
2007-03-01 22:52:29 · answer #6 · answered by Frenchie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him he will never change and saying sorry repeatledly is only an excuse because if he meant it he would change and stop doing it so you should just move on and find someone who will appreciate you..
2007-03-01 22:51:49 · answer #7 · answered by Denny O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look!whether he lies to win ur love? is there any lack of communication b/w u? if yes, then u should open it up. also c whether u have created any over-expectation from him? so he fears he would lose u if he fails, so he lies to u.
look all aspects first.
2007-03-01 23:01:32 · answer #8 · answered by alone in 6billion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters you have lost interest and i see no point of you staying with someone that you no longer love. It's time you started to put you interests before his. You should try to put yourself first and don't try to stay with him just to spare his feelings.
2007-03-01 22:55:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why he lies. If the answer doesn't do it for you, and he keeps doing it-----leave him and move on.
2007-03-01 22:52:22 · answer #10 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really cared for dnt be lieing to you.... if your feelings have change torward him break up with him. its not fair for you to have to deal with someone you dont even trust. its gonna hurt him at first. but he'll get over it. because things happen for a reason. you dont love him because your not suppose to. your meant to be with someone else.
2007-03-01 22:51:01 · answer #11 · answered by Pookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋