im so depressed,by boyfriend dumped me even tho he was the one in the wrong,a abusive controling freak.. and im stuck in a crap job away from my friends and family,im lonely and lost my confidence..my work people want to take me out tonight,ive bought a outfit but havent got the confidence to wear it as i think im going to look too overdressed and silly as i dont dress up anyway.. what do you think..its a green and black wrap over dress quite low cut and comes just above the knees with some black leggings and some black heels,im quite pretty,olive skin with caramel brown coloured long hair and slim.do i sound like a hideous freak??
2007-03-01 22:12:02 · 28 answers · asked by ViXoNvEe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a hug would def. help you
keep your shin up and smile
2007-03-01 22:14:41 · answer #1 · answered by Paula 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to look FAB tonight and you are really going to turn some heads and all for the right reasons. So go on out tonight sweetness have a great time, forget that loser of a ex-boyfriend and really paint the town red.
When you are ready you will find another job and start over again, it'll take a bit of time that's all. Your confidence has been knocked, but it will bounce back starting with tonight.
Have a great time, I'm sure you will. Wish I could be there.
Marcus X
2007-03-01 22:18:06 · answer #2 · answered by The Alchemist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! You sound like someone that has been stuck in an abusive controlling relationship.
Now that you are allowed to go out with your work (people) do it and maybe you will have a blast.
Maybe you will see past your own self pity and see that these (people) are actually your mates and really do give a ****!!
You are free at last, now you can find and be your wonderful self and attract the friendships and love YOU deserve.
Good luck :-)
2007-03-01 22:25:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you don't sound like a freak just a lost soul looking for love have you thought of taking a few days of and go vist home for some TLC think over your job and situation with your family when you are so low family is the best for tonight you must try and go you will proberly be supprised and have a great time and you never know mr wright may be there to chin up hinny have a great time
2007-03-01 22:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by old-bag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre better off without him. Find someone who will treat you like a queen.
Who cares if you're over dressed? wear the dress. You'll feel great, and people will definitely notice you. I've dressed up to go to a pool hall before. I was definitely in the minority but I didnt care. It felt good to dress up and look nice for a while.
Go out, have fun, forget about your loser boyfriend, and be confident that you're definitely going to be turning a few heads tonight.
2007-03-01 22:18:10 · answer #5 · answered by I love you when you dont suck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound normal, not like a freak.
Go out! wear that suit you bought and don't even worry about how you look. So what if you even ARE over dressed. It's okay!
You do need to go out and find someone else that will treat you better, and if you hate your job it's obviously time to start looking for better employment.
Don't worry about what everyone will think of you. That's what holds you down in life.
2007-03-01 22:16:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't, now is the time to start over, you got shot of the looser b/f now go out tonight with your work friends, dress up in this new outfit and knock them all out, just go and relax, you think you are pretty so your self esteem is not that low, so go on get out thereand have some fun and get a new b/f when you are ready, but give yourself time to recover.
2007-03-01 22:16:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep your hair and makeup tasteful- Like, you don't want to do your face like Mimi from Drew Carey...and you do not want any Janet Jackson incidents either- just make sure nothing is going to fall/pop out anywhere! If its really low cut- you may want to use a safety pin...but other than that, it sounds perfect! And just remember -KISS
Keep
It
Simple
Stupid
And better over dressed than under dressed- (and over dressed would be a ball gown and glass slippers!)
2007-03-01 22:27:01 · answer #8 · answered by teresaannburr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thank god you've got rid of your b/f his abuse and controlling nature has took your confidence for a nose dive, your outfit sounds lovely so get it on ,and get out there and have a great time, act confident, even pretend you feel confident and by the end of your night you will know your work mates better and you will feel more confident for the next time you's all go out and before long you will meet a lovely lad who you will not allow to treat you bad and who will not want to treat you bad, good luck and have a great night
2007-03-01 22:24:16 · answer #9 · answered by angie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys that are based on those features do it becasue they are affraid of loosing you. you are always pretty no-matter what as long as you think u are. He was an asshole and if i could personallyy take u out and have fun i would no joke. Not all guys are like that, i know im not and just becasue he treated you like that dont think less of urself. He did it becasue you ARE better then him and he was VERY!!!! wrong in his treatment of you. You will be fine, you sound strong enough to support urself and you have friend to watch your back. Dont Worry...that ******* wont bother you again. Your Beautiful as long as YOU think you are.
2007-03-01 22:17:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-24 01:47:53 · answer #11 · answered by tatum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋